Reminds me of the 2004 version of me,. got so bad that 2 years later this song - Ice box by Omarion was my independent anthem.

2020 me-- Married to an undeserved lady with a daughter.
Lesson- Give time a chance, you would heal, the path you are planning to tread on would only bring forth future unhappiness, been there.
Almost got entangled with a girl whose ex was later discovered to be HIV infected.
God in his mercies found me again by grace and positioned me.

Bro, Life is more than relationships and mushy feelings, trust me,
focus your energy on you, develop yourself, strive to be a better and well-groomed version of you and
STOP THINKING OF THIS SAME GIRL COMING BACK TO YOU AND HOW YOU WOULD REVENGE AND TREAT HER
LIKE A ***** AS THIS MAY NOT HAPPEN.

Descorts:
We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

hahahahahaha.... this got me rolling over... so you're going to use your body for revenge, meetchewwww.... uncle joblessness, that's your problem, so after breaking their heart, they wouldn't get over it fa? or your bank account would increase... my friend go and sleep. small heart break you are now a monster.... hahahahahaha

BigJoe19:
Guy u get sense, not like the stupid OP.

I knew the lady will go back to her ex.

This got me laughing so hard >
"I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER"

Now, I keep telling people this... Never rush into another relationship when the previous failed relationship is still fresh. You won't enter with a clear mind. All your devasted mind needs at that time is to heal!!!. And entering into another relationship is only going to mask the vacuum created but not really fill it or help you get over your ex. Hence making it easy to fall for your ex when he comes back.

Now, you need time to heal. And I mean enough time. Though, dependent on the depth of the relationship, some might require just a little time to heal but generally, you need TIME to heal and get over your ex before jumping into another relationship.
Forget what people say about entering into another relationship quickly to get over the past one. It doesn't always work. trust me.
When you give yourself time to heal, making sure you no longer miss your ex, ( truth is, we all do. unless you wanna deceive yourself) you can now consider going into another relationship.

For someone like me, it took me years to get over my ex and I knew better than to go into another one all those years. So, I stayed away until I realized the feeling had died off completely before attempting another one. And while at it, (new relationship)I never missed him again. Even when he tried coming back, my heart was stone-cold towards him that even I di
Couldn't believe it. So, giving yourself time off, works.

As for those who like to rush a lady who's just fresh out of a broken relationship, I'll advise you do a reverse as soon as she tells you she just got heart broken. That's a red flag and if you go ahead thinking you can fill in the gap, i pray you dont end up like the op.

Op, my advice. Don't become a monster because of what someone did to you. Try to heal first and give love a chance.
Love is a beautiful thing when you find that someone for you. So, no need to become hostile.
We all need love to live a happy life. You and I know this. So don't resort to a life of sadness.
Coming from a broken heart too, but we gat to move on and be happy. AKUNAMATATA

It is well.

Lastmankc:
I knew the lady will go back to her ex.

The lady used him to heal.

Descorts:
I see the way foolish boys come here acting as if they are all perfect.. you forgot you're human after all and no human is perfect.

Gosh do you people read and comprehend at all? I only helped her through heart break as a friend, after she got over it, things went back to normal for 2months.. and In those two months, she fixed sex dates for me with her hot friends and I had fun .. it was after then our own chapter started she even spent for me more than I for her. So how did she play me or use me?

so wait you were expecting pats on the back... "yea, go break some good 'ol hearts bro" that's what you wanted... oga go and break your hearts and dig your holes in peace, so players go about announcing that they are going on a bleeping spree.... hahahahahaha, people are so funny... like its so fucking funny, you can't accept you have been used as a rebound situation, simple... most people don't need to date, you all those girls, they dont want to be seen as immoral that's why they cover up with relationships... so shut it and go play monster in peace

Fucking true...first hand experience.

Ayomideayo:
they haf break our uncle heart
Guys, dont you ever fall in love with a girl that just got heartbroken, any intimacy of any kind you might have during that time, my bros forget it...shes just trying to use you to forget her ex...

