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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Fireproof123(m): 9:19pm On Apr 08, 2020
Edyice:
Unless you marry her in a short period of time (like probably two weeks ) brother you will spend .. grin

As for me I will spend for that pvssy , so I can knack and knack wella cool

Gals open their labs well when treated well , this includes( buying them gifts , and giving them money including those that have boyfriend , male lover ) that's what up .. grin
correct bro
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by brotherMeigma(m): 9:42pm On Apr 08, 2020
emmaodet:


Yes, you are right.
Unfortunately, dildos don't pay money. That is where the issue is.
Unfortunately, they do. Teledildonics, utilized by Cam girls for their live cam shows.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by emmaodet: 9:51pm On Apr 08, 2020
brotherMeigma:

Unfortunately, they do. Teledildonics, utilized by Cam girls for their live cam shows.

Waoooo
Just hearing this for the first time.
We research on it.
Thanks
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 10:02pm On Apr 08, 2020
All these arguing back n forth about pussy n money, niggaz n hoes is becoming boring af embarassed
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Newmanluckyman(m): 10:09pm On Apr 08, 2020
oluwaahmed:
Apart from greedy hoes that ask their BF for money like tic-tac-toe most Nigerian ladies don't have the independent capability their counterparts abroad have. This is because of our culture. From the day a Nigerian lady is born she will be dependent on her parents up till after her university graduation. Even after she gets work she will now still be asking her guy for money and will wana contribute little or nothing even after she's married to the family upkeep. However abroad as a lady you can start working from junior high or even after graduation from senior high. This is because of the independent nature of their culture. They are thrust with a sense of responsibility at an early age & they know going to college is expensive so its a responsibility they do for themselves without necessarily needing their parents. Although one can say that its because there are plentiful jobs and numerous student loans that a secondary school graduate can get a job that pays minimum wage which he/she can use to pay for rent and utilities. They do not need to ask you for money when dating cos they know everyone is hustling to make ends meet.
...everything you said here has been neutralized by the fact that you admitted that "even when Nigerian girls are working they will still be demanding money from their boyfriends"

So it's not a matter of financial independence for Nigerian women rather STRUCTURAL ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY SYNDROME (SEMS) . This is the difference between Nigerian women and their counterpart from abroad.

It's a sad development.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Idris00(m): 10:30pm On Apr 08, 2020
Yes..... Nice one
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Egoveen: 12:41am On Apr 09, 2020
Paxie55:

D1ldos are better than 99% of you guys crayons.
And any day a prick enter your toto na that day you go die....Idiot

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Crazychris: 4:14am On Apr 09, 2020
Stacyomolola:

See how pained u are.
So in ur mind u are strong, i pity u, keep deceiving ur DNA.
Bunch of psychos and smeg head.
You look like an îmbecile on your profile pic, someone suffering from down syndrome. No point dragging with you
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Allaboutkatiee(f): 4:49am On Apr 09, 2020
Toks2008:
There is a difference between a guy who decides to give his lady money without her making demands and a lady who has the habit of demanding.

It is ok to give your lady money only if you feel like or when it is extremely necessary and you should only give money you can afford without expecting anything in return but never ever put yourself in a difficult position where the lady you are dating will be making financial requests from you as if it is her right because no matter the sacrifices you make, she will still dump you if she wants to and when you look back to recount all you have done for her, you will realize how all the money you have given her would have been enough to change the life of someone very dear to you.

I have read many stories of guys lamenting about how they spent so much for a lady just for the same lady to end up dumping them for another man and i always wonder if these ladies forced the money out of them at gunpoint.

A lady who truly desires you will never make unrealistic financial demands from you but only a woman who does not have your interest will make demands as she wishes because she has no plans with you... the fact that you give a lady money does not mean she will love you and...in fact, a woman will take your money and give to another broke guy she desires cos a woman will sleep with a man she truly wants even if she gets nothing from him.

Please work hard, save and invest your money for your future, spend on your parents and family members and if you must give any lady money please do it without expecting anything in return and give only what you can afford.

Don't be scared of losing any lady because you have no money to give to her and stop wasting your money chasing shadows cos a lady who will be yours will always be yours and a lady who is truly yours will help you save your money and not take and take from you because if you give your girlfriend money because you don't want to lose her, you must keep up with her demands even after you marry her else she will dump you

Hope this makes sense.

