Apeshy101:


yes, its 100% morally and legally right!


just that you can say that its religiously wrong, well that one no be my problem.

Ardar:
The girl clearly said you forced or more like pressured her to have sex with you, not physically but vocally i.e even when she told you "no" initially you still found a way to manipulate her into having sex with you. She never wanted it in the first place.

You men should stop this habit of making a girl who visited you to have sex with you especially when she's not in the mood to avoid stories that touch.

Apeshy101:


All of you shouting coercion up and down

Here you have it,

I never raped her!
The context here clearly doesn't depict threat!

If this is what you call rape, I give up on you girls

Stephenmoka4:
Exactly, let's say A and B are dating and B is telling A if you love me you would lay with me, come on everyone is doing it, you are mine, I thought you say you love me and would do anything... seriously A will feel guilty and do it. B just manipulated A. A can say all my friends partner are taking them on a luxurious vacation and showering gifts look here Madison got a Silver bracelet in Sydney, Jane's bf gave a golden necklace while they were in Singapore City, why won't you break the bank for me, you love me so much don't you, remember love is blind. B will likely do it, which is not right

CAPSLOCKED:
LOL.. SEE THE TEXT AT 10:44.
MEN.. UNA GO CONTINUE SUFFER UNTIL YOU STOP LETTING TESTOSTERONE LEAD YOU.
JUST IMAGINE.

Stephenmoka4:
In Nigeria not easy but, in places like great Britain, USA etc yep

2buffagain:


This makes absolutely no sense.
If a verbally convinced me to spend money on her, would I not be a ridiculous fool to go and start saying that she raped my wallet?

You don't give someone a gift and then start going to report them to police that they held you at gunpoint and robbed you.

She simply said what she wanted. That's been assertive. Much like a man assertively requesting he needs his dick ate. If the person agrees to do it, then that is not rape. If during the action the other person says they don't want to do again, then that's their choice. In no scenario was she forced to do it or forced to not stop.

angelfallz:

If it was easy in USA and Britain like you say, why are rape convictions low in those countries?

2buffagain:


This makes absolutely no sense.
If a verbally convinced me to spend money on her, would I not be a ridiculous fool to go and start saying that she raped my wallet?

You don't give someone a gift and then start going to report them to police that they held you at gunpoint and robbed you.

She simply said what she wanted. That's been assertive. Much like a man assertively requesting he needs his dick ate. If the person agrees to do it, then that is not rape. If during the action the other person says they don't want to do again, then that's their choice. In no scenario was she forced to do it or forced to not stop.

Stephenmoka4:
Exactly, let's say A and B are dating and B is telling A if you love me you would lay with me, come on everyone is doing it, you are mine, I thought you say you love me and would do anything... seriously A will feel guilty and do it. B just manipulated A. A can say all my friends partner are taking them on a luxurious vacation and showering gifts look here Madison got a Silver bracelet in Sydney, Jane's bf gave a golden necklace while they were in Singapore City, why won't you break the bank for me, you love me so much don't you, remember love is blind. B will likely do it, which is not right

eaglejay13:


Are you saying I can accuse you of robbery if you manipulate me into spending on you?

Martinez39s:
That is not rape. It's no one's fault that a particular girl is spineless and daft to say NO when she wants to. As long as she gave consent, it is no rape. No one is a mind reader. If Mr. B doesn't want to sell a plot of land but Mr. A talked him into the land to him, did Mr. A commit fraud?

Stephenmoka4:
A asked me for money/food from my place, I said no not today, he keep persisting. I just cover eye and do the needful to satisfy him(he told me I'm his guy and all that sweet statement), do I want to do it. NO. Can I refuse yes but, I'm tired of getting all this request from him daily so I had to give in and later he'll start praising to boost my ego (nope that won't drive me). Should I tell the police nope, I've hit the Yes button already even when yes don't mean yes, do I deserve a praise for that nope, that was not from my heart and not freely giving. People around would be like, guy you too much but, they don't really know.

Martinez39s:
So instead of refusing to be a spineless weakling by telling that friend off and making it clear that you will cut off the friendship if he doesn't stop, you succumbed like a spineless toddler to grant him his request. Now answer me woman, after granting your friend his request, would you say you were robbed by your friend? If NO, then you must admit the OP didn't rape his girlfriend. If YES, then we must all laugh at your stupidity.

