NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

illitrate:
Wrong, God designed marriage for singles. The ladies are not married because they ain't single.

You have to be single before you can be married.

illitrate:
Wrong, God designed marriage for singles. The ladies are not married because they ain't single.

You have to be single before you can be married.

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

Easybela:
There weddings every Saturday either in your area or somewhere else.
There are women that have about 3 or more suitors,each competing to marry her.
As much as our guys are going outside, other men from outside are equally here.
You are entitled to your opinion though but one thing I know is that these women ain't ready to settle yet,they spend much time working on their outward appearance instead of amending their character and until the later is taken care of,they will all attend shilloh at 35.

illitrate:
Wrong, God designed marriage for singles. The ladies are not married because they ain't single.

You have to be single before you can be married.

Godfullsam:


I dont agree with you. Most guys who travel abroard always come back home whenever they are ready for marriage.

The fact that most guys want to leave this shithote to a saner country is not a mojor reason why most ladies dont find it easy to get husband in nigeria.

The reason lies within the ladies and not the economy

Pharaoh4rin:
One of d reasons I find out is: the responsibility in marriage such as accommodation, feeding, clothing, health care, omugwo etc is so scary coupled with multiple taxation that threatens one's Business this days. It's crazy

AntiMCU:


I was expecting you to bring this up.

Of course, it's not every guy that'll go outside and true that weddings are still happening every weekend.

Mind you, not every man that disturbs a lady has marriage in mind.

All I'm saying is that don't rule out the OP's statement.

There are many reasons why we have single ladies and the fact that some young guys (Including yours truly) want to leave the shores of this country for a better climate is one of them.

Whenever the word marriage is mentioned, the first question I ask myself is: "What's the future of my kids in this S**thole?"

NiRfreak:
If we all notice of late, unlike in those days, we will realise there is this proliferation of guys who are well into their late 20s and early 30s yet still having no mind to take a lady serious in relationship that may culminate in marriage. In fact their mind is far from marriage and on something else - which is, travelling out of this country.

Yes that's the truth and the reason many guys aren't planning to marry is because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so there's no point to form a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out of the country.

So ladies, here you have it, the reason you can't find a husband today is mostly not about you but the guys who all are bent on leaving this shit hole, cos an average guy of marriageable age today is planning to leave the country, In fact has been denied visa a multiple times yet not giving up.
Many guys won't tell you this, but it's the fact. May God provide your husband.

NiRfreak:


Honestly when u look at what you're passing through, and the hopeless state of the nation, coupled with the mass stupidity of Nigerians, u will think twice to bring a kid into this shithole

ImaIma1:


Yet two male friends and a male colleague got married just this past Saturday. Nigerian guys and they married Nigerian ladies.

Seems some of you guys here are not living in the real world..

NiRfreak:


Economy is bad, so most guys are saving to leave this country, unlike when guys will save to get married.

NiRfreak:

Yes, that's the truth. It's a reason many guys aren't planning to marry because they set their eyes on crossing the frontiers of this wretched country into a more sane country, so they feel there's no point in forming a serious marriage oriented relationship because the goal is to jet out.

Sidenote: the idi0t under me called pocohantas only commented on this thread because she saw me comment. How do I know this? because she and her minions have made it a perpetual habit of doing so (just visit any thread in the family section). Moreso, as you can see, her numerous rants on this thread shows an individual who clearly lacks common sense and foresight. Any opportunity to insult guys ey? Because no one wants you? Frustration won't kill you girl

ImaIma1:


Yet two male friends and a male colleague got married just this past Saturday. Nigerian guys and they married Nigerian ladies.

Seems some of you guys here are not living in the real world..

pocohantas:


They live in Romance section.

Guys in Nigeria want to bail out- fine.

So, the same Naija guys who are broke and ladies are advised to drop their gold-digging to build with them. Are suddenly the same men that have millions to travel abroad- hence the high single ladies. Wonderful.

What of the numerous guys abroad that will come home this Xmas to pick wives?
Does that balance the equation?

People wey wan marry go marry.

pocohantas:


They live in Romance section.

Guys in Nigeria want to bail out- fine.

So, the same Naija guys who are broke and ladies are advised to drop their gold-digging to build with them. Are suddenly the same men that have millions to travel abroad- hence the high single ladies. Wonderful.

What of the numerous guys abroad that will come home this Xmas to pick wives?
Does that balance the equation?

People wey wan marry go marry.

NiRfreak:


Instead of directing your anger at the bad economy, you are blaming guys. Most guys will be more serious with relationship if the economy and take home pay were favourable enough to cater for livelihood. This is a fact

AntiMCU:

Second wives you mean?

pocohantas:


You have a problem reading or what?

Which part of my post blamed guys?
Abeg, I no get time to argue with man.



Not every guy abroad is married to a grave.