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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by donMIG(m): 10:56pm On Mar 31, 2020
The world is on fire n all he can tink of is screw his own blood
No wonder the world burns!
God have mercy on us

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Laren24(m): 10:56pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
Did you come to work or you are there to report your brother and "Cosine" sister to your mom?


Why don't you face what brought you there?


Akpan, becareful, nah Express you dey go.
Someone is seeing his brother and cousin having an affair, that's a taboo never meant to happen. If that should be exposed to limelight it's a disgrace to everyone in their family and you ask him not to worry. That's bad and shows how irresponsible you are. No offense.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Laren24(m): 10:57pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
Did you come to work or you are there to report your brother and "Cosine" sister to your mom?


Why don't you face what brought you there?


Akpan, becareful, nah Express you dey go.
Someone is seeing his brother and cousin having an affair, that's a taboo never meant to happen. If that should be exposed to limelight it's a disgrace to everyone in their family and you ask him not to worry. That's bad and shows how irresponsible you are. No offense
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by dequeenishere: 10:58pm On Mar 31, 2020
Pls don't keep quiet, that's a very bad act. Talk to ur brother and make it clear to him dt what he is doing is bad. If he doesn't listen and ur mum is someone dt can handle such issue without making trouble, then confide in her.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 10:58pm On Mar 31, 2020
fergie001:

You be lawyer? grin grin

He should talk to his bro sha....not accusing him, but trying to dissuade him if indeed true.

Things deh happen oooo
I like the word "Accusing"


That's what the Op is doing, and if care is not taking, he would run to the village to give a broadcast of what didn't happen.

Incest is very bad, but false accusation is worse.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by fireback: 10:59pm On Mar 31, 2020
call your brother, tell him that you know exactly what is going on between him and your cousin. tell him to remember the precaution should anything happen to your cousin or if outsider should hear what's going on... after that, start inviting your female friends to the house often. possibly he might pick interest in one of them. that will help divert his attention, and don't forget to tell your friends that your brother does not have a girlfriend so that the girls will fall for him too, cos that's a rear opportunity for the girls. this will make the whole thing easier and faster for you. and please don't tell your parents yet, if you want peace in that house. just play your part first.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Pandev(m): 11:00pm On Mar 31, 2020
9jaDoomCountry:


I warn again you people should not shake this table o.

It's insult to say that God is dynamic. Or is it the reason people are messing up today because they believe that God has changed to conform with today's world? Is that how you people have gone to reduce God? Ever heard of unchangeable God? BTW which God are you talking about?

Mosaic law or not can you point where it's written one can not marry cousin. Even the present day Queen Elizabeth you know the relationship between her and her husband?

Make una no dey shake this table o.
just watch as those ignorant fvckers are acting like they fvcking know everything about their so called religion. One thing I fvcking hate about them is their fvcking oversabi behaviour.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 11:01pm On Mar 31, 2020
Laren24:

Someone is seeing his brother and cousin having an affair, that's a taboo never meant to happen. If that should be exposed to limelight it's a disgrace to everyone in their family and you ask him not to worry. That's bad and shows how irresponsible you are. No offense.
Have you ever been accused falsely?

I don't think so...


Stay Safe.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Donaldoni: 11:01pm On Mar 31, 2020
@youngvikthor

All those telling you to mind your business are either into incest or about to.

Don't mind them!

The book of Deuteronomy in the Bible has clear regulations as to who a man can have sexual relations with without committing incest.

After the regulations were given incest relationships never happened again in the Bible.

Incest including sexxx with cousins is a sin!!

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Pandev(m): 11:01pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
I like the word "Accusing"


That's what the Op is doing, and if care is not taking, he would run to the village to give a broadcast of what didn't happen.

Incest is very bad, but false accusation is worse.
fvck! You're a wise man!

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by fergie001: 11:01pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
I like the word "Accusing"


That's what the Op is doing, and if care is not taking, he would run to the village to give a broadcast of what didn't happen.

