MrBrownJay1:
stop trying to live other people's lives and instead Be YOURSELF!!! there is nothing wrong with you. at the moment you easily get bored of people in your life, and when you fiind the right person, you will feel differently on the issue. dont rush into what you are not...

wanting to be married at 23 when you dont even have someone special in your life is not only dangerous but very silly (excuse my french). being DESPERATE to marry isnt gonna help you.

Nice one from u
But I don't think am desperate
I want to raise a family early
Just like mom
That was the main reason I did everything on time
Now am graduating at 20
Already got a work at a private hospital
What more?
If not setting down on time

Since you dig older men let's find a sharper shovel for you to dig more. I would have said you're a gold digger but you said you are doing as Miss Independent.

GreatResearcher1:
what's ur body count? Let's start frm there

I can proudly reply this if asked privately
Am a decent girl
I don't mess around

Eulalia:


Oh.. I c.
OK. Go ahead and whisper, I'm all ears

why is your picture not on your profile?
Oya answer
Don't let anyone hear

Spiff20:
Since you dig older men let's find a sharper shovel for you to dig more. I would have said you're a gold digger but you said you are doing as Miss Independent.

lolz
Bitterness

Preshieben:
thanks Sissy
But I don't go to church
I am not desperate ohh
I just want to know what causes it
And BTW
Can I whisper something to u?

Well I still believe hanging out with older men is the cause. Or it could be something spiritual and now you don't go to church, you don't pray as well, I guess?

Another thing that could be the cause is, you've not found someone that meets your spec. Most times, waiting for that spec may cause a delay. So just pray or try to love them, whether, tall, short, small black or yellow and make it work.

Preshieben:
why is your picture not on your profile?
Oya answer
Don't let anyone hear

My dear. Well, I uploaded it today for a few mins and removed it again.

I just don't feel like putting it up yet.
When I'm ready, I will.

Answered?

Eulalia:


My dear. Well, I uploaded it today for a few mins and removed it again.

I just don't feel like putting it up yet.
When I'm ready, I will.

Answered?

yes ohh
Anyway
Thanks for your time
You are lovely even if I haven't seen or meet you �

Preshieben:
I could be happily married by then with 3 kids

Only with the right character..

Preshieben:
Okay

So am 19 years(tho I'll be 20 on June)
A final year student
I have a partime work which pays very well
So I must say am doing very well all by myself
My problem now is I don't seem to fall in love with any guy
I Know this shouldn't be my worry
But I want to get married at 23 or 24yrs
And I haven't been in any serious relationship before
Am beautiful tho,I respect alot and am a very nice person
I play around when once am in a relationship and often it leads to breakup
I hang out mostly wwith men old enough to be my dad and I enjoy their company
What could be the reason?

N/B; please no one one should come here and call me a kid
Age is just a number

"I play around when once am in a relationship and often it leads to breakup
I hang out mostly wwith men old enough to be my dad and I enjoy their company"


What kind of play and for what benefit...be fair to yourself pls , hunger will not allow someone do unnecessary thinking...be responsible and go for what u want, so that people won't also play around with you in a relationship that u cherish...peace!!!...love!!!

Preshieben:
yes ohh
Anyway
Thanks for your time
You are lovely even if I haven't seen or meet you �

You're welcome dear.
Awwnn.. Thanks.
Stay safe.

Preshieben:
I can proudly reply this if asked privately
Am a decent girl
I don't mess around

i'm going to ask privately. Wen i knw ur body, frm there i can knw what advice to dish out. So expect my pm.

It's better you use your head from. Make a decision for yourself to avoid calling men scum later.
You're pretty by the way...

Preshieben:
Maybe
Cos I got alot from them

Preshieben:
yh
Am saying it again
Beauty isn't my priority for now
And thanks for no advise from u

Concentrate more on your attitude. Beauty is just an artificial appearance. It wears out with time. But what will make you be that virtuous woman and keep a man wanting to be with you is your attitude.

Yes men will come, but is just to chop and go. I believe that's not what you want if I am right.

So, focus on your character and resourcefulness more. Know what you want from marriage and discover what you want from life in general. Only then, you will be able to get focused for a serious relationship.

But if you feel like you ain't ready for that, you still want to play around, that's cool. Don't ever force it. Don't let pressure of wanting to get married at 23 to 24 makes you go into marriage if you know you are not ready for it emotionally.

Understand that once you are married, there are some things you use to do,you won't be able to do them any longer. Your husband will be your major priority. You won't be able to hang out with other men any more. So, make sure you know what marriage is all about before even thinking of going into one.

But in all, give yourself enough time to discover who you truly are and what you truly want from life entirely.

