adidaprima:
This is a very serious blunder you want to commit !

Because kids have emerged you cannot go your separate ways. If there were no kids then it would have been much easier walking out.

If you leave your kids with him who will take care of them ?

Will the man you want to get married love the idea of harbouring another man's kids in his house ?

Will your mind be at peace if your kids are not with you?

Pray to God for forgiveness and pray fervently for divine wisdom to avoid mistakes several persons have made that turn kids into menace to society!

There's nothing that destroys marriage faster than Poverty. If a woman has a job or handwork she's wouldnt be so scared of divorce or separation. And men do alot or incredible things when there's no or shortage of finance to run the day to day activities of a home. A man is quick to tell a wife to pack her things and go when the woman is not contributing financially to the welfare of a home. If not, he would think twice!

Remijuice:
Please Forgive my Grammar.

A man and a woman living together as husband and wife with kid(s) but are not legally Married. That is, no Traditional or Court Wedding.

If one of them decides not interested in the Union, should he/she go to court before they are Separated?

Modified: If there is no Divorce Proceedings, what happens to the kids?

They should peacefully go their separate ways

There was no formal marriage activities binding them

They met and started living they should also separate themselves