comshots:
Sheybe when she dump you you go cry come here and dey lament say"this is a gel I have spent my hard-earned money for.That is after you don spend your school fees for two semesters for the olosho.Be forming ajebo.

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

herzernIsHere:
Unless you are dating an orphan, you are not under any obligation to give money to your partner in a relationship.

Belafonte:


She probably thinks you’re stingy.

iammolise:

I never fail to let her know that... She always say it and I always tell her I can only give what I can and not kill myself because I have a girlfriend.

989900:


My brother, you have spoken very well, but you need to understand most of our fellow brothers: either broke ass 'neegers' or the thriving/surviving ones have incurable 'poverty mentality issues'.

I understand that there are leeches amongst the womenfolk who need to be put in their place, but God forbid I date a woman for years and she ends up not benefiting from me financially, educationally, morally, etc., and I have dated women from different races and all continents, bar South America.

Crazychris:
That is not what the OP is saying, he actually meant pussified guys like you shouldn't yield to their girlfriends unrealistic demand for money, e.g putting her on a monthly salary

Benohio:






And you think the people here are as poor as you are? the change you are making dey make your head swell. if have time to write this nonense you just wrote,It means you are as broke as they are. woman wrapper. woman don turn your head tire.

Belafonte:


You’re doing well. She can always find a richer boyfriend. The sin is shortchanging yourself to please her.

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

Ryocaj:

U v no brain.. it's because of ur type prostitution is lucrative.. So u must buy sex.. na ur type dey pay girl school fees or shop for them when u barely av enough to buy a designer wear in ur closet..

egopersonified:
I have began to classify people into two groups. One group celebrates their birthdays by buying and sharing things for people. The other group celebrates by tasking people to buy something for them. I hold the first group in very high regards and prefer to do monetary transactions with them. The second group? I stay away from anything that will bring us together. They will always look for a loop hole or soft spot to exploit. As no research is 100% accurate, there are sometimes some exceptions.

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

yanabasee:
Dating a woman is like engaging her to yourself.....

If I have a woman today and she ask me for money..... i will give her.....

She's my woman.. I see it as my responsibility to make her happy as she sees it as her responsibility to keep me happy...

It's always mutual.....


PS.....


Many of you guys with very minute self esteem CANNOT stand a working class girl that doesn't need a man to survive...


When you push a woman into fending for herself and she began to look for taste, class and standard in a man... You idiots will be the first to tag them as FEMINIST... If they depend on your little money, you call them GOLDDIGGERS...

Confused mofos...

yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...

Jflex07:
What if another guy gives her more money to make her more happier?

Paxie55:

D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.

iammolise:

Suo until I pack my salary give am naim be say we dey date

idahme:



Guy I Dey ur side oooooooo, Wetin I Dey talk be say she no worth the position she dey

Budline1:


If you really want to help your woman..why not just teach her how to fish instead of giving her fish. Get a job or business for your woman. Which one is her benefiting from you financially?

You don't need to drain yourself because of women that end up leaving you.

Read my comment again: "Financially, educationally, morally, etc." . . . that was what I wrote, you only noticed the "financially part".

'Drain' is relative, what might be drain to you might be weekend shenanigans money to me.

That said my brother, I don't need to blow my trumpet, but I've been around, I've gone through stuffs that'll either kill some people financially, physically, psychologically, or otherwise, OTOH, I've done things for myself that 95%+ of the world's population can't touch (not necessarily materially).

I don't do things for people with the mindset of getting paid back. I won't accept a lady that would only choose to stay with me because of whatever millions, thousands, Kobo's, or peanuts I've spent on her.

My bottom line: if there is anyone (male or female) around me, I try to do my 'convenient best' at the time to have a resounding positive effect on their lives ("teaching them how to fish inclusive", regardless of if they'll be there for me tomorrow or not.

My attitude/mentality might be of course shaped differently from others, but it has been the best blessing life/the creator gave me.

kalufelix:
truer words has never been said...ladies with their random begging attitude and entitlement mentality is a huge turnoff..,just 2mins flirting with a random friendly guy and by the end of the 3rd minute you are telling him you want to eat popcorn...popcorn is very very small but it sends a wrong message..one that will always remain beyond the female comprehension..

one uploaded some semi nudes on her status, after complimenting what I saw and a brief chat, next thing was pls send me money for blah bla bla.... I just weak. Apparently the pictures she uploaded on her status was a trap which I'm sure some guys on her contact list will fall for.

Erediauwa:
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.

Lonelyloner:

Only few will understand.
These ones, even if they leave you, you won't feel it cos you were an angel when they needed one.
When your gf has no parent, you'll understand.
Even if she leave me, I know I've helped an orphan and the the God of orphans will never forget my kindness.
Give out of love though. Not out of trade by barter

iammolise:

Well I've never been one to hold on to anything so much, let her go and find the rich guy then, I'll just move on... And please explain, how I'm I "shortchanging" myself to please her.

989900:


Read my comment again: "Financially, educationally, morally, etc." . . . that was what I wrote, you only noticed the "financially part".

'Drain' is relative, what might be drain to you might be weekend shenanigans money to me.

That said my brother, I don't need to blow my trumpet, but I've been around, I've gone through stuffs that'll either kill some people financially, physically, psychologically, or otherwise, OTOH, I've done things for myself that 95%+ of the world's population can't touch (not necessarily materially).

I don't do things for people with the mindset of getting paid back. I won't accept a lady that would only choose to stay with me because of whatever millions, thousands, Kobo's, or peanuts I've spent on her.

My bottom line: if there is anyone (male or female) around me, I try to do my 'convenient best' at the time to have a resounding positive effect on their lives ("teaching them how to fish inclusive", regardless of if they'll be there for me tomorrow or not.

My attitude/mentality might be of course shaped differently from others, but it has been the best blessing life/the creator gave me.

Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

Newbielearner:


Same here bro. The day one told me she just asked her dad for airtime so she could subscribe for us to chat.
After a week of video calls, etc. I chose to send her airtime myself. She didn't ask. She called back and was grateful.

I changed my mind and believed that we still have good women in this country. You just have to search carefully. Lead. Don't be in need of sex. There's no emotion that's beyond control. Once you're constantly in need of sex and you have a low self esteem. Even if you're the richest guy, they'll ride on you. But simps who have been neutralised of their capacity to lead would be promising marriage up and down. Would be footing all their bills. If you want to do that, do it for charity's sake. Not for sexual exchange.

It's the terrible women's world when we have weak simps behaving like Adam. Just lead for once without expecting sex and you'd see the difference. Of course, you can't lead without emotional intelligence.

My comment is that you should be yourself and not lose yourself because you have something that stands and fall under your loins

lmao!!!!! And u believed her?? That was her game all along