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Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Nobody: 10:16pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
ladies,tell me, how often do you expect your guy to give you money? do you ask him for money on every pay day? been having this issue with my gf( dating for more dan a year now and very serious), bt she ask me for money most time but she is a good girl and all, and we are planning to settle down in nearest future. but is it healthy for a young girl(with well to do parenst)to keep asking her bf for money on mostly end of the month i just started work(five months) advise needed |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Dsense(m): 10:40pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
Can't help it But seriously it depends,Not all gals asks for money like ma gal for instance ,she will never ask for money evn she's really in need of it nd she's sure i av it .But ofcourse i know when she needs nd give her. So back to the topic: your gal asking u for money doesn't mean she's dating u for money nd at the same time doesn't mean she's doesn't u for love.But u should be able to differentiate btw if some loves u or not ,So if she does love u nd ask for money always it means nothing bcoz she just needs it nd couldn't ask anybody else but u. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Yorisb: 11:01pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
Why she go ask me 4 money, Am i her parents? Shiorrr! 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Nobody: 11:05pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
She nofit. If she does, i no go answer am 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Coolabbie: 11:12pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
Yorisb: toba:A bunch of caring men. 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Yorisb: 11:29pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
Coolabbie: And I could tell a leech already 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MsPotato(f): 11:53pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
I do not ask my bf for a cent in his entire life and I will never will. . . My bf still calls me ego and proud of it. Well, to be honest I am proud of it cause I am working and I have my own money. I dont need to be feeding from his money. What for? Am I that selfish? I think if a girl is working, she should be bearing for her own financial expenses espcially when she is not married just yet. But even when she is married and working, she should be able to handle some financial burdens for the family as well. Not everything has to be about the guy. . .Like seriouly. . . In past centuries, the guys are the one settling all the financial burdens because the females have no right to be employed and to earn a salary or even if hey wre bein employed, its to be maids and with a small pay. Unless if she is a pr0st1tut3 but which pr0st1tut3 that time is married? 6 Likes |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Dsense(m): 11:56pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
Ms. Potato:Would it mean anything to u if u would ask him for money.And what it ll mean to u when asking ur HUSBAND ,ur HALF-PART money . |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:58pm On Nov 04, 2010 |
goodsegs: only your child and wife should ask you for money the rest you give when you feel like 3 Likes |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MsPotato(f): 12:01am On Nov 05, 2010 |
D-sense: It will mean everything to me because if I have my own and I still want my husband/bf own?I mean common. . . wouldnt that make me selfish? He has a life as well. He has his own ecpenses as well. . . And nver will I ask him for a cent not even when we are married. But the honest problem here is my bf thinks like the 11th century men where he has to give me money everytime. . . So its kinda frustrating |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MsPotato(f): 12:04am On Nov 05, 2010 |
goodsegs: U need to tell her how you feel. And perhaps you should both sit down and come to an agreement. Tell her that u should be not obligated to give her money every month but you will give her out of your own expense and time. tell her that u have expenses to settle too every month and she needs to understand that. if she doesnt, that means she might be a potential Gold Digger. (no offence) |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Dsense(m): 12:07am On Nov 05, 2010 |
Ms. Potato:Hmmmm,But doubtful points |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MsPotato(f): 12:08am On Nov 05, 2010 |
D-sense: What do u mean? |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Dsense(m): 12:13am On Nov 05, 2010 |
I mean there is no bid deal in my wife asking me for money ''what;s wrong with that''.and if she can't ask me ,Who would she ask,Same goes with me if i don't give her ,Who would i give. It's a very light nd simple mentality ''U can ask Love''husband '' for money nd he should be able to do the same.'' |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MsPotato(f): 12:20am On Nov 05, 2010 |