You are totally wrong @op
Money is essential to a ladys life and any guy who disagrees with that is still on a long thinggg
Out! undecided

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by elyonchee(f): 3:53pm On Apr 10, 2020
Meeyankee:

As old as you are why are you complaining? Evening news paper sported
I work for my money and also good people, also bless me at their own free will. I receive allowance from dad every month. So I have streams of income.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Nobody: 3:58pm On Apr 10, 2020
elyonchee:
I work for my money and also good people, also bless me at their own free will. I receive allowance from dad every month. So I have streams of income.

Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Sharon1997(f): 7:58pm On Apr 10, 2020
In my opinion , men will spend when a woman is worth it, and a woman will give sex when a man worth it.EOD.

But leaving gender out some people are naturally very stingy from their mother's womb, and they bring this terrible trait into relationships.So being in a relationship with one especially if it's the guy is frustrating .
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Brunicekid(m): 8:12pm On Apr 10, 2020
Lonelyloner:

Only few will understand.
These ones, even if they leave you, you won't feel it cos you were an angel when they needed one.
When your gf has no parent, you'll understand.
Even if she leave me, I know I've helped an orphan and the the God of orphans will never forget my kindness.
Give out of love though. Not out of trade by barter
Exactly.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by efewizey(m): 10:52pm On Apr 10, 2020
Toks2008:


In other words, Your Psy is for sale.

96 percent of ladies are all dogs.. At this rate ii don't think I will get married.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by SwagPower: 3:01am On Apr 13, 2020
yanabasee:



So, if she ask for N100 to buy bread for us to eat and I give it to her.... It means she's faking her love for me right?

Because giving her the money to get us something makes her happy and appreciative...
Could you just Shutup for one minute and learn something new....A girl that TRULY loves u wil not come and ask u for 100 to buy bread for both of u.. She'll tell u she wants to get sumtin and come bak with bread for both of u..My girl goes to the market and gets stuff for food..and I'm not talking indomie..Im talking confirm chow.. Soup and all n won't ask me for 1 kobo...

But I really don't expect a guy like u to understand what I just typed..
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Lonelyloner: 12:33am On Apr 15, 2020
FROGMAN101:


You are using emotions to judge what the person you quoted said. He only stated that men are under no obligation to give women they are dating money and that is fact.

Nobody cares about what you do with your money. That is your business.

Then, if you are helping someone cause "God of orphans will never forget your kindness" then you have a selfish agenda.

Finally, remember that not everyone thinks like you, infact you are living in your own head if you think everyone will remember your so-called good deeds.

I wasn't hoping on people to repay me. I was hoping on God. Nobody can repay my kindness.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Gamboh55(m): 1:48pm On Apr 19, 2020
Sharon1997:
In my opinion , men will spend when a woman is worth it, and a woman will give sex when a man worth it.EOD.

But leaving gender out some people are naturally very stingy from their mother's womb, and they bring this terrible trait into relationships.So being in a relationship with one especially if it's the guy is frustrating .

You were making sense until you came to the second paragraph. Who says it should be only the guy doing the giving in the relationship. That's why I advocate for broke men and ladies to stay away from relationships until they have a source of income. Nobody owes you nothing. You want money for anything, work for it. One love.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 2FlowZ(m): 3:08am On Apr 21, 2020
From experience, its better not to spend your money on any girl that isnt your woman...a woman that went through the struggle with you is the only one worth spending on, any woman you spend on and doesnt know the pain that made you a rich nigga is a gold digger....mind you, even the woman that went through the struggle with you can still bail out on you but the probability is less sha.....if you want to pay for the sex it is allowed but spending frivolously because of the sex is foolishness...why not use invest that money in your child or yourself rather......

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by 2FlowZ(m): 3:10am On Apr 21, 2020
Calm down shawty...no cast everything now

elyonchee:
I work for my money and also good people, also bless me at their own free will. I receive allowance from dad every month. So I have streams of income.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by DexterousOne(m): 1:56pm On Apr 23, 2020
InvertedHammer:

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They called you broke. Be proud of it but don't be comfortable in it. Being broke is one of the best life training any man can go through.

\

Inverted

You spoke well.