..

cococandy:
Mtchew

laugh won kill me here
You know why? Because you just said mtchew without advising the op

Descorts:
I'm not listening... what I want to do, i do it .

go ahead you MUST fail and know this your attitude will bring equally MONSTRESS YOUR WAY...self destruct mode activated.

House Fly which does not heed to advise follows corpse to the grave..
My son pikin wey dey chop akara, na him money e dey chop...
No monster for women.. you will get shattered soon not even broken.. maybe your village people has sworn for you..
Keep cool and use your head.. better girls will certainly come..
If you do am gragra ‘MONSTER’ you will die gragra. He who has ear let him hear

medTechworld:
Don't visit the sin of one lady unto other innocent ladies who are not aware of what went wrong in your previous relationship.

"NO NIGERIAN LADY IS INNOCENT!"

Rule 4 Clause 16 of the Playboys Association Constitution of Nigeria

Nairalandmonika:

Am telling you u, this was a girl professing love for me some weeks back, we ve been happy all along. Just this week she started picking fight at little things, I called her, she cut my calls, obviously I know some other guy is involved. I donno if she think I will beg her or something. I know if we break up the thing go pain me but am already prepared for the worst, my focus now is to leave this country after this pandemic is over. Am tired of the country and the girls in it.

Bro same happened to me..thats what happens when they want to or have even started chooping another dic.k so my advice is just remove ur heart from her now o and fall back on ur sidechick who wants u or find another girl new but do it fast..mine sha we still de nack but she don become side chick now and i was planning to marry her o,she go shock cos 2 can play at that game..she go just see say i don marry on day..dust urself and make urself better bro..alot of these h.oes aint loyal..but there are still good girls out there sha..

Descorts:
We started as friends. We were so close she could do anything for me and I could do anything for her.

She had a boyfriend who was a serial cheat and treated her like trash. It got to a point they broke up and he left. She was heartbroken.

I gave her my shoulders to lean on. I was there for her throughout those turbulent times and made sure she was never sad again.

She moved on. 2 months on we started dating. It was all fun and rosy. I'm not the type to fall deeply in love or should I say, women don't tickle my fantasy, I'd rather be with my goons than be with any girl.

But this girl came into my life and I don't know what she did to me to make me so in love with her. I loved her, she loved me. It was a heaven made match and a relationship anyone would wish for. On my birthday she got me a really expensive gift and I fell even more for her.

3 months on, her birthday was close and I was planning to make it special for her. Then I heard her ex came back in town, I wasn't troubled, "she loves me so much and she won't bat an eyelid for him anymore" I thought.

And then it happened. She left me for her ex who came back for her. I heard from a reliable source that before he came back, they'd been communicating online and the guy told her he's coming to take her back and he did take her from me.....

I am broken.....
I shall rise again in no time, and when I rise... I AM GOING TO BE A HEARTLESS MONSTER.
These hoes... non virgins or virgins, young or old, I shall toy with their emotions and break them....

GAME ON

That's the adrenaline talking

Shibaraba:
You get mouth.

She go still serve come. Be patient and don't be too obvious. She must serve come. Revenge is best served cold. Don't take it out on innocent girls o. Not all of them bad I swear.

Wetin you Don see Wey you wan turn monster
You Don wash pant.
You Don carry her go meet her boyfriend wey she call her uncle for hotel, wait for reception for like 2 hours and return her home. When you ask why she rough she say she dey wash cloths. For hotel?
You Don turn messenger for girl?
You Don submit your salary for woman every month?
If no then shut it and move on.

I'm sure some of them, dey laugh happily seeing as you dey lament. Man up

Not necessarily. She is obviously hung on the ex. That may be the last time he may see her back

Shibaraba:
You get mouth.

She go still serve come. Be patient and don't be too obvious. She must serve come. Revenge is best served cold. Don't take it out on innocent girls o. Not all of them bad I swear.

Wetin you Don see Wey you wan turn monster
You Don wash pant.
You Don carry her go meet her boyfriend wey she call her uncle for hotel, wait for reception for like 2 hours and return her home. When you ask why she rough she say she dey wash cloths. For hotel?
You Don turn messenger for girl?
You Don submit your salary for woman every month?
If no then shut it and move on.

