Gforce2015:



Oga, double your Hussle

xreal:
I think the right time for the guy to do the right thing is now.

Is it not the bride who should caution the groom's spending? Or she no go chop again after wedding, she no go wear cloth?



FTC dedicated to men who are under the remote control , bondage affluence of wife's super rich parents. One day, dem go dictate where and when not to shit.

ProtectMyMoney:


Lets imagine bride's father is Otedola, definitely he will want to invite his friends Dangote, Tony Elumelu etc to grace the wedding...he will not want to be seen below standard.

Are you going to say Otedola should not sponsor his daughter's wedding?

OP, find a middle ground if bride's father wants to sponsor, let him go ahead.

It is the marriage that is the most important, not wedding day.

americaninja1:
if Ino give dem tfare make dey no come nw.. ori won baje

mezarddinny:
that man must be a fool. you wife's father wants to sponsor your wedding and you are angry? instead of you to pocket your money and let him spend his, invest your money well and when the gain comes, you will have your own respect and probably refund his money if you care to.


while some men are looking for a wife whose family can help their success you are forming strong head, don't you know that marrying into a rich family has more advantages than disadvantages? oh i think i get the kind of man he is, the one that wants his woman to worship the ground he walks on because of his money, since the wife is also from a rich family, he won't get that and he is insecure.


my brothers use your heads o, the rich are getting richer because they make smarter decisions, every decision they make is about how they can multiply their money, they don't let emotions or anything becloud their judgement, they must make money even if it is by letting their wife's family think lowly of them, once they make the money they are looking for, they challenge their in-laws and take back their respect. osinbajo married into an influential family but now he is the vice president and his in-laws cant say shit to him

chukzyfcbb:
The funny thing be say at the end of the day if he decides to do a full wedding, the girls Parents can gift him anything above 1m as wedding cash gift and he will recover his expenses.

Cash gifts from all the wedding guests on that day can run into millions (wedding guest will be buoyant coz of the inlaws involved)

Some families will rather get them a car gift as against cash, some parents will include his name in the shares of their coy, I have seen this happen a lot.

it all depends on how buoyant the family is at the time.

All of these I have seen with my eyes, not nollywood

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

Jaubdu:
. That is if the bride family treat him with RESPECT.

spiritedtete:
Hmm no future inlaw of mine will stop me from giving my daughter or even my adopted daughters their dream wedding...!

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

mezarddinny:
that man must be a fool. you wife's father wants to sponsor your wedding and you are angry? instead of you to pocket your money and let him spend his, invest your money well and when the gain comes, you will have your own respect and probably refund his money if you care to.


while some men are looking for a wife whose family can help their success you are forming strong head, don't you know that marrying into a rich family has more advantages than disadvantages? oh i think i get the kind of man he is, the one that wants his woman to worship the ground he walks on because of his money, since the wife is also from a rich family, he won't get that and he is insecure.


my brothers use your heads o, the rich are getting richer because they make smarter decisions, every decision they make is about how they can multiply their money, they don't let emotions or anything becloud their judgement, they must make money even if it is by letting their wife's family think lowly of them, once they make the money they are looking for, they challenge their in-laws and take back their respect. osinbajo married into an influential family but now he is the vice president and his in-laws cant say shit to him

gforce5:
If this story is true, (too many fake stories on Nairaland) then it's the case of a guy from a poor background who made some money and a rich ajebutter. Many guys who suddenly make some money feel that they can marry a rich chick and bring her to submission. Rich girls do not understand what it means to live modestly. The guy ought to have seen this coming from their early stages of courtship.

You cannot separate a rich girl from her family or circle. A wise man would have established a rapport with the in-laws so that they will have his back in case there is any misunderstanding with the wife. The advantage of marrying into a rich family is that they will not be a financial burden on you. They could also help you to expand your business or career through their connections. This is how several old moneyed families such as Russell & Bromley were established. Unfortunately, Nigerian men are too short sighted to understand this and allow their ego to control their decisions.

gforce5:
If this story is true, (too many fake stories on Nairaland) then it's the case of a guy from a poor background who made some money and a rich ajebutter. Many guys who suddenly make some money feel that they can marry a rich chick and bring her to submission. Rich girls do not understand what it means to live modestly. The guy ought to have seen this coming from their early stages of courtship.

