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Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by zionmmv: 10:47pm On Dec 18, 2010
Merry Christmas Ladies, For all the single ladies waiting for the right guy,please note that finding a good man is not like looking for a needle in a haystack. Just as everyone has fifteen minutes of fame, every woman will have a good man enter her life. You will have many opportunities to choose a man as good and not-so-good men enter and depart from your life. It's up to you to decide when you're ready to choose a man and whether you will choose Mr. Right, Mr. Right Now or Mr. Wrong. Most women and men are fully aware when a relationship is good for them, but it's our curiosity and greed as human beings that will not always allow us to be satisfied, thus giving credence to the old saying "what's good for you is seldom what you're attracted too".

I'm not suggesting that you should deny your passions when choosing a mate, but understand that you're not going to get everything you want from one individual. It's impossible and unrealistic. However, you should always get from a man what you need to be the best person you can be. If you pick from the same tree each time, don't expect to get a different fruit I call this the eve syndrome. Please shake it. At some point, you have to be totally honest with yourself and say, "This is who I am, and this is what I need to always keep my best foot forward." Stop challenging yourself to a battle that can never be won, and stop catering to your maternal instinct, thinking that you can teach a man to become what you need. Remember, some people can be with you but not for you.

Have a wonderful Christmas Holiday and Maybe the Joy be with you.Come back next year with beautiful testimony.
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by ragdollz: 10:52pm On Dec 18, 2010
So in short, what's the bottom line? I mean, what's the lesson/point??
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by tayoast(m): 11:14pm On Dec 18, 2010
ragdollz:

So in short, what's the bottom line? I mean, what's the lesson/point??

USE YOUR CONDOM ALWAYS
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by Dsense(m): 12:27am On Dec 19, 2010
OP.
Your view is pointless!
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by Carolece(f): 12:56am On Dec 19, 2010
zionmmv:

Merry Christmas Ladies, For all the single ladies waiting for the right guy,please note that finding a good man is not like looking for a needle in a haystack. Just as everyone has fifteen minutes of fame, every woman will have a good man enter her life. You will have many opportunities to choose a man as good and not-so-good men enter and depart from your life. It's up to you to decide when you're ready to choose a man and whether you will choose Mr. Right, Mr. Right Now or Mr. Wrong. Most women and men are fully aware when a relationship is good for them, but it's our curiosity and greed as human beings that will not always allow us to be satisfied, thus giving credence to the old saying "what's good for you is seldom what you're attracted too".

I'm not suggesting that you should deny your passions when choosing a mate, but understand that you're not going to get everything you want from one individual. It's impossible and unrealistic. However, you should always get from a man what you need to be the best person you can be. If you pick from the same tree each time, don't expect to get a different fruit I call this the eve syndrome. Please shake it. At some point, you have to be totally honest with yourself and say, "This is who I am, and this is what I need to always keep my best foot forward." Stop challenging yourself to a battle that can never be won, and stop catering to your maternal instinct, thinking that you can teach a man to become what you need. Remember, some people can be with you but not for you.

Have a wonderful Christmas Holiday and Maybe the Joy be with you.Come back next year with beautiful testimony.

Perfect comparison. I guess a man can only be good for a few minutes. No thanks!
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by ladygaga(f): 8:57pm On Dec 19, 2010
thankyou so much poster
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by r231(m): 8:59pm On Dec 19, 2010
hmmmm
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by Specialist900(m): 10:07pm On Dec 19, 2010
Passing by
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by hiltino: 9:17pm On Jan 25, 2011
True talk. cheesy
Re: Good Men Are Not That Hard To Find If You Open Your Eyes! by Atreides(f): 9:26pm On Jan 25, 2011
@Topic,not every girl is looking for a guy. Na by force to be with someone? Haba!

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