*thinking *

zealot4me:

*thinking *

ARE YOU THINKING OF WHY HE IS JEALOUS OF YOU AND MR MONEY,

kay177:

ARE YOU THINKING OF WHY HE IS JEALOUS OF YOU AND MR MONEY,

not at all

am thinking on an advice that suits his condition

zealot4me:

not at all

am thinking on an advice that suits his condition

bad people.

DAY11.:

bad people.

i was only tryin to help but u are taking 4 somethin else

zealot4me:

i was only tryin to help but u are taking 4 somethin else

O ya, lets hear it.

*still finking*

A simple question to the poster:
why do you not trust your gf?

deniyor:

A simple question to the poster:
why do you not trust your gf?

If I trust her then I won't be dis jealous, and you re exhibiting dat someone can trust and still be jealous which i contemplate dat is very true, but can somebody tell me how to stop been jealous. I quickly grow horns with evil tail when I see any man near my babe, She keeps complaining that I,m not trusting her and am becoming her body guard so PLEASE, lets someone stand up and tell me what to do. I need to cure dis sickness and have my lady back.

You hv not answered why you do not trust her. What is it about her that makes you not trust her. Has she cheated on you b4? Is she a big flirt? What do you fear will happen if other guys talk to her (and you are not there)?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-546333.0.html#msg7088185
@ poster the above thread will help you

Thats d point, *The fear* Thank you very much deniyor, you kind of d man i respect so much on 9jaland, You can see is getting hotter n hotter ,Huh, Okey, To be sincere I love d babe and I wouldn't know if she flirts around or not but I ve dat frighten and trepidation over her just bcus I want her and I dont wanna lose her and I,m ready to sacrifice my life for her if is needed but still yet, is still balky & abrogating.

What should I do?
1, i love her and I,m really to walk her down to the altar
2, Hot love is what i got 4 her , dont wanna see any man around her, Holly Shitt!!!! *I can shot somebody*.
3, We all know She's beautiful and every man wanna have a taste. NOT her. *D FEAR*
4, She turns head when she walks and her physical appearance makes guys wanna long thing *AM JEALOUS*
5, We didnt get a chance to be seeing each other often. *DAT MAKES ME MORE SICK* and I can go on and on calling her every minute.

Bros, help me out mehn

Maybe u need to slow down. Having dis 'hot' love 4 her ain't helping u. True love doesn't drive u out of ur mind/give u high blood pressure 4 goodness sake! When you re in love, u learn to trust. U dialogue with ur partner, get to know each other and establish that confidence & understanding, and respect!. I am a beautiful lady-been told dat a lot of times. But i can tell u it doesn't bloat my head, my man trusts me. We are not close to each other geographically, but we have gotten to understand and respect each other. He knows i ain't messing up, same way i know he isn't. Talk it out wit her, ok? Tell her your fears. Talk it out with her ONE ON ONE. Cos u need to establish a foundation devoid of lusts, obsessions and insecurities. It's NOT HEALTHY at all to be obsessed. It would sooner break u guys up than anythin else.

Maybe u need to slow down. Having dis 'hot' love 4 her ain't helping u. True love doesn't drive u out of ur mind/give u high blood pressure 4 goodness sake! When you re in love, u learn to trust. U dialogue with ur partner, get to know each other and establish that confidence & understanding, and respect!. I am a beautiful lady-been told dat a lot of times. But i can tell u it doesn't bloat my head, my man trusts me. We are not close to each other geographically, but we have gotten to understand and respect each other. He knows i ain't messing up, same way i know he isn't. Talk it out wit her, ok? Tell her your fears. Talk it out with her ONE ON ONE. Cos u need to establish a foundation devoid of lusts, obsessions and insecurities. It's NOT HEALTHY at all to be obsessed. It would sooner break u guys up than anythin else.

One thing I hv learnt in life - you can never close mark a lady. If she wants to do smth, she will - with or without your permission . So why stress yourself over smth you can not control. I got more questions that should get you thinking.
Based on your response above, what are you answers to the following questions
1. What does she feel about you, tell you etc? You say you are hot for her, is she hot for you or lukewarm. Your guts should be able to really answer that question.
2. Do you think she can handle male friends. Do you think she should hv male friends? Do you hv female friends or acquitances?
3. Do you think she is the best you can do? If it doesn't work out btw you two, do you think you can find someone better?
4. What will you do if cheats on you with someone else? Or develops feelings with some other dude?
5. Do you like how she looks? Would you prefer she looks good and tempting to other guys or look shabby and unwanted? What attracted you to her in the first place.

