That will be the beginning of the end , 

Give him the deuces and call it a day!

I will make sure i castrate him/her alive

There'l be no wedding the next day

Call off d damned wedding. No man is worth me exchanging fisticuffs over

bukkie80:

That will be the beginning of the end ,

As in, you know, say what . . .

you mean it wont end right there??

Kokoye I will still go ahead with the wedding but wont contract marriage with him. It will be a mission accomplished in the presence of friends and relatives. He doesnt deserve me.

go ahead with the wedding . . .

but wont contract marriage with him. .



you lost me there.

@poster, you are talking abt some movie here rite?

@kokoye, the wedding will be called off right in the public. Everybody must know the stuff he's made off. I cant stick to such a man.

This is really a hard one,well i won't call off the wedding cos considering the money,time & energy my family & friends must have contributed will be a waste if its off,i'll be very mad at him but i'll dialogue,i know there's no justification 4 what he did but i believe d devil u know is better thantd angel u dont know,who says the next man won't cheat?

It's probably 'allowed' for men. Isn't that the implicit idea behind bachelor's eve? Even the bride's parents would laugh off the idea of cancelling the wedding just because the groom was caught sowing the last remnants of his wild oats prior to the wedding.

BUT imagine a would-be bride caught getting doggystyyled by some goat on the night before her wedding! And she'll have the nerve to wear a sparkling white gown the next morning to signify her 'purity'? That wedding would be converted to her funeral.

pro01:

It's probably 'allowed' for men. Isn't that the implicit idea behind bachelor's eve? Even the bride's parents would laugh off the idea of cancelling the wedding just because the groom was caught sowing the last remnants of his wild oats prior to the wedding.

BUT imagine a would-be bride caught getting doggystyyled by some goat on the night before her wedding! And she'll have the nerve to wear a sparkling white gown the next morning to signify her 'purity'? That wedding would be converted to her funeral.

Dont you ever get tired of making silly hypocritical suggestions about the suprerioty of your gender

I'll forgive him and go ahead with the wedding.

This will be very hard to bear because you'll have to live with it forever. If you ever over look this kind of cheat be prepared for more.

Ujujoan:

Dont you ever get tired of making silly hypocritical suggestions about the suprerioty of your gender

And don't you ever get tired of living in blissful denial of the (albeit bitter) truth? Don't start oh. Ujujoan my loffly enemy.

Wil act like i dint c him. Marry him and punish him for a long time until he becomes as lean as a broomstick. Nt forgetin makin sure whenever i wana hav sex we use condom

i will take it as his parting gift to all the bitches that he is leaving for me

i will take it as his parting gift to her for leaving her. but would ensure we dialogue about it so that nothing of such would happen in matrimony. easier said than done though

iyatrustee:

i will take it as his parting gift to all the bitches that he is leaving for me

Thats eactly what it is. And women like you who realize, understand and accept the social-cultural realities of both sexes are more likely to enjoy your marriages than the deluded 'equal rights', 'you-do-I-also-do' feminists.

pro01:

Thats eactly what it is. And women like you who realize, understand and accept the social-cultural realities of both sexes are more likely to enjoy your marriages than the deluded 'equal rights', 'you-do-I-also-do' feminists.

You mean embrace a life of sharing him with other women? Cos I promise you, it won't end there! Just because you are the missus doesnt mean you'll be the only one seeing his d1k. It'll just mean you'll be his poultry!   

pro01:

And don't you ever get tired of living in blissful denial of the (albeit bitter) truth? Don't start oh. Ujujoan my loffly enemy.

I'm not living in denial, I just have higher standards than most! 

My would be husband ll b 2 decent 4dt.

the wedding will still hold as not to bring shame to myself and family,but the wedding day could be the last time i set my eyes on the would be wife, before the following year i would have put myself together as to marry another girl,after all the traitor is not the only living girl on earth

Ujujoan:

You mean embrace a life of sharing him with other women? Cos I promise you, it won't end there! Just because you are the missus doesnt mean you'll be the only one seeing his d1k. It'll just mean you'll be his poultry!   

Thats a rather sour way of looking at it. As if the 'chicks' you produce would be his alone and not yours too. Besides, wouldnt you have the enviable position of being the official 'live in' beneficiary (or 'Oliaku') of his successes. . .and become the First Lady' when he becomes gov or prez and whatnot? Don't forget that poor men are too wearied by life's travails and 'owu-ism' to ever think of philandering, so we're talking of only well to do men here.

I'm not living in denial, I just have higher standards than most! 

Luckily for you, there are still many suckers for babes with 'high standards'. It's the same queer and bemusing thirst for 'high standards' that make some of us  buy Star lager beer @ N1200 @ News Cafe Lounge when the same bottle with same quality sells for NI60 elsewhere in the same mall. So there's always a niche market for 'higher standards'. . .even if no decipherable difference exists between regular standards and higher standards. So you may find that your niche market type of husband afterall.

bayor48:

I will make sure i castrate him/her alive

Him/Her Do u swing both ways?

@OP

''Pray'' 4 her (hope u noticed the sarcasm)