I'm sure some of them, dey laugh happily seeing as you dey lament. Man up

My God.

Julietlove95:
Oh no I feel your pain bro if this true men that girl is a devil and deserve to be dealt with walahi. I don't know why some women like going back to their vomits someone that treated you like a shit and hurt you several times and even break up with you yet you go back to him again and even dumped a king for a piece of shit some women crazy I tell you. Don't treat any woman bad because of what one devil and a shegoat did to you just deal with her in your own way and not all women are bro you just not lucky to meet the good ones.

Stop been sympathetic the guy got served in his own coin,go and read his old posts,this girl he is talking about was with her bf while he was trying to f.uck her and couldnt but use to finger her and all so he wanted to destroy a relationship and he succeeded and got her after 2months but she went back to her ex and he is crying up and down when its Karma that is whooping his ass..he likes the heavenly feeling of f.ucking other peoples girlfriend so now his girlfriend is also collecting d.ick well from another guy

Reason I don't do the Ex - Shit

Descorts:
I see the way foolish boys come here acting as if they are all perfect.. you forgot you're human after all and no human is perfect.

Gosh do you people read and comprehend at all? I only helped her through heart break as a friend, after she got over it, things went back to normal for 2months.. and In those two months, she fixed sex dates for me with her hot friends and I had fun .. it was after then our own chapter started she even spent for me more than I for her. So how did she play me or use me?

you need ubunja's miseducations more than revenge....you are too weak! All these girls are smarter than you think,just becareful....

Descorts:
whatever you say I don't care..
what I know is... I will carry out this mission with ruthless abandon

...And in the end you'll end up incurring more pains and regrets...

Why should you allow the daughter of a stranger to push you into self-destruct?
Why should you become irresponsible because of a strange woman?

Why not find Joy in the little noble things around that makes you happy. Invest and develop yourself because it's history and it's present belongs only to you

Sensible people will see danger coming and avoid it, but an unthinking person will walk right into it and regret it later.--Proverbs 22:3

Descorts:
whatever you say I don't care..
what I know is... I will carry out this mission with ruthless abandon

Please bros take heart, just forget about it. It would only destroy you. Don't repay evil with evil. believe me there are still good women out there that could make you happy.

DoubleEngine007:
No lady is innocent.. If you know,you know..

if I tell my own story you will also know that no man is innocent, that doesn't mean I should pay back to anyone or every man

JewelRegi:



if I tell my own story you will also know that no man is innocent, that doesn't mean I should pay back to anyone or every man

Na my own I know Regi,everybody get e own story..

torqque7:


Stop been sympathetic the guy got served in his own coin,go and read his old posts,this girl he is talking about was with her bf while he was trying to f.uck her and couldnt but use to finger her and all so he wanted to destroy a relationship and he succeeded and got her after 2months but she went back to her ex and he is crying up and down when its Karma that is whooping his ass..he likes the heavenly feeling of f.ucking other peoples girlfriend so now his girlfriend is also collecting d.ick well from another guy

idiot that's a different girl are so dumb that you didn't notice the time interval btw both topic?

Descorts:
what are you saying? Did you read my post at all??
I'm no lover boy, but people like me fall for these scam once in our life time. I will handle this so well believe me

sorri dude but na so girls be sumtimes.i think is two things DT making her go back to ex.one be passionate sex.nd investment.if she has invested too much in her ex.she go go after him.secondly when a lady is being ignored Nd treated like a side chicks( trash as u put it) Nd she still go back to him like she doing.one thing fit dey.d ex may have made her achieve orgism during sex when they were dating.so brother I knw sey ladies can hurt but learn 4rm this don't be a monster to other ladies.nw learn DT when a female friend is crying about her relationship try to be re-examine d Mata e Ur mind but pretend to believe her Nd be on her side.most female friend lie in dis area have u see any lady DT have admitted their fault in d relatnship.for now try to make more female friends is helpful.start having like 5 non sexual female friends.nd if u think is nt time for serious relationship jux want to have causal relationship fine but keep female friends but let them know u got babe.it helps u to man up Nd move on in situatn of hrtbreak.na secret I dey tell u no dude will tell u based on my observation.so brother move on Nd start having alot of non sexual female friends to make u emotional bold on area like this.but treat Ur female friends as side friends very important.invest little or non on them na Ur mama Ur sister be Ur main female friends

