What sort of foolish question is this

couples discretion

It is better to wait a year, if you have the time.

Kids will create a gulf between a couple unconsciously and the enjoyment will be over too quickly. Unless you can barely stand each other, and kids are the only things bringing you together, it is advisable to wait a year and get your bearings first, before inviting a third party

So children are third party??
Lol I laff for swahili

mzhorlah:
It depends on the individuals involved. As for me, I will enjoy my husband well before inviting any third party(babies)

donstan18:
I don't know for women, but I strongly believe that children are one of the major reasons why most men settle down.

Reason the day a man becomes a father is more memorable than his wedding day.

So I think it's proper not to wait for anything before making babies, especially these days where 70% of slay queens are womb-less. Start immediately to help you know if you married a fertile woman or not.


In fact, any lady that fails to take in at most, 2 months after wedding should be questioned or sent packing.

I actually liked your comment until I read your last paragraph. Had to unlike it..

Seems most of you guys are still teenagers that don't know what's up with marriage... If your daughter could not get pregnant after 2 months due to hormonal imbalance, youll tell the husband to send her packing...

Nonsense

As long as they want.

Tela101:
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage.

When a couple gets married, they are almost always faced with the inevitable pester from friends and family:

So when are you having kids? The older you are, the more pressing the question seems to be. Ticktock, ticktock.

So, what do you guys think?

For those that followed due process...

depends on the couple's long term plans and their financial position; and sometimes age

There is no correct answer

For me God time is always and will always be the best...

ovoko..... we had to wait for 1 year the God blessed us with a baby boy

Sarmiz24:
So children are third party?? Lol I laff for swahili

babies are actually third party
they come, grow; and LEAVE

hamid6249:
What sort of foolish question is this

Do you have an answer? No. So keep quiet and stop labeling a question foolish. You really do not have to comment.

Wait till you both are over 50, nonsense!

Tela101:
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes baby in the baby carriage.

When a couple gets married, they are almost always faced with the inevitable pester from friends and family:

So when are you having kids? The older you are, the more pressing the question seems to be. Ticktock, ticktock.

So, what do you guys think?

For those that followed due process...

This question is kind of funny,
It depends anyway, people even have kids before the marriage sef

What are you waiting for? Common start making babies immediately!

I go don even download pikin put her belle before marriage... it’s just matter of counting down to delivery day

mzhorlah:
It depends on the individuals involved. As for me, I will enjoy my husband well before inviting any third party(babies)

while enjoying

remember to plan financially for the kids in future

hezy4real01:
Fire down immediately and pray God bless u

bro, "hope" alone isnt a strategy.

flowmama:


I actually liked your comment until I read your last paragraph. Had to unlike it..

Seems most of you guys are still teenagers that don't know what's up with marriage... If your daughter could not get pregnant after 2 months due to hormonal imbalance, youll tell the husband to send her packing...

Nonsense

lol,or even due to the guys low sperm count

2 weeks!, Months, years, decades, centuries...all depend on u!

If care is not taken I go give the girl Belle before I marry am sef

As long as say I want marry the babe I must give am Belle (that is when I have proposed oo)


If she tell me say she don carry I go go confirm weda na me get am,

If na me get am I go go marry the babe sharp sharp.(although I won't get a lady pregnant if I am not ready to marry her and care for her and our baby)

Immediately o . Na children be this life.

It depends on the age of the couple. Some couples get marry very late 30s and mid 40s . it is advisable for such couples to hit the ground running by having their children rather than wasting time

donstan18:
I don't know for women, but I strongly believe that children are one of the major reasons why most men settle down.

Reason the day a man becomes a father is more memorable than his wedding day.

So I think it's proper not to wait for anything before making babies, especially these days where 70% of slay queens are womb-less. Start immediately to help you know if you married a fertile woman or not.


In fact, any lady that fails to take in at most, 2 months after wedding should be questioned or sent packing.

My wedding day is more memorable.

There are several factors to consider, important of them, I think, is age and finance. However, I think this should be a vital discussion during courtship.

joepepsy:
Wait till you both are over 50, nonsense!

look at this silly comment

This Op must be working in a hotel or bar.. You must be a Waiter

As long as they are ready.

Ugosample:


while enjoying

remember to plan financially for the kids in future

plan that will be made before saying the vows , I cannot bring them here to suffer mbok