You cannot separate a rich girl from her family or circle. A wise man would have established a rapport with the in-laws so that they will have his back in case there is any misunderstanding with the wife. The advantage of marrying into a rich family is that they will not be a financial burden on you. They could also help you to expand your business or career through their connections. This is how several old moneyed families such as Russell & Bromley were established. Unfortunately, Nigerian men are too short sighted to understand this and allow their ego to control their decisions.

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

stobery:
I support the guy 100%

I rather do spend all 4m on d wedding than allow him sponsor my wedding

I will then make him chairman of the occasion so he can donate big for honey moon


Sense will not kill me

larryking540:


But you and I kw that when you make it obvious that you the father of the bride sponsor the wedding,you will lack respect for the guy ,,,u fit even say make he con wash your motor ,

Don't tell me you can't do that ,money no matter how small it is brings respect

spiritedtete:


When children grow... allow them to grow properly... everyone deserves some respect, there is a difference between wedding and marriage...

I don't have to interfere in their marriage, but for wedding it not just the husband business .. it is mine business aswell. It is a dream come through day for me... infact in some tribe, the brides family gets the wedding bills...

Especially in yoruba land.

stobery:
I support the guy 100%

I rather do spend all 4m on d wedding than allow him sponsor my wedding

I will then make him chairman of the occasion so he can donate big for honey moon


Sense will not kill me

Yxxx:

This is not about doubling hussle o. This particular money of this couple seems to miss it's way.

stobery:
I support the guy 100%

I rather do spend all 4m on d wedding than allow him sponsor my wedding

I will then make him chairman of the occasion so he can donate big for honey moon


Sense will not kill me

salt1:


Why the curse?
I want people who will go for cross cultural marriage to understand this.
It has destroyed a few Igbo/Yoruba would-have-been marriages.
The girl's family hosts the traditional marriage, which for Igbos, is the real marriage when the girl is handed over to the man's family.
Any other celebration in Church or court is the couple's business and both parents are coming as invitees.

ProtectMyMoney:


Lets imagine bride's father is Otedola, definitely he will want to invite his friends Dangote, Tony Elumelu etc to grace the wedding...he will not want to be seen below standard.

Are you going to say Otedola should not sponsor his daughter's wedding?

OP, find a middle ground if bride's father wants to sponsor, let him go ahead.

It is the marriage that is the most important, not wedding day.

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spend 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

lavylilly:
Only if all men can be like my future husband, there won't be need for a house help.

See future boo,
On Saturdays I know as a business man you can take the day off for family business's sake.
First I prepare breakfast we all eat and get ready for the day's hassle.

I will be in the kitchen cooking lunch.
You will be mopping the floors and tidying our space while the kids will be outside the compound playing,
After that,

You go bath the kids and stay with them while i run a little laundry cos we must have a washing machine so everything will be easy going,

When we are done with house chores..
We can all sleep and rest from the day's hassle and probably perform our marital duty to each other(my favorite part�)..

Some Sundays you can hangout with your friends and do boy's things...
Some Sundays too it would be my turn to leave you with the kids and hangout with my friends and do girls things..
Other Sundays it would be family outing..

On school days
While I wake up to go prepare breakfast and what the kids will take to school,
You are up too bathing the kids and preparing them for school.
Either you or me can DRIVE the kids to school.

While we do this together, the love,the fire and bond in our Union will never quench �.

Oh, of course we both would be earning in our various businesses or job and be bringing money home for our family's welfare...

Other men,
You see why you should all be like my future husband? You see??

To avoid assumed stories of the so called possessed wicked house helps

I come in peace..
Thanks�

Bola146:


Osu mi ooo, so men are still mumu, even some ladies no get sense.