Incest is very bad, but false accusation is worse.
Na there egungun go enter express..
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by hyoid(m): 11:02pm On Mar 31, 2020
Incest has very serious spiritual implications.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by abijaofficial(m): 11:03pm On Mar 31, 2020
excanny:


A lot of people don't sleep with their cousins, only insane people do.

Don't make incest look Ok.


Inbreeding results to low quality offsprings, in the Muslim world where this is practiced, they have the lowest IQ and close to stupid reasoning individuals. Read ur Biology textbook, Genetics.
sleeping with your cousin is not necessarily incest .
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by bizzibodi(m): 11:03pm On Mar 31, 2020
Set up a CCTV to catch them or get a locked padlock with black thread around it ,keep it under his mattress.u will catch those fpucking dogs in action grin grin grin
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by hyoid(m): 11:03pm On Mar 31, 2020
hyoid:
Incest has very serious spiritual implications.
Hia
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 11:04pm On Mar 31, 2020
Pandev:
fvck! You're a wise man!
You too bro.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Laren24(m): 11:04pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
Have you ever been accused falsely?

I don't think so...


Stay Safe.
I pray none of us has to experience that. Let's take the approach of 'if it's happening and becomes too late'. Well, as he's seeing symptoms of it he had better choose to be wary.
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by TheStarsAlign: 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2020
PERVENCHE:


Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob all married their cousins.

The Bible is pretty clear on that fact by showing so many first-cousin marriages and by first-cousin marriage being notably absent from Leviticus 18. In the JPS version of the Tanakh Leviticus 18:6 says not to "come near anyone of [your] own flesh to uncover unclothedness" in the JPS. In other versions the word "kin" is often used. Leviticus does go on to list various and very specific "you and your kin" relationships and goes so far as to point out that we shouldn't have sex with sheep but fails to even elude to cousins. In fact, if Jesus did exist it is well within the realm of possibility that his parents were first-cousins (the 1913 Catholic Encyclopedia mentions this possibility).

Na wao. I don't know what to say to you
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by oparahchi(m): 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
Did you come to work or you are there to report your brother and "Cosine" sister to your mom?


Why don't you face what brought you there?


Akpan, becareful, nah Express you dey go.
This shows the height of your myopic reasoning. Quite sad. People like you would do worse.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by UwaMmebii(m): 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2020
Uwammebi
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 11:05pm On Mar 31, 2020
fergie001:

Na there egungun go enter express..
grin
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by makewetalk2: 11:06pm On Mar 31, 2020
my dear, go straight to your mom and dad and reveal what you saw. do not listen to those idiots asking you to confront your brother.
you have nothing to say to your older brother and he will lie to conceal his evil. just go straight to your parents and report this.
let your parents handle it. say nothing to your brother.
you are only doing him a favor. do not soil your hands. do not fear that the family will divide cos it is divided already by you trying to conceal a thing like this. expose evil and let those guilty confess their sins. there is no way the family can divide if you expose the evildoers.

most Nigerians would rather save their families by killing their families. it is not your fault. they should have thought of their actions before doing it. report them and move on with your life. God is pleased if you do that. expose evil to save your brother.
youngvikthor:
My brother was staying with my aunty since 2017 so early this year he decided to rent his own apartment after saving some money

So January this year, he told my mum that I should come and stay with him that he will look for work for me which he did. Since my arrival to this place, my cosin sister alway visits us. The house is not far from ours. She will come in name of helping us to cook.

While she and my brother will be touching themselves even when am around, most people in our compound thought she is my brother's girlfriend. I also noticed some used condoms in our room and my brother did not have girlfriend.

Fast forward to yesterday Monday, I went to work
and our boss said we should go back due to the issue of this covid 19, I reach House only for me to see my sister lying dawn with just singlet, playing game with my brother's phone.

