Is there any chance that a partner who once cheated will ever change?

So you’ve been cheated on! It was devastating; like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn’t eat or function effectively at work! You were up all night crying, with so much mucus blocking your nostrils and eyes swollen marring your vision.


This ordeal creates so much painful memories that you’ve sworn never to be in a relationship anymore! No! Never! Yea! Being cheated on can be disheartening but the question still looms; “Is once a cheater always a cheater?”...

Well,, let’s critically go through this research that has shown that 22% of men and 13% of women in marriage, with a rise in number when it comes to dating, have affairs.

And according to research also, spouses who describe themselves as happy with their relationships have affairs! When people say; ” Once a cheater, always a cheater “, they deeply underestimate people’s ability to change says an American Couple Therapist!



People who say a cheater can never change have never felt the awful guilt that comes when you realize you’ve made a terrible mistake by having a one night stand or an affair and they tend to forget that these people in question are also humans bound to mistakes and changes too!

Given how many of us have been affected by infidelity, its worth exploring our beliefs about cheaters and their capacity for change!

Does a cheater change?
The good news is yes! Many people who are in committed relationships and have decent chemistry and benefit from both partners can actually work out of the crisis of affairs.

Not only that, their relationship can also become stronger and much more fun too! So learn to give your partner a chance to change because;
Once a cheater is not always a cheater!

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Sadly as people mature they realize that people after the age of 30 rarely ever can change.

Change gets hard with age.

A cheater can change I am an example

sweetonugbu:
A cheater can change I am an example

Can you tell your story?

Spxvlog:


Can you tell your story?

yeah I cheated on all my numerous girlfriends I never took relationship serious after the only girl I love cheated on me and back to me and cried, asking for my forgiveness, one thing about me is this I am not easily offended, but when I says I am through I am,
I became a top nine, one of my friend black in the university was asking me how do I cope cause me and my love is not together because of work for the past six months,
I meet someone who changed my mindset and since 2013 I never looked back, I have had it all tall short,slim orobo,big tit name it, I hanged my boot. End of my testimony.

Hummmm... it's better not to start what you can't finish...

sweetonugbu:
yeah I cheated on all my numerous girlfriends I never took relationship serious after the only girl I love cheated on me and back to me and cried, asking for my forgiveness, one thing about me is this I am not easily offended, but when I says I am through I am,
I became a top nine, one of my friend black in the university was asking me how do I cope cause me and my love is not together because of work for the past six months,
I meet someone who changed my mindset and since 2013 I never looked back, I have had it all tall short,slim orobo,big tit name it, I hanged my boot. End of my testimony.

Hahahahah
Ok na
That's nice

Bola146:
Hummmm... it's better not to start what you can't finish...

Hahahha
I swear

A leopard never change its slot.

themaestro08:
A leopard never change its slot.

Hahahahahaha
Mad ooo

Spxvlog:


Is there any chance that a partner who once cheated will ever change?

So you’ve been cheated on! It was devastating; like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn’t eat or function effectively at work! You were up all night crying, with so much mucus blocking your nostrils and eyes swollen marring your vision.


This ordeal creates so much painful memories that you’ve sworn never to be in a relationship anymore! No! Never! Yea! Being cheated on can be disheartening but the question still looms; “Is once a cheater always a cheater?”...

Well,, let’s critically go through this research that has shown that 22% of men and 13% of women in marriage, with a rise in number when it comes to dating, have affairs.

And according to research also, spouses who describe themselves as happy with their relationships have affairs! When people say; ” Once a cheater, always a cheater “, they deeply underestimate people’s ability to change says an American Couple Therapist!



People who say a cheater can never change have never felt the awful guilt that comes when you realize you’ve made a terrible mistake by having a one night stand or an affair and they tend to forget that these people in question are also humans bound to mistakes and changes too!

Given how many of us have been affected by infidelity, its worth exploring our beliefs about cheaters and their capacity for change!

Does a cheater change?
The good news is yes! Many people who are in committed relationships and have decent chemistry and benefit from both partners can actually work out of the crisis of affairs.

Not only that, their relationship can also become stronger and much more fun too! So learn to give your partner a chance to change because;
Once a cheater is not always a cheater!

Like the Article ? Check out our website: https://spxvlog.com/lifestyle/do-cheating-partners-ever-change/

Am still waiting for more comments

themaestro08:
A leopard never change its slot.

I Love what u just wrote
.It like the best idiomatic expression for this question ❓

I don't think they change. Talking from experience. Once a cheat always a cheat.
It also sounds surprising to me when people tell me they trust their partners. If we know what they do behind our backs. I would say literally everyone cheats. But its going to sound like a cliché.

People change but don't wait on it

emmysolo2001:
I Love what u just wrote
.It like the best idiomatic expression for this question ❓