pocohantas:


Na hookup site. Brings olosho to your doorsteps...

Na wa o. Can barely keep up with all these sites these days.

Charly68:
Tell us what you did that made your wife to call you off

His wife or my wife? Were you born to always assume that you knew people? Sorry man

Of course, you didn't asked me not. But I only offered a friendly talk based on the fact that you don't know the gravity of your jokes. Cheers

maasoap:


Fire? Keep mute? Do you know how to gag someone? Nigerians and their hypocrisy! Did I ask you not to air your opinion?

pocohantas:


He should get a help and pay the person. After all, women offer nothing in marriage (Ref: Nairaland Guys, 2019). It shouldn't matter if they stay or leave.

As for his sexual needs, he can remarry or download inmessanger.

what do women offer in marriage? plz I want to knw but cause ladies talk like they've been misunderstood

pocohantas:


He should get a help and pay the person. After all, women offer nothing in marriage

(Ref: Nairaland Guys, 2019).

It shouldn't matter if they stay or leave.

As for his sexual needs, he can remarry or download inmessanger.

Only God knows how many thesis u don write


Pls use APA style

nlPoster:
For new couples (ie those in relationships):

If one or both of you is a high earner or with the potential to be a high earner, sit yourselves down, create a workable plan for your finances in the event more money comes in than you thought possible. Do this before you marry (while dating) or as soon as possible after you're married, don't just focus on romance alone, get to the nitty gritty and non romantic aspects of your relationship.

Not saying everybody would be terribly wealthy, but if you're aware you're on a path to that, and considering what you know now at this moment, be wise.

How are you going to do this? I have no idea, I'm only suggesting.

You have no idea? Hmm. Tpia for some reason I thought you were speaking from experience.

The woman was not patient at all, she thinks her financial needs are the only problems in marriage, that's wrong, where does she thinks she will starts from now, marriage is all about understanding and patience, one can't just get rich over night just like that.

ednut1:
Denial of reality cannot cover the truth.. women endure for years as long as you have money or for the kids . The money your money drops or goes. Baba dem go waka. Only those dat dated when there was nothing experience real love

I don’t even understand why you’ll separate from someone because he’s not meeting your financial needs when you’re also working and probably has more money than him .....wtf what I the use of your own money

While patriarchy seems to favor men it also doesn’t favor men sometimes .....patriarchy is the cause of these things

Pocohantas do you disagree?

oghale23:
I know a couple who are friends of my family. The man is a business man, while the wife is a medical doctor.

They are in their late 50's and have three children. Currently they are separated because the wife said he cannot meet up with her financial needs.

She built a house in Lagos without informing her husband, while he was building one in Ogun state.

I was sad and disappointed. A marriage of like 2 decades, quenched because the wife felt she has more needs the husband cannot cater for.

Now the man will be left alone, no one to help him and meet his sexual needs.

Na that one dey worry you? He can take another wife na

oghale23:
I know a couple who are friends of my family. The man is a business man, while the wife is a medical doctor.

They are in their late 50's and have three children. Currently they are separated because the wife said he cannot meet up with her financial needs.

She built a house in Lagos without informing her husband, while he was building one in Ogun state.

I was sad and disappointed. A marriage of like 2 decades, quenched because the wife felt she has more needs the husband cannot cater for.

Now the man will be left alone, no one to help him and meet his sexual needs.

How is it your problem?

pocohantas:


He should get a help and pay the person. After all, women offer nothing in marriage (Ref: Nairaland Guys, 2019). It shouldn't matter if they stay or leave.

As for his sexual needs, he can remarry or download inmessanger.

Or buy sex doll

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That lady must be from Benin,they like been called landlady alot

Tarabye:

Referenced from nairaland guys that part got me
Poco you're so sweet I feel you

This is so ambiguous
Kindly rephrase...

So u are not even thinking of considering the woman or the children but the man's sexual desire that will not be met. Am disappointed in u @op

pocohantas:


He should get a help and pay the person. After all, women offer nothing in marriage (Ref: Nairaland Guys, 2019). It shouldn't matter if they stay or leave.

As for his sexual needs, he can remarry or download inmessanger.

indeed the majority of women offer nothing in marriage but coplains and sorrow .

So u are not even thinking of considering the woman or the children but the man's sexual need that will not be met. Am disappointed in u @op. Have not seen anything wrong here but jealousy and wanting to be in charge. For the wife not to tell him about her building a house explain alot that is not know before

Dats wisdom
#IYKWIM �

tsmith:


I'm amazed at the very limiting virtues and values you deem a woman has, and the entitlement rights you've awarded men. Obviously even your brain will tell you it's not balanced.

You sure say you dey OK?

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nlPoster:
For new couples (ie those in relationships):

If one or both of you is a high earner or with the potential to be a high earner, sit yourselves down, create a workable plan for your finances in the event more money comes in than you thought possible. Do this before you marry (while dating) or as soon as possible after you're married, don't just focus on romance alone, get to the nitty gritty and non romantic aspects of your relationship.

Not saying everybody would be terribly wealthy, but if you're aware you're on a path to that, and considering what you know now at this moment, be wise.

How are you going to do this? I have no idea, I'm only suggesting.

the issues normally come wen it's the woman that touches bastard money.
For the man, everytin will just be fine n ok most of the time

oghale23:


Lol! Prior to that statement, I said no one to help him, like to cook, wash his clothes, etc.. and definitely his sexual needs as a married man.

...And who would help the woman to cook, wash her clothes, meet her sexual needs etc?

oghale23:


Lol! What do you know I am thinking about? You think because he is in his late 50's he doesn't have sexual needs?

I know another family friend who is a pastor and whose wife abandoned him to go and work abroad. He had to marry another woman. The man should be in is early 60's.

So of alllllll things, it's sexual needs you can first think of as what will be lacking...

just look at how your last words destroyed your report. you sould have ended it with his needs.

glogirl:
Am happy you said endured, who knows what she endured. When the men cheat and feel she can't go anywhere, a lot of women don't forgive. They bid their time,and hold on for her kids and also to build her wealth slowly. They are usually ready in their fifties when the kids are out. there is nothing sudden about it, she has checked out since and worked towards it by building her own house. To make the decision to leave at that age isn't easy at all if u must know. Let him marry a new wife, life goes on.

Better, he should forget about that slut of a prostituting wife and marry a better woman with values

Na wa for you o op. Are you a mail or a femail?

pocohantas:


He should get a help and pay the person. After all, women offer nothing in marriage (Ref: Nairaland Guys, 2019). It shouldn't matter if they stay or leave.

As for his sexual needs, he can remarry or download inmessanger.

APA in text referencing format..

Ecne:

Better, he should forget about that slut of a prostituting wife and marry a better woman with values

And who will be a better woman ?
Let them try and settle.searching for a good woman @50 is not the same @30 ,at 50 you will be looking for younger ladies of 28 up right,most will see you as maga and will they stay true and wont cheat,and how about his bp level,finance and finally the engine room (his third leg) are they in order,hmmmm

d story no even get vibes. na fake one. pls try something new abeg.

abeg dis story na fake. am nt buyin...try give us a different one.

mechanics:
The woman was not patient at all, she thinks her financial needs are the only problems in marriage, that's wrong, where does she thinks she will starts from now, marriage is all about understanding and patience, one can't just get rich over night just like that.

Where will the man also start from.