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Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by mrperfect(m): 4:41pm On Dec 22, 2010
Because I won people see say I dom marry.

I will stil talk other reason make a think more,
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by MrCork3: 4:45pm On Dec 22, 2010
Mrs, Eve:

Be careful mr cock.  You do want to be married some day right?

Married? do people still get married? in 2010? undecided
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by buzugee(m): 4:47pm On Dec 22, 2010
because society tells me to. ill rather be a bachelor for life but then again my peoples will be on my case
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 4:49pm On Dec 22, 2010
More like why dont you wanna get married.
only Mr Corky wink wink
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Elpieda: 5:24pm On Dec 22, 2010
Hmmm keep the answers coming, this is interesting
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2010
hmm
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by MrCork3: 5:26pm On Dec 22, 2010
if u get married, u will be stuck with only ONE punnnny for life, truss me! angry
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Elpieda: 5:29pm On Dec 22, 2010
@Mr Cork just as the woman will be stuck with one ***K for the rest of her life
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by MrCork3: 5:31pm On Dec 22, 2010
Elpieda:

@Mr Cork just as the woman will be stuck with one ***K for the rest of her life


errm Correction!!! its not the same, never! angry
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Elpieda: 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2010
@Mr Cork, I choose not to go into that with you,

For a long time I have always wondered what the point was in getting married especially when a lot of men and women were not respecting the institution of marriage, It was like wahts the point of being married if marriage is just filled with all these heartaches and boredom and pains and disappointment,

But then as time went on and I grew older, I have began to realise that God created the instituion of marriage for a purpose, He created it to mirror the relationship Christ has with his church, And that marriage is the best form of relationships and just as we often disappoint God and go against his will, so will it be in a marriage between man and woman,

I want to get married because God has blessed that institution and I am ready to be a helpmate to my man. I am ready to demonstrate the love Christ has for the church to my man. I also want to partake of the blessings attached to leaving the marriage bed undefiled,

Yes it sounds very spiritual but marriage is nothing but a spiritual union,
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Elpieda: 5:41pm On Dec 22, 2010
@Mr Cork, I choose not to go into that with you,

For a long time I have always wondered what the point was in getting married especially when a lot of men and women were not respecting the institution of marriage, It was like wahts the point of being married if marriage is just filled with all these heartaches and boredom and pains and disappointment,

But then as time went on and I grew older, I have began to realise that God created the instituion of marriage for a purpose, He created it to mirror the relationship Christ has with his church, And that marriage is the best form of relationships and just as we often disappoint God and go against his will, so will it be in a marriage between man and woman,

I want to get married because God has blessed that institution and I am ready to be a helpmate to my man. I am ready to demonstrate the love Christ has for the church to my man. I also want to partake of the blessings attached to leaving the marriage bed undefiled,

Yes it sounds very spiritual but marriage is nothing but a spiritual union,
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by livedit(f): 5:52pm On Dec 22, 2010
>>otokx (m)
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Some Nigerians like to quote the bible out of context; its not good for man to be alone they say and i reply em - did Jesus marry? What about Paul? Everything comes with its uses. <<

No, Jesus did not marry.  Everybody on this earth is here to serve a purpose. Jesus purpose was for salvation. To lay down his life so that we would be forgiving of our sins.  We are all born in sin and the only way to get to heaven and to the father is through Christ Jesus. The only way people can get healing is through the blood of Jesus that he shed on the cross.  Jesus came so that we may have life and have it more abundantly just to name a few.  Jesus did not come to reproduce.  That is what MAN was made for.  To live and worship for Christ.  Now, you are correct in not every man and woman will or meant to get married.  However, in God's commandments, he specifically said that thou shalt not fornicate, thou shalt not commit adultry.  If you are going to have "relations" then YOU need to be married point blank.  Amen
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by livedit(f): 5:55pm On Dec 22, 2010
Elpieda:

@Mr Cork, I choose not to go into that with you,

For a long time I have always wondered what the point was in getting married especially when a lot of men and women were not respecting the institution of marriage, It was like wahts the point of being married if marriage is just filled with all these heartaches and boredom and pains and disappointment,

But then as time went on and I grew older, I have began to realise that God created the instituion of marriage for a purpose, He created it to mirror the relationship Christ has with his church, And that marriage is the best form of relationships and just as we often disappoint God and go against his will, so will it be in a marriage between man and woman,