You know humans tend to want what everyone else wants. I know these are a lot of questions but the answers will point you in the right direction and give us a some background on your relationship with your girl. Lastly do you hv any other side attraction/gf?

PS thanks for the compliments.

DAY11, OJIGBIJIGBI! WHERE YOU DEY SINCE MORNING, MAKING MONEY I THINK, YOU JUST DEY FALL IN AFTER MAKING YOUR COLE DOE, IF NA YOUR BABE WAKA WAKA LIKE THAT YOU GO DEY VEX, JUMP UP AND DOWN, SUMMERSAULTING LIKE OBAFEMI MARTHINS, TAKE AM EASY MAN,

kay177:

DAY11, OJIGBIJIGBI! WHERE YOU DEY SINCE MORNING, MAKING MONEY I THINK, YOU JUST DEY FALL IN AFTER MAKING YOUR COLE DOE, IF NA YOUR BABE WAKA WAKA LIKE THAT YOU GO DEY VEX, JUMP UP AND DOWN, SUMMERSAULTING LIKE OBAFEMI MARTHINS, TAKE AM EASY MAN,

Will you ever be serious MoneyMan Now gerraout of my face b4 i change my mind,


I apologise for d interruption, he's ma home boi and he dsnt know Day11 need a cure from you guys, the cure no man or herbalist can desist.

Many thanks again, Infact, am feeling you guys like my uncle peter

@ Deniyor, I understand everything you said and I right thumb for dat contributions and the same things goes to Wislet, Thanks alot and I'll def slow down, maybe by doing that I can gain back my dignus n say GOODBYE to jealous. Im a kind of guy that have a soft mine and easy to captured, thats one of my weakness. This question is so knowledgeable and I think thats my problem 5. Do you like how she looks? Would you prefer she looks good and tempting to other guys or look shabby and unwanted? What attracted you to her in the first place. Of Course I like how she looks everyday and in d other hands i dont cause she dressed to kill .

I fink am gerring better but please keep doing your good work guys, More pls.

Will you ever be serious MoneyMan Now gerraout of my face b4 i change my mind,

THE DAMSEL THAT IS MAKING DAY11 JEALOUS, WE GO WAN KNOW AM OOOO, YOU SELF YOUR EYES NO DEY COMMOT FOR GOOD THING, PERSON WEY DON DEY GO OUT WITH BEAUTIFUL LADY LIKE THAT NO GO TOO WORRY HIM HEAD NAW, EVEN IF YOU HEAR HER SAY SOME WORDS ON THE PHONE LIKE LOVE YOU, DARLING, HONEY ETC, MAKE YOU NO BORDER YOURSELF TOO MUCH OOO, IT YOU NO WAN DIE, AS YOU KNOW SAY JEALOUSY DEY  CAUSE SERIOUS STRESS AND AILMENT TO THE BODY,

kay177:

THE DAMSEL THAT IS MAKING DAY11 JEALOUS, WE GO WAN KNOW AM OOOO, YOU SELF YOUR EYES NO DEY COMMOT FOR GOOD THING, PERSON WEY DON DEY GO OUT WITH BEAUTIFUL LADY LIKE THAT NO GO TOO WORRY HIM HEAD NAW, EVEN IF YOU HEAR HER SAY SOME WORDS ON THE PHONE LIKE LOVE YOU, DARLING, HONEY ETC, MAKE YOU NO BORDER YOURSELF TOO MUCH OOO, IT YOU NO WAN DIE, AS YOU KNOW SAY JEALOUSY DEY  CAUSE SERIOUS STRESS AND AILMENT TO THE BODY,

BROS, DE GURL DON FLASH ME RED CARD CUS OF MY CARELESSNESS : I WANNA TRY AND GERRA BACK CUS I STILL LOVE HER, ABI WHAT DO YOU THINK? BORNE HAM AND FOLLOW ASEWO LIKE DAT *IDOWUOGBO*

Guy, just relax or u'll just develop HBP, and it's not worth it. All that you are doing will not stop her from cheating if she wants to do it. You can never close mark a lady, you'll end up pushing her to do what you fear most. She's already getting irritated by your actions and that's not a good sign. Try to control your emotions whenever it's burning. It could be difficult at first, but u'll get used to it with time.

