Sunfull:
Make sure you arrange your marriage within this pandemic period because it's less expensive now. No social gathering.

faithugo64:
Take the first advice, go get married now, lesser expenses involved..
If you were man enough to have unprotected sex with her, you should be man enough to face her people. They can only talk not kill you.

Congratulations baba junior and safe delivery to Iya

mabeni:
How do I meet the parents of my fiancee that their daughter is pregnant for me? We are both in our early 30's and have planned to get married probably in 2yrs times for financial but she's over 2 months pregnant now and we are keeping the baby.
My major concern here is not keeping the baby and my fiancee (I can convinently take care of them ) but how do I face her parents that I don't have money for marriage or bride price now.

Note: She's from akwa ibom

mabeni:
How do I meet the parents of my fiancee that their daughter is pregnant for me? We are both in our early 30's and have planned to get married probably in 2yrs times for financial but she's over 2 months pregnant now and we are keeping the baby.
My major concern here is not keeping the baby and my fiancee (I can convinently take care of them ) but how do I face her parents that I don't have money for marriage or bride price now.

Note: She's from akwa ibom

mabeni:
thanks but can't we do whatever we should have done after given birth? Heard some people gets married even after given birth to 4 children

faithugo64:

So you want to have your kids out of wedlock?
I don't know how it is done over there, but hope you are aware that the kids are not rightfully yours until you have paid the bride price of their mother?
Be a man, Go and see her people and take your wife home.

Phenomenal16:
..if is a boy name him David.... A girl ..I suggest splendor....
Congrats in addy

Romanoff:
Go see them with your family first, take responsibility and tell them your plans.

Maybe your family can contribute for bride price for you.

Collect list for bride price, pay it in a small ceremony strictly between both families, go to the registry and seal the deal. O tan.

anthonyuncle:
buy condom! buy condom! - u said no.

now it have entered.

my guy, that money must come out o!

da advantage is that whatever u tell them u have, they will accept it.
so u will spend less on marriage rites

mabeni:
I will surely go see her parents. Though, they aready know me and I am accepted into the family. But this new development, I don't know how to go about it. Will it make sense if I go with a friend or alone?

CheedyJ:
Congratulations bro but next time,if u aren't ready,learn to use boot till u re ready anyways, d deed has been done...just plan a lowkey traditional marriage & promise to do something bigger in d nearest future..

mabeni:
forget it bro,. 32yrs not too young to get married or to have a child. After all, I can take care of my child and his mom.

faithugo64:

Leave friends out of this...
First explain the new development to your people, expect some tongue lashing though. Then let them go with you to meet her Parents. It will boost your confidence and also tell your prospective in-laws that you are serious about their daughter
Good luck!

mabeni:
you are not perfect either. It can happen to anyone

pocohantas:
Tell your mother. She will tell your father, who will in turn tell her own father.

If you don’t have money for bride price/marriage- you should be knacking a girl in her early 20s. Not knacking someone in her early 30s raw and be talking of financials. Financials kor, spreadsheet ni.

Poorer people are getting married. The difference between them and some of us is, they lay all their cards on the table.

Sunfull:
Make sure you arrange your marriage within this pandemic period because it's less expensive now. No social gathering.

ZINIBANKS:
I can't blame you when it's comes to sex a man's dick is more wiser than him the use of the main brain is useless
Op akwa ibomi bride price can kill you
If you don't die God love you
But you will later fall sick seeing the list