seanwilliam:
the word " best" is relative sha

seanwilliam:
the word " best" is relative sha

FreeSpirited:


You don't read and understand I guess...The transformative effect of money is what I'm talking about here. Even many rich big boys don't really spend much to fvck babes..but money improves their social value...and women like guys with high social value and standing...

seanwilliam:
well, whatever first class pussy means to you, believe me money can get it for you.. what money can do is more than what it can not do...cheers!

zed7:
Another childish post. Your hustling is to attract puss? Not to live a comfortable life, not to add value to the life of family and other people in need?
Anyone with self esteem will be ashamed to know women are only attracted to him just because of money. Actually, they are not even attracted to him, they are attracted to the money.
I never spent any money on a lady I was asking out. If you find me attractive and decide to date me, only then will I open the wallet and trust me, I know how to spoil my women.
Boys learn, money will not bring you women, what you will get are hustlers, gold diggers and ho's. Hustle so you can live in comfort and afford stuff without begging or borrowing nor because you want leeches around.
Women who have self worth will always still turn down a 'money miss road'. I have seen loads of women turn down rich guys with poor personalities.

y3mi:

Why should money be the transformative force ? I can understand and relate to it if you had said a guy may suppresses certain attributes he knows is in his personality but can't let it flow for lack of money to sustain or best express it, but to say money is the only thing that can effect it transformstion implies you never hsd it in the first place. To buttress this, I'd like to illustrate a typical scenario in as far as Nigerian goes, if you had me borrowe you my ride, say a 2009 Camry, to go woo a chic, there's a limit to the swag you can let out to impress her, depending on your personality ofcourse. But let's say that never occured but rather you happen to hit jackpot or won a huge contract and therefore could afford yourself a Ferrari, drove to a car wash and spotted that same chic across the street busy with something, now it would take only guys who believes a lady's worth can only be measured by the amount of money he has to begin dangle the key to his Ferrari at every given instant he chats/flirts with her, so I need you to note that not every guy would do that, someone like me wouldn't even get any Sportscar because of girls, only guys / men who as you've said are formed with the notion that only money has the effect of transforming or bringing out in them a personality they never really had, which makes me wonder what happens to that transformative effect and the unreal persona it brought out if, or when the money is no longer there, vanishes.

You also said...
Women like guys with high social value and standing, I think such thinking is rather skewed. I think what you actually meant to say is...there are women who are attracted to guys with high social value and standing.

I think why some of us have engaged you on this topic as opposition is how you have stereotyped both gender in your new found perception of reality upon which you hastily draw a conclusion that fundamentally collapse on itself.

luminouz:




*shrugs*

Money is money, its hold on you is equivalent to the what value you place on it.

Nighty night.

Stillthebest:


Anyone who says women arent part of the reasons men drive for Wealth is just an hypothetical hypocrite.

Women is part, unconsciously of the reasons men strive for Wealth.

You make money, build a company, build houses, buy cars, gave a family, travel around the world.

But you keep making money, do u keep repeating the circle above without adding women ether as wives or side chicks?

Most especially in Africa, men tend to do that. It is our we are wired.
Tell me a wealthy man who has no side chick at one point in his life or the other.

FreeSpirited:
When you are broke, you will most times attract low quality babes. Let your hand touch money your taste will change, and those hungry, forming babes will look like nothing to you. Again hustle o.
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I remember one time back then when I use to wish i could date a rich girl...no way. we never crossed path...just small money, na rich girl kon dey find love with desperation and I don't even know what to do with them after some good lashing...and many more
Guy, forget about women, hustle, hustle, after hustling, na you go tire for Pvssy... dey will practically do all sort to be with you..

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Infact you won't need toasting and toasting and toasting..Na those poor girl person dey use 6months toast. I say again, keep hustling and keep your head up....Forget babes and pvssy for sometimes, concentrate on your life and u will drown in pussy later on..Na you go tire, run from pvssy laslas

FreeSpirited:


All w.... My point is so simple ..

seanwilliam:
@ y3mi, first you cant even attract rich men daughters cos you are broke just like you have said..

seanwilliam:

well well, to some individuals, self fulfillment is the most important value to them
( like u thinking of achieving something and you do it)

seanwilliam:

YOU MAKE MORE IMPART with money than any other things in life.. I would have quoted you point for point, but I dont know how to use quoting box very well on nairaland, I hope you u grab my point and connect it to ur question

RisenPhoenix:


Then you wasted your money by eventually opening your wallet and destroyed your own strategy by spoiling them.

You are only half right in that comment. While I totally agree that money should be made for one's own sake, it does not take away from your self esteem to have women attracted to you because of the money. In fact, all women are attracted to money, but you just don't have to spend on them to have them. Just having the money is enough attraction. If you start spending on girlfriends after sex, they will quickly start putting you on a ration and playing you while using you as a maga, because then, your commitment to the relationship will be more than theirs and they will know it. You have to hold the promise of spending over their heads. That's when you get to tap their deepest resources.



True. Making money with yourself in mind is the correct path. But women are still a side benefit of making money.



