I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

Get a job and pay your own bills. Dare to be different, don't be a leech

the above says it all.... obviously u have no shame writing this here so, look at it this way, if u are going to come up with the excuse that he sleeps with you. then u might as well declear your true nature and profession which could justify u asking for rent money...make sense?

Girl,work on him wella,men pay bills for dynamic women,and I know u r dynamic

Lol ask him for rent money? This is a joke, right?

I wish you could be another person and come and read your own post... I want to ignorantly believe that your IQ is as low as that of a cockroach... Is he your husband?.

yomalex: Get a job and pay your own bills. Dare to be different, don't be a leech

I tire o

No nonsensical contributions, thank you
Advice from matured people

Dating him is now a privilege isn't it?

Pay your own damn rent

Why would you want a man that isn't married to you be responsible for you?

Hey! c'mmon dearie...
u're free 2 use d atm anytym...

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

what about the time 4 sex.....mtcheeeew

U need an advice?? Be independent..if u're already working.. Pay ur bills.. If u're still a student.. Ask ur parents for it

How about ...NEVER.

Ask him for rent money, is he your Father?

If you move in with him, are you going to be contributing to the rent or leeching off him?

jay bee: Dating him is now a privilege isn't it?

Pay your own damn rent

Why would you want a man that isn't married to you be responsible for you?

+1

folly65: U need an advice?? Be independent..if u're already working.. Pay ur bills.. If u're still a student.. Ask ur parents for it

+1

If there is a right time to have sex with him and cook for him before marriage, why is there not a right time to ask for money for rent before marriage?

mizzocho.cinco:
If there is a right time to have sex with him and cook for him before marriage, why is there not a right time to ask for money for rent before marriage?

You are sounding even more ridiculous by the minute. Just a big wow at your attempt at trying to justify your thought process.

Anyway, he didn't force you to have sex neither was cooking for him a condition for your relationship. You did the two on your own accord so stop trying to find reasons for having a cheap mentality

mizzocho.cinco:
I have been dating my boyfriend for 4months now and since men play the role of a provider when is the right time to ask him for rent money, or should i move in with him to save him the trouble?

@tjololade:
I wish you could be another person and come and read your own post... I want to ignorantly believe that your IQ is as low as that of a cockroach... Is he your husband?.

The bolded crack me up.

mizzocho.cinco:
If there is a right time to have sex with him and cook for him before marriage, why is there not a right time to ask for money for rent before marriage?

does he force you to have sêx with him? do you not enjoy sêx with him? no be una two dey chop the food together.

I knew it was going to come down to you playing the "I have sêx with him" card; so I had to comment. if u feel u need to get paid for sêx, then you're no different from pros that walk the street at night.

he is not your father so therefore he should not pay your rent. if you're old enough to have sex, you should be old enough to fend for yourself to a certain degree.

Idowuogbo: Ashaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaawo! Shame on u! Tua! *spits*

So I.D when would I be able to have a private contact with you. I don't mid you cooking and cleaning for me. I think I can afford your rent.

mizzocho.cinco:
If there is a right time to have sex with him and cook for him before marriage, why is there not a right time to ask for money for rent before marriage?

Who are those mischieviously 'liking' her posts?

You still have your girlfriends asking you to do them favours after they cook, clean or spend a good time with you, i believe the same label you are stamping on me is the exact same label you should be stamping on your girlfriend

Men want a woman who can prove themselves worthy before they take her to the alter, a good cook and someone who can make him have a great time in bed, a good and hygienic wife and mother. why can't i have a man prove that he is a good provider before accepting to walk down the aisle for?

Does this mean women have to accept whatever comes their way, whereas women have to be put through some tests before they are considered to be wife material?
Food for thought

knowledge is knowing that a man will say yes to almost anything after a good Bleep, wisdom is knowing what to ask for.

u made of if a woman should accept anything that comes her way and the answer is NO. in the same vein men do not want over bearing and tasking women.

if u make demands every time you do something for him, be it after washing, cooking or sêx, he'll view you as a bimbo, chef and or hoe

Danhumprey: Who are those mischieviously 'liking' her posts?

I'm surprised too.