D-sense: But the thing is why would I ask him for money when I dont need aditional money? is the money for me to collect dust? Im a very low maintenance kinda person and Budgetary Control is my talent |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Yorisb: 7:20am On Nov 05, 2010 |
D-sense: Different kettle of fish |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by deelady(f): 8:00am On Nov 05, 2010 |
D-sense: @ OP. . .dis is a sensible comment/advice and as som1 also said, u nd ur gurl can come 2 an agreement afta explainin it 2her. Hope u dnt get misled! |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Nobody: 10:06am On Nov 05, 2010 |
i hate it when she continuously ask me for money, it makes me feel sick about the relationship. she wasnt like that when i was asking her out, she would hardly eat then if i took her out, she would even ask me not to send her calling cards, she was nicer then and i was always ready to do more for her. , and funny thing is, i cant lie to her about my incomes, , this last month end, she asked me for money, i said i dont have that i have alot of stuffs to do, then the fights starts again. am hating her attitude but i really love her |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by iice(f): 10:10am On Nov 05, 2010 |
Well have a talk with her. I've never asked and i don't accept. Unless its in the form of food, keep it. |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MissyB3(f): 10:24am On Nov 05, 2010 |
goodsegs:Where are sissies like you from? Jeez! See him whining on NL. I expect that if one doesn't like a particular character in his woman, he should speak out, and speak out loud enough to pass the message across. She would fight you? Fight her back. Maybe that way, she would get the message and learn some manners. Where do Y'all pick these children? Her parents nor deh? She break hand that she can't work and earn her own money?Why would she think It's her right to spend your money with you? Seriously, are you considering settling down with her? It's your fault. . . . .You have a share of the blame. |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by yme1(f): 10:30am On Nov 05, 2010 |
LOL!!! that babe is a moda fu>cking money vampire sucker you had berra talk to her about it before she drains you |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Wislet(f): 10:36am On Nov 05, 2010 |
Askin 4 money? Lol. Wen i found and stil find it difficult askin my papa 4 anythin at all. I never ask and i return any given 2 me without my consent- unless it's in form of gifts from relations and close friends. Send me credit if u ain't my bf or family. .and ur account receives it back before u say Jack. No guy can come out & say he gave me dis or dat- am proud of dat. I hav my principles & luv bein independent. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Wislet(f): 10:44am On Nov 05, 2010 |
@missy bee. . . Pls ask him o! Why would a GIRLFRIEND be quarrelling wit u over ur own money? Wat would she then do wen she attains WIFE? Burn down ur house or refuse u food? U men had better wake up and stop being silly. Is she living in de same house wit u, and does she perform de roles of a wife already? If yes, no wonder u have no respect in dat area. . . . Dat's why i admire principled & mature men. |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Creamish(f): 10:55am On Nov 05, 2010 |
Im an independent working class professional . . so it's rarely for me . . I can fend for maself. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by jaybee3(m): 10:57am On Nov 05, 2010 |
I know a girl that will happily give me everything but never collects anything from me even though i've pestered her time and time again Maybe it's got something to do with culture sha 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Dyt(f): 11:03am On Nov 05, 2010 |
i wish i had dat liver 2 ask n dat freedom 2 take wen given bt poster i think its d level of your closeness dat matas bt dat of pickin up a fyt i dont buy it bt 2 me if i eva v dat guts 2 ask 4 moni den we really must b close lyk real close n really poster she doesnt nt v 2 ask b4 u give na 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by safarigirl(f): 11:30am On Nov 05, 2010 |
It's very hard 4 me 2 ask any guy 4 money, it's almost degrading if i may use dat word, so i wudn't ask ma bf 4 a cent. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MissyB3(f): 11:54am On Nov 05, 2010 |
safarigirl:Honestly, I see it that way too. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by MrCork26: 11:58am On Nov 05, 2010 |
to be honest , Nigerian womens have always been gold diggers back from stone age period, they love moiney2much (no oofeinse) 1 Like |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Wislet(f): 12:07pm On Nov 05, 2010 |
jay bee:she igbo aight? |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Wislet(f): 12:08pm On Nov 05, 2010 |
Mr~Cork:*poos on his head* |
Re: Ladies, How Often Do You Ask Your Boyfriend for Money by Dyt(f): 12:11pm On Nov 05, 2010 |
Mr~Cork: ode nie 1 Like |
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