You have no reaason not to trust her except if she has shown some signs in the past. What about her friends Does she keep too many friends ?? If she does, then it's not a good sign. If her friends are the responsible type, u have nothing to fear otherwise you should. Don't display too much affection for her, she'll end up taking advantage of it.

DAY11.:

BROS, DE GURL DON FLASH ME RED CARD CUS OF MY CARELESSNESS : I WANNA TRY AND GERRA BACK CUS I STILL LOVE HER, ABI WHAT DO YOU THINK? BORNE HAM AND FOLLOW ASEWO LIKE DAT *IDOWUOGBO*

DAY11, DONT SAY THAT ON YOUR TREAD. IS NOT GOOD CALLING SOMEONE THAT KIND OF NAME, WE FIGHT TO BE FRIENDS, WE DONT FIGHT TO BECOME ENEMIES, YOU WILL HAVE HER BACK WHEN YOU START TO TAKE THINGS COOL GENERALLY, DONT LET HER GO SINCE YOU STILL WANT HER GO AFTER HER, MIND YOU I WILL TAKE YOU TO MY PASTOR ON SUNDAY SO THAT HE CAN CAST THAT SPIRIT OF JEALOUSY IN YOU AWAY,

i dnt wat to say

*just walks out of thread*

zealot4me:

i dnt wat to say

*just walks out of thread*

ZEALOT WHATS THE PROBLEM, AINT YOU A MATURED BABE, SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT TO SAY, MAKE FRIENDS NOT ENEMY,

zealot4me:

i dnt wat to say
*just walks out of thread*

ABEGIIII, GO JARE

kay177:

DAY11, DONT SAY THAT ON YOUR TREAD. IS NOT GOOD CALLING SOMEONE THAT KIND OF NAME,  WE FIGHT TO BE FRIENDS, WE DONT FIGHT TO BECOME ENEMIES,   YOU WILL HAVE HER BACK WHEN YOU START TO TAKE THINGS COOL GENERALLY, DONT LET HER GO SINCE YOU STILL WANT HER GO AFTER HER,   MIND YOU I WILL TAKE YOU TO MY PASTOR ON SUNDAY SO THAT HE CAN CAST THAT SPIRIT OF JEALOUSY IN YOU AWAY,

AND THATS FUNNY!!!! I'D LOVE TO GO WID U MEHN AS LONG AS I WILL BE CURED AND ALSO VE MY SUGAR BACK. LETS GO DRE NIGGI.

DAY11, SEE I JUST DONT LIKE HOW YOU TURNING THESE GALS OFF, AM NOT TAKING SIDE WITH ANYBODY REALLY BUT LETS BE FRIENDS AND SHOW LOVE TO ONE ANOTHER ALL WHAT WE ARE DOING HERE IS PURELY FUN,

ME AND ZEAL ARE GOOD, AM JUST KIDDING,

GUY SEY U DON SMOKE BUSH CLARROW

DAY11.:

ME AND ZEAL ARE GOOD, AM JUST KIDDING,

GUY SEY U DON SMOKE BUSH CLARROW

THESE ARE THE WAYS TO HEAL THAT JEALOUSY IN YOU, I THINK YOU ARE RESPONDING TO ADVISE NOW

kay177:


THESE ARE THE WAYS TO HEAL THAT JEALOUSY IN YOU, I THINK YOU ARE RESPONDING TO ADVISE NOW

kay177:

ZEALOT WHATS THE PROBLEM, AINT YOU A MATURED BABE, SAY WHATEVER YOU WANT TO SAY, MAKE FRIENDS NOT ENEMY,

BABY BOI DNT GET MA ASS OFF MA BACK OOO!!!!

U HEAR ME?

zealot4me:

BABY BOI DNT GET MA backside OFF MA BACK OOO!!!!

U HEAR ME?

YOUR BEHIND NO TIGHT NIII, ABEG HOLLAM TIGHT OO.

zealot4me:

BABY BOI DNT GET MA backside OFF MA BACK OOO!!!!

U HEAR ME?

ALWAYS BE THERE TO HOLD IT TIGHT FOR YOU

DAY11.:

YOUR BEHIND NO TIGHT NIII, ABEG HOLLAM TIGHT OO.

DAY11, HEAVEN KNOWS THAT YOU ARE ANOTHER BABA SUWE,