I want to get married because God has blessed that institution and I am ready to be a helpmate to my man. I am ready to demonstrate the love Christ has for the church to my man. I also want to partake of the blessings attached to leaving the marriage bed undefiled,

Yes it sounds very spiritual but marriage is nothing but a spiritual union,

Amen!
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by MrCork3: 5:56pm On Dec 22, 2010
Elpieda:

@Mr Cork, I choose not to go into that with you,

For a long time I have always wondered what the point was in getting married especially when a lot of men and women were not respecting the institution of marriage, It was like wahts the point of being married if marriage is just filled with all these heartaches and boredom and pains and disappointment,

But then as time went on and I grew older, I have began to realise that God created the instituion of marriage for a purpose, He created it to mirror the relationship Christ has with his church, And that marriage is the best form of relationships and just as we often disappoint God and go against his will, so will it be in a marriage between man and woman,

I want to get married because God has blessed that institution and I am ready to be a helpmate to my man. I am ready to demonstrate the love Christ has for the church to my man. I also want to partake of the blessings attached to leaving the marriage bed undefiled,

Yes it sounds very spiritual but marriage is nothing but a spiritual union,

Great!  I learnt sumtin new today.  Cheeers!! wink

OK I will marry next year, March!! wink
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 6:02pm On Dec 22, 2010
Elpieda,

But non xtian, Non spiritual people also get married. So what rules are they following?
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by snthesis(m): 6:07pm On Dec 22, 2010
Cos I'm selfish - I hate sharing
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Elpieda: 6:12pm On Dec 22, 2010
@dayokanu yep a lot of "non spiritual people" get married and i cannot determine what rules they choose to follow, some of the atheist i know get married because in their opinion it is mentioned in the bible and the quran, and for others they follow the rules of society, parents, culture, and other pressures expect them to get married so they follow those rules, so different reasons for different people, definitely not everyone has to go by my own spiritual definition
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Nobody: 6:21pm On Dec 22, 2010
!!Mr Cork:

Yield, sweeery can i marrry u. I drive a bmw, with alloy wills. truss me! wink

I'm not one to be wooed by fancy cars. 
Material things impress me not.


beejaei:

Who is more crazy, Mr Cork of Becomerich? Or are they the same?

By the way, I agree that marriage is overrated. I know what my  mum went through in my father's house, and I do not wish it on my enemy. If you go make mistake choose the wrong person to marry, and you no wan divorce, e mean say you don enter one chance be that.

I just like an easy life without conflict so I am seriously thinking about not marrying. I am sorry mama, but a man gat to do what he gat to do.


I can relate to your reasoning.
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by 9ja4eva: 6:42pm On Dec 22, 2010
To gain Society's respect
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by MrsEve2(f): 6:45pm On Dec 22, 2010
I find that Nigerian men take pride in being married. They flaunt around with their lil trophy (ring) and flexing their muscles like they did something MAJOR. Whatever.
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by ahamdiheme: 6:58pm On Dec 22, 2010
I want to get married because I love her and in all honesty, I can't live without her. So I want to make that vow, that oath that will bind me to her and her to me for life.
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by willyluv(m): 8:00pm On Dec 22, 2010
because I have many punanes and there's need to scare some away.
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Omolola1(f): 8:09pm On Dec 22, 2010
when i am ready for it, it would be because i love him and i want to spend d rest of my life wiv him
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 8:18pm On Dec 22, 2010
Mrs, Eve:

I find that Nigerian men take pride in being married. They flaunt around with their lil trophy (ring) and flexing their muscles like they did something MAJOR. Whatever.

I find it that more women take pride in being nmarried, They always flaunt their wedding band everywhere and shine their teeth like they have done something major their friends cant achieve. (Complete it with "WHATEVER"wink
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by MrsEve2(f): 8:25pm On Dec 22, 2010
Hmm, struck a nerve huh? undecided
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 8:30pm On Dec 22, 2010
Yes cheesy
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by tunyus(m): 8:36pm On Dec 22, 2010
to  be having legitimate sex.
And because i really luv her
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Specialist900(m): 8:40pm On Dec 22, 2010
Dayo in action.
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by dayokanu(m): 10:11pm On Dec 22, 2010
^^ Wetin I do ooohhh
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by Moyola(f): 10:18pm On Dec 22, 2010
juz bkuz. . ok! angry
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by slap1(m): 10:24pm On Dec 22, 2010
Because I'm tired of freedom.
Re: Why Do You Want To Get Married? by lahips: 11:25pm On Dec 22, 2010
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