Preshieben:
Okay

So am 19 years(tho I'll be 20 on June)
A final year student
I have a partime work which pays very well
So I must say am doing very well all by myself
My problem now is I don't seem to fall in love with any guy
I Know this shouldn't be my worry
But I want to get married at 23 or 24yrs
And I haven't been in any serious relationship before
Am beautiful tho,I respect alot and am a very nice person
I play around when once am in a relationship and often it leads to breakup
I hang out mostly wwith men old enough to be my dad and I enjoy their company
What could be the reason?

N/B; please no one one should come here and call me a kid
Age is just a number

You hang out with?

Don't you mean you Fvck?

When it comes to matters of relationships, at 19, you're a kid.
This offends you? Then it further proves my point that you are. Your future 25 year old self would agree with me.

And hanging out with me old enough to be your father does not make you more mature.

Infact it even destroys your prospects of getting married at your desired age even more.

At 19, I'm sure you have a slew of immature behaviors that you exhibit that you will not mention here. Only those who have dated you can tell us.

These might be the actual reasons why you cannot keep a relationship.

You fund your 'comfortable lifestyle' with sugar daddies and expect the young guys to commit to you? I just broke up with my gf of 5 years cause of just one sugar daddy she's still begging till now but na sorry be her case. I'm sure you will deny they're sugar daddies, no girl ever admits that lol.

You hang around men old enough to be your dad, they've possessed you with spirit of adultery. Anyway Marine spirit dey worry many Riverine girls.

Preshieben:
I can proudly reply this if asked privately
Am a decent girl
I don't mess around

I wanted to send you a pm but saw ur location I had to lockup. If u can't tell me ur body count here, then you're not proud of yourself and I can't help you

What is happening sef

A girl of 19 and the breasts are already in the sorry state.

I don't know when last i saw breasts that can stand. What has happened to our ladies

You want to marry early yen yen yen.. Desperation might lead to your doom, be very careful.

bonnyhope:
What is happening sef

A girl of 19 and the breasts are already in the sorry state.

I don't know when last i saw breasts that can stand. What has happened to our ladies

Trust this hoes at ur own peril. She looks like one who has done several abortions

sister! it is very simple. you really need deliverance.

Ihatefeminist:
this one dey find boyfriend.
This thread is her lead magnet

funny enough
I reject guys alot
I could reject u too if you try

dannex4adx:
sister! it is very simple. you really need deliverance.

uhh
Hope u can conduct a successful one

bonnyhope:
What is happening sef

A girl of 19 and the breasts are already in the sorry state.

I don't know when last i saw breasts that can stand. What has happened to our ladies

hey Dude

You haven't seen those boobs before
So sharrup ya smelly mouth and go have a sit

GreatResearcher1:
Trust this hoes at ur own peril. She looks like one who has done several abortions

and i could bet your smelly balls that I haven't done any before
Goodnight

Jflex07:
You want to marry early yen yen yen.. Desperation might lead to your doom, be very careful.

aint desperate

GreatResearcher1:
I wanted to send you a pm but saw ur location I had to lockup. If u can't tell me ur body count here, then you're not proud of yourself and I can't help you

I never solicited for your help
I understand you can't handle Akwa ibom personalities

Preshieben:
hey Dude

You haven't seen those boobs before
So sharrup ya smelly mouth and go have a sit

You see what i am talking about

No respect for elders

You think I am 19 like u?

johnkey:
You fund your 'comfortable lifestyle' with sugar daddies and expect the young guys to commit to you? I just broke up with my gf of 5 years cause of just one sugar daddy she's still begging till now but na sorry be her case. I'm sure you will deny they're sugar daddies, no girl ever admits that lol.

now listen
Am a medical student
I work and I get paid every month
Both Dad and Mom credit my account anytime i ask
So i dont depend on anyone to fund my lifestyle
And beside am not that classic
My books takes part of my time and I hardly have time for myself
Sorry bout ya girlfriend
I only hang out with those men because i love their vibes
Okay??

WackyJ1:


You hang out with?

Don't you mean you Fvck?

When it comes to matters of relationships, at 19, you're a kid.
This offends you? Then it further proves my point that you are. Your future 25 year old self would agree with me.

And hanging out with me old enough to be your father does not make you more mature.

Infact it even destroys your prospects of getting married at your desired age even more.

At 19, I'm sure you have a slew of immature behaviors that you exhibit that you will not mention here. Only those who have dated you can tell us.

These might be the actual reasons why you cannot keep a relationship.

I dont display immature behavior
Infact people hardly believe am 19

Preshieben:
and i could bet your smelly balls that I haven't done any before
Goodnight

petyprincess pls come and deal with this hoe for me. She wanted me to help her stable her relationship. At first I wanted to help but when I realized she's Akwa ibom person I declined. Now she's here insulting us. In case u care to know the 'us' it's u and I