pro01:

Is there really any female worker that isn't sleeping or wouldn't at some point sleep with her boss/ senior colleague? Maybe just 5%. based on either of two possibilities: 1. The boss doesn't find her attractive, is impotent, is a genuine man of integrity, or just isn't interested for whatever reason. 2. The girl's dad/uncle owns the company or she has higher 'authorities' than the boss such that the boss leaves her alone to avoid wahala. Other than these two broad possibilities, your girlfriend or wife is either sleeping with or would soon sleep with her boss or she would lose her job. If one's girlfriend or wife has kept that job all this while - without necessarily being a super-indispensable genius that the company can't easily replace, then be rest assured that there's a high possibility she's being whorishly penetrated on all fronts in some hotel somewhere. Even if its not the boss, it would be some dashing/charming colleague for whom she has developed strong feelings due to hours and hours of working closely together for months on end - seduction is always a contact sport.

That's the bitter truth, even though I expect the so-called 'career ladies' to vehemently deny it and stubbornly live in denial.
My brother you said it all.
It is really bleak for those of us that want a faithful career woman for a wife. The odds are so slim as to be considered near-impossible. Yeah they'll say it's the same thing for the men too, but thats not the issue now, is it.

You may not see the clues if you stupidly think that your wife must be a saint; but if you were once or still a playboy you can never trust any woman 100% even your wife and when she makes any slight move of having emotional attachment to another man you will know immediately not 3 years. This happens to the brothers who always claim to be 'holier than thou' born agains.
There was an experience of a lady who claims that her fiance says no sex before marriage and she accepted, but was always coming to my friends room to Shine her Congo regularly even up to 2 days before their wedding.

H$LBroker:

Sorry about this that happen to you, and you are just discovering few days to Christmas and New Year, but the fact is that you can't divorce her if you are a Christian, you have to forgive her and pray to God to change her but  depend on the type of denomination you belong to as a Christian, if you belong to Pentecostal which i belong to, then according to the word of God what God have put together let no one put asunder, read Mark 10: 2-9

clem2love:

Guy is that all you have seen ?

i also have the same thing happen to me. but this time mine is a bit painful.  

my wife sleepng with my son's teacher.

o my God !    well all i did was to pay evil for evil.  i will did to her sleep with cheap girls she know well make her fell the pain that aswell.


so guy fell the same

turboman:

@Poster
Its a phsycological agreement for couples not to snoop into each others sms messages. But take it from me if my wife decides to password her sms inbox on her phone, then i won't be needing any more reasons in order to boot her away from my life 

On a second though, how long have you been married to her? 3years is not 3days; this guy may have been screwing you wife before your marriage or even before you met her.