And my brother was in the bathroom. I don't really know what to do, if I should tell my mother or not, my aunty is such a kind person she at times gives us food stuff and even money and I don't want my brother to get angry with me.

Please I need your help, he is 26, I'm just 21
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by mickeymimi: 11:06pm On Mar 31, 2020
a lot of people have had or have crush on their cousins ... it natural and normal .......the way you control your emotion /feelings is what matters.

lot of genetic birth problems in the Pakistani community .........due to their practice (around 55% of marriages) of marrying first cousins....the worst will be to get pregnant and not be able to abort it ..... remember most hospital might not be able to do abortion during this corona virus period.... good they are using condom.

Regardless of the feeling they shared , they need to cut ties from each other , no facebook, no phonecalls, no coming to cook ... they need to stop now.

you need to confront both of them individually ..this is a situation that can split your family....even though the girl is 19 .. your brother will become the criminal and the girl will be the victim....Most family will defend the girl and start saying your brother forced , rape , took advantage , abused her etc .. even though she consented to it.

not judging .. but wish you the best in dealing with the situation

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 31, 2020
Laren24:

I pray none of us has to experience that. Let's take the approach of 'if it's happening and becomes too late'. Well, as he's seeing symptoms of it he had better choose to be wary.
Just listen to yourself....

"He's seeing SYMPTOMS" of it"


Even your Holy Book directs you not to give FALSE ACCUSATIONS....

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Sundaycomputer: 11:08pm On Mar 31, 2020
With this Corona virus that is on grand , just sent him a message Jesus loves you , stop fornication
Go and get married
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by BarrElChapo(m): 11:08pm On Mar 31, 2020
Erediauwa:
Did you come to work or you are there to report your brother and "Cosine" sister to your mom?


Why don't you face what brought you there?


Akpan, becareful, nah Express you dey go.

grin grin grin grin Bro you mad ni lmao but then na incest be that nah. If you plan dumb you're just as bad as the person humping
Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by CapedBaldy: 11:08pm On Mar 31, 2020
excanny:


A lot of people don't sleep with their cousins, only insane people do.

Don't make incest look Ok.


Inbreeding results to low quality offsprings, in the Muslim world where this is practiced, they have the lowest IQ and close to stupid reasoning individuals. Read ur Biology textbook, Genetics.

I'm not a Muslim nor do I support incest but do you know that Muslims invented algebra? it's not good to insult a group of people just like that

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by quiteboy(m): 11:09pm On Mar 31, 2020
grin grin you no well I swear.
Martinez39s:
Is he also sleeping with your Tangent and Cosecant? grin

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Funaki: 11:09pm On Mar 31, 2020
Donaldoni:
@youngvikthor

All those telling you to mind your business are either into incest or about to.

Don't mind them!

The book of Deuteronomy in the Bible have clear regulations as to who a man can have sexual relations with without committing incest.

After the regulations were given incestual relationships never happened again in the he Bible.

Incest including sexxx with cousins is a sin!!

Na lie!!! People married their cousins after Deuteronomy

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by Nobody: 11:10pm On Mar 31, 2020
oparahchi:
This shows the height of your myopic reasoning. Quite sad. People like you would do worse.
Enjoy yourself.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by oluwasegun007(m): 11:11pm On Mar 31, 2020
Suspecting is not cogent alone...


Try to catch them in the act, especially in this lockdown period... They will surely do it again.

By the way your cousin must be possesed and your brother foolish to engage in such act..


I guess he stayed to much in their house.

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Re: My Brother Is Sleeping With Our Cousin by charmosky(m): 11:11pm On Mar 31, 2020
This is a very sensitive issue...you’re brother helped you with a job and accommodation, now you’re working and becoming independent...do not be afraid to confront your brother with boldness and respect, be honest and frank that what he’s doing is bad and he has to stop, tell him he has all that is required to have as many girl friends as he wishes...if he doesn’t stop, move out from the house, do not allow that sacrilege to continue under your head...call your family members and inform them...you’ll be vindicated

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