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Guy, this is just one of few experiences a man would get. And you are not the first to be jilted emotionally bro. Well, everyone has been there 1 way or the other too, but what just makes the ideality of a real man in this kinda game is to WISE Up next time! If you say you would keep treating ladies as a crap or WTF you called it, you're are a coward!!! So cut the crap of this revenge thing you so nailed yourself to... Don't be a monster or they would hunt you down. Nobody loves a monster alaye

Nigerians are just such drama queens...
Especially Naija men (or boys, most are not really mature regardless of age)!

Dude, you caught her when she was most vulnerable...
Coming out of a poisonous relationship (some might even say you took advantage of her vulnerability).

She got her head sorted and moved on...
My counsel to you would be to do the same, and go find someone else without baggage or ghouls.

Meanwhile, if you have never been hurt...
You have never been in a worthwhile relationship. Difficult experiences is one of the ways we grow.
>

torqque7:

Bro same happened to me..thats what happens when they want to or have even started chooping another dic.k so my advice is just remove ur heart from her now o and fall back on ur sidechick who wants u or find another girl new but do it fast..mine sha we still de nack but she don become side chick now and i was planning to marry her o,she go shock cos 2 can play at that game..she go just see say i don marry on day..dust urself and make urself better bro..alot of these h.oes aint loyal..but there are still good girls out there sha..

I don't even have a side chick, am done with babe for now. She just dey give me attitude, tried talking to her but she ain't giving me any reasonable answer, I'm not breaking up with her tho, but if she decide to end it, I don't think am dating again.

9jaRealist:



Nigerians are just such drama queens...
Especially Naija men (or boys, most are not really mature regardless of age)!

Dude, you caught her when she was most vulnerable...
Coming out of a poisonous relationship (some might even say you took advantage of her vulnerability).

She got her head sorted and moved on...
My counsel to you would be to do the same, and go find someone else without baggage or ghouls.

Meanwhile, if you have never been hurt...
You have never been in a worthwhile relationship. Difficult experiences is one of the ways we grow.
>

She move on by going back to the old guy, will u call that move on or move back. See why I don't pity girls at times.

JewelRegi:



if I tell my own story you will also know that no man is innocent, that doesn't mean I should pay back to anyone or every man

I have never actually cheating in any of my relationship, tho I have been cheated on twice. So not all men are thesame.

Don't spoil the game. She will definitely come back. He who laugh last laugh best.

Nairalandmonika:

I don't even have a side chick, am done with babe for now. She just dey give me attitude, tried talking to her but she ain't giving me any reasonable answer, I'm not breaking up with her tho, but if she decide to end it, I don't think am dating again.

You giving her too much power over you..trust me i know how u feel its very painful for men this heartbreak shit..but you cant force love on anyone..How old is she by the way cos its mostly girls in their earlt 20s who behave like this..

No dnt be the one to breakup,play along but just try to play without your heart 100%..believe me when i say i know how you feel and how hard it is cos even me,I still love my girl unfortunately cos the heart wants what it wants but the heart cant be trusted,history has showed us that men who followed their hearts lost their lives or got into big trouble, so carry your brain along and less of your heart..

I know how disapointed in her you are and the hatred and yet the love but she isnt worth it..you will find who will do anything to have your love and keep it soon,just like i have..because someone who truly loves and values you will NEVER put you in a position where they can loose you..Just try comot mind from that girl cos from now she will get irritated at the slightest things you do or say,she wont respect you anymore especially when you keep making her feel she is the only one in your life..bro just be happy and talk to her normally but dnt beg and pls find a rebound chick Asap. Someone that can give you a call when you are with her and then you answer the call codedly..when she senses there is another woman trust me she go seat well.

But dont close your heart to love cos of a girl who values another man over you,she isnt worth it,she will be flexing her life with the other dude while you will close your heart and be in depression?doesnt make sense,dnt give her that kind of power over you..goodluck