Reality proves you wrong. Money will bring you women unless you badly destroy your game. Those weren't rich guys. They were guys with a few bucks to throw around at the moment. Women can tell rich from show off.

FreeSpirited:

All women gravitate towards a man of higher social value. That's a fact about women....

FreeSpirited:

The transformative effect of money and success can not be measured, it is only experienced...

FreeSpirited:

There are certain area, bar, hotel, travel spot that quality rich people frequent that a poor person will never get to let alone meeting someone of that calibre.

FreeSpirited:

Money expands your circle and its quality, that's what I mean. I don't mean having money and using it to buy people or sex.

FreeSpirited:

Money even improves swaggs, take it or leave it. If you are well to do, the way you talk, you walk and reason will differ...these are the transformative effect I talk about....And you can't say money doesn't improve one's self esteem by the quality of exposure and people you associate with. My point is so simple ..

harry2sexy:
Let me paint a scenario in the view to showing you how important money is over game, any day, any time and twice on a friday.

A not so eye-catching young man during his teenage days read everything from puas and probably got a success rate of 4/10.

Fast forward to a few years later, dude's got a source of income raking in 500k as a bachelor, has an Air conditioned 1 bedroom flat, has a corolla, wearing designer perfumes, quality wrist matches,good shoes and overall has improved his dress sense and is always dressing dope.

The difference in the few year later is at this point, wherever he steps into, bank, church, shoprite, wedding parties, mosque, club houses, taking a walk, his overall outlook commands respect unlike when he was a teen where he had to cram lines like
"hello, fine girl, can i follow u cos my mum said i should always follow my dreams."

Overall, hustling for the dough will give u a chance to approach any girl, in whatever setting there is. On the aspect of spending, we all know there's poverty in Nigeria and everybody is trying to scam everybody. This is where your street sense should come alive. Things like, "please baby, my rent has expired, my mum is sick, my school fees is not complete" should earn her the block button cos at this point you're the prize, not her.

I'm not against going to the park or eatery and just having fun but breaking the bank, i nor gree for that one.
I've said enough, una bye bye

zed7:
Another childish post. Your hustling is to attract puss? Not to live a comfortable life, not to add value to the life of family and other people in need?
Anyone with self esteem will be ashamed to know women are only attracted to him just because of money. Actually, they are not even attracted to him, they are attracted to the money.
I never spent any money on a lady I was asking out. If you find me attractive and decide to date me, only then will I open the wallet and trust me, I know how to spoil my women.
Boys learn, money will not bring you women, what you will get are hustlers, gold diggers and ho's. Hustle so you can live in comfort and afford stuff without begging or borrowing nor because you want leeches around.
Women who have self worth will always still turn down a 'money miss road'. I have seen loads of women turn down rich guys with poor personalities.

robotix:


If your aim is just make money so that you be with all manner of girls, you are yet to be a man.

There is one common trait among people that have lacked money from childhood until adulthood when baba God blessed them and that is what you exhibit here.

Also, you will mostly attract gold diggers, the ones who just want to eat ur money, enjoy the good times... When you broke, even if you marry them with riches but bad times hit you hard, they will leave you.

You will also attract those ones who are slay Queens, always after fun fun fun...


That is how God saved me from one, whom would have been faking love and I would think she is real but due to a few challenges, she told me she can't date a broke guy. It was a heated exchange that day.

2 weeks after that incident, I walked into millions worth of project.

A friend lost his millions to a similar case, spending money recklessly cos of a girl until he was left with nothing and she left him.

Whatever you are making now, get a woman that is focused and hardworking, save cos money will not always flow. There will be hard times...

"I get before" or "I was once a millionaire" na stupid talk.

RisenPhoenix:


What are you talking about? Please read what is written before you rush to make a "response". What exactly in my statement are you 'refuting'?

robotix:
oops, I thought I was quoting the op

Stillthebest:


After u make the money and comfort, hope you won't still carry women.

kunkelhanspeter:

Big lie
Money will get you first grade girls that don’t need your money only want to be around you to feel secured . And you will find genuine love

khiaa:


Omgoodess!! I don't usually respond to this kind of post but you are truly blinded. There is truly a thing called GOLD DIGGING, these are subsapar females /males who pose as loving women/men to suck the financial blood out of them.

khiaa:


Omgoodess!! I don't usually respond to this kind of post but you are truly blinded. There is truly a thing called GOLD DIGGING, these are subsapar females /males who pose as loving women/men to suck the financial blood out of them.

zed7:

Typical example of inferiority complex. The wife of the shell worker will still cheat with the teacher if he has more substance than him. You people overrate women.
Do riches attract women? Yes. Will it make them love you or be faithful to you? No.
Acquire riches for yourself not to attract women. Being a pauper wouldn't make you happy but saying you can only get women because of money makes you less than a human. Even dogs without money get females.

kunkelhanspeter:

There are ladies out there with dey own money looking for someone to love dey just need someone dey status .
No let nollyhood deceive u where rich girls always looking for poor guys