Being broke is a phase that men learn some valuable lessons about life
But remaining broke no good o
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Mazugore365: 2:20pm On Apr 25, 2020
Girlfriends and money. This is a crisis that willl forever go on becuse somemen are just too foolish to open their eyes and accept reality. It is true that some men think that when they give their girls money than their girlfriends will love them more and do what it takes to keep them happy. i keep on hearing that what a aman can do a woman can do better. How about this time it is the girls that give us money. Things have changed so why not. A girl will never acceot that unless they really love their boyfrriend. If you want to find out if your girlfriend is with you because of money or love then you can do this. For once in your life just ask her to help you with some money. It does not have to be muc. The money should just be a small percentage of the money you have spent on her. If she gives it to you and asks you to pay it back then dump her that very moment. If she says she does not have money then do the same. You cannot be the only one that is giving.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by chidekings(m): 8:45pm On Apr 25, 2020
emmanuelewumi:


We have some who still reason that way, you can make them to start reasoning... your way.

Don't mind if you are called stingy. It is better to be called stingy than to be called poor.

You are poor because they think or know you don't have.
You are stingy when they think or know you have but you don't spend what you have any how.

Fingers are not equal, nothing bad in giving your up and doing wife or girlfriend that you think you have a future with a seed capital which she can grow.

A friend gave his girlfriend now his wife 200k to start a business while schooling part time. By the time she graduated in 5 years time that seed capital of 200k grew to about N3million. Now that they are married, funds from her business assisted the family in building their first home
good evening sir,sorry i decided to quote you on a dead page,can i please have your number or mail,want to discuss something with you.thank you
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Rexweaver(m): 8:47pm On Apr 25, 2020
Spending money on your girlfriend is not a bad thing. You just have to make sure that you are not overdoing it. Taking your girl out for lumch, buying her gifts or even sending her some money is not a bad thing as long as you are notstraining yourself financially to do these things. As long as you do it on your own free will then it is also ok. A girl who is constantly asking for money is what you should avoid. These kind of girls will feed on you then dump you just like that. Do not be folled men I know that all the people here that support spending a lot of money on their girls are jsut people with too much money to spare. No matter how much money they spend they will always have enough in their bank accounts. We all have our opinions and the funalchoice depends entirely on the man. If they want to go broke because of their girl then so be it.

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by emmanuelewumi(m): 8:50pm On Apr 25, 2020
chidekings:

good evening sir,sorry i decided to quote you on a dead page,can i please have your number or mail,want to discuss something with you.thank you

Sorry you can always ask your questions here.

Thank you
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by chidekings(m): 8:56pm On Apr 25, 2020
emmanuelewumi:


Sorry you can always ask your questions here.

Thank you
ok,the questions are a but personal.but nevertheless thank you for your time sir.
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by adeblow(m): 9:44pm On Jul 18, 2020
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.
angry
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by PrinzCarter(m): 2:48am On Aug 16, 2020
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 3:53pm On Dec 04, 2020
Ladies, please stop giving your pussy to guy's, instead of the pussy, Give them advice on how to make more money...


Hope this makes sense as well.



Jason.
Noted
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 3:54pm On Dec 04, 2020
adeblow:

angry
Why the angry face?
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 4:04pm On Dec 04, 2020
Lonelyloner:


I wasn't hoping on people to repay me. I was hoping on God. Nobody can repay my kindness.
Don't mind him, he wants every one to be stingy like him, there's nothing wrong in what you said

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Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 4:06pm On Dec 04, 2020
Rexweaver:
Spending money on your girlfriend is not a bad thing. You just have to make sure that you are not overdoing it. Taking your girl out for lumch, buying her gifts or even sending her some money is not a bad thing as long as you are notstraining yourself financially to do these things. As long as you do it on your own free will then it is also ok. A girl who is constantly asking for money is what you should avoid. These kind of girls will feed on you then dump you just like that. Do not be folled men I know that all the people here that support spending a lot of money on their girls are jsut people with too much money to spare. No matter how much money they spend they will always have enough in their bank accounts. We all have our opinions and the funalchoice depends entirely on the man. If they want to go broke because of their girl then so be it.

You have sense
Re: Guys Please Stop Giving Your Money To Ladies. by Danyyyyyyyyyyy: 4:16pm On Dec 04, 2020
efewizey:


96 percent of ladies are all dogs.. At this rate ii don't think I will get married.
What human in their right sense will marry a dog? Better stay single so you don't go and reproduce children with brains like yours

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