Stephenmoka4:
[s]Mr A talked to him about selling it to him is different from this, just as people Compare a virgin person to testing a new car, of which a new car can be replaced or remade but a non-virgin person cannot be reversed to his/her virgin state.[/s]

[s]She gave consent due to sexual coercion, didn't you check out that she said she didn't want to engage in such act in the first place.[/s]

Michellekabod2:
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Martinez39s:
Utter nonsense. Virginity or not, the op did not rape her and the rule used to decide what rape is remains unchanged. Who even told you that the OP's girlfriend is a virgin? You stupidity has taken a weird and amusing dimension as you now suggest that being a virgin makes what OP did a rape. You twisted and discarded my apt analogy in cunning fashion. Why am I wasting time engaging an idiòt? Good day.

There was no coercion. The OP did not rape her.

I won't reply you ever again. Rot and bask in your stupidity.

Martinez39s:
Michelle, did the OP rape his girlfriend? I want to have your thoughts on this.

Michellekabod2:
yes,he also robbed her and killed her. He carted with her vital organs for ritual as well.

Stephenmoka4:
A asked me for money/food from my place, I said no not today, he keep persisting. I just cover eye and do the needful to satisfy him(he told me I'm his guy and all that sweet statement), do I want to do it. NO. Can I refuse yes but, I'm tired of getting all this request from him daily so I had to give in and later he'll start praising to boost my ego (nope that won't drive me). Should I tell the police nope, I've hit the Yes button already even when yes don't mean yes, do I deserve a praise for that nope, that was not from my heart and not freely giving. People around would be like, guy you too much but, they don't really know.

Martinez39s:
What loaded sarcasm!

Michellekabod2:
if the girl was a minor(below 18), mentally unstable or got the sex via blackmail ,your beloved apeshy will not be innocent though...

Apeshy be careful, when a girl says no walk away...laws keep changing. In Sweden or Australia your sorry a$$ will be slapped in jail

Stephenmoka4:
Convincing is different from this aspect. When a girl says no and you give 1001 reasons to say yes and she did, that's sexual coercion not Convincing. Same applies to your wallet and try to understand what gift means. Remember gifts should be done willingly and freely not be pressured or when your conscience judges etc. Try to understand mutual agreement and not someone that feel guilty for not taking part of an action, or submitting to when truely the person doesn't want to

2buffagain:


I generally do not care about wasting time convincing a woman to have sex. I'm a "1 no man".
You tell me no once, that's it for the day.
Tell me no when we are halfway in it, that's it for the day.

That said, I will never accept that some guy verbally communicating his sexual needs to his woman....and she agreeing to meet those needs.....is rape. You need to go sit down with all that.

You are still making no sense.

You regretting to do something you CHOSE to do after, does NOT make it rape.
If you want to give way to that kind of snowflake logic then every girl that was disvirgined was raped.
Stop it.

2buffagain:


I generally do not care about wasting time convincing a woman to have sex. I'm a "1 no man".
You tell me no once, that's it for the day.
Tell me no when we are halfway in it, that's it for the day.

That said, I will never accept that some guy verbally communicating his sexual needs to his woman....and she agreeing to meet those needs.....is rape. Stop it. He did not put a gun to her head.

She regretting to do something she CHOSE to do after, does NOT make it rape.
If you want to give way to that kind of snowflake logic then every girl that was ever disvirgined (perhaps out of wedlock) was raped.
Stop reaching..

Stephenmoka4:
The thing is creating options with a no-no pick, that is putting the victim in a state of DILEMMA. Once the person says no, it means the person sees YES as undesirable but, the other will manipulate the person to feel different about choosing NO, which makes NO looks undesirable.

Stephenmoka4:
For the last part I both couples are married and decide to have relations, that's not rape.



E.g Spouse A; Hey you look hot tonight, wanna get naughty
Spouse B; haha, I can't wait.
...... That's just an example and that situation it's not rape

2buffagain:


Women manipulate the Bleep out of men everyday.
We don't go report them to police because of it.

Again, stop infantalizing women.
They are grown adults.
People CHOOSE. If they choose to do something, it is infantile to then go running that you were forced when no force was applied.
In this matter, unless physical force is involved, there is no such thing as a "no-no pick". If he asks too much, and she does not want, it is a simple matter of "Mr man, it's my body. I don't want. In fact, let's stop seeing each other for a while". Lobatan!

Again, stop encouraging the further infantalization of women.
You make them out to be fools with this your logic.