I have a female friend that am not romantically attached to. We have been just friends for 7 months now. We always spend enough time to greet each other and discuss a wide range of issues whenever we meet intentionally or by accident. Recently I started feeling ''somehow'' about her and I kept doubting the realness of what I feel for her because I strongly believe in love at first sight. I hold the opinion that the feeling of real attraction towards someone should start at the first instance of seeing and interacting with the person and not the case of many days later. Anyway, my conclusion about the whole situation is that I simply fell IN FONDNESS with her and not IN LOVE with her. Do you think so too?

I think i tire for your theory about love.

Well c wat happens 4rm fondness

freecocoa:

I think i tire for your theory about love.

What exactly is making you tiring?

Dyt:

Well c wat happens 4rm fondness

I have been seeing and I have seen that nothing will happen.

Its like the theory, if you spend enough time away from the office, you'll end up falling in love with your secretary.
If you value your friendship, don't date her and continue to keep her as a friend. If you really like her, date her but don't let it surprise you that she may not necessarily feel the same way about you.

@black i mean broken sorry brownteeth,wat is making me tiring is that you think one must fall in love at first sight.

Brownteeth,its better you let her know how you feel about her,instead of making her think or feel you are inlove with her, so you don't become a heartbreaker,

Don't ever assume someone is in love with you ---- it seems u are the only one that likes her here --- this feeling might only be a figment of your imagination.

obowunmi:

Its like the theory, if you spend enough time away from the office, you'll end up falling in love with your secretary.
If you value your friendship, don't date her and continue to keep her as a friend. If you really like her, date her but don't let it surprise you that she may not necessarily feel the same way about you.

At the start she showed some signs and interest to date me. I didn't respond so she forgot about the aspect. I would not date her cos am not sure if I really like her or just fond of her. I don't wanna start what I cannot finish.

Same thing I'm thinking. If you value her as a friend, keep her as a friend.

Shut up there
the only thing you love is her toto
Enough of that love at first sight crap
Idioti.

^^^Speaking for yourself.

actually u get attracted to sum1 in 3secs fall in/out of love over a time frame