NAIRALANDERS!HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.
THE LADY IN QUESTION WE LIVED ON THE SAME STREET BEFORE,COINCIDENTALLY WE ATTENDED THE SAME HIGHER INSTITUTION,WE ARE TOO CLOSE,SHE INTRODUCE HER FIANCE TO ME ON THE PHONE,I SPOKE TO THE GUY ONCE ON THE PHONE,LAST YEAR THEY BROKE UP,SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE RELATIONSHIP,THAT THE GUY IS TOO HARSE AND TEMPRAMENTAL,AND ALWAYS JEALOUS OF HER MALE FRIENDS.EVER SINCE I MET THIS LADY I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER BUT because OF OUR CLOSENESS I COULDN'T WOOED HER.PLS NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT.WHAT WILL I TELL HER PLS.

See my guy, this one is not hard. Just summon balls, call her, tell her that you have something very important to discuss with her and then fix a date and time to meet. Then when you guys meet, pour out your heart to her. But please, be prepared. Don't go there with high expectations. Infact, condition your mind for disappointment, so assuming (A BIG IF) that disappointment happens, you will be well prepared. It will be foolish for you not to let her know how you feel, and then have to live the rest of your life wondering about what may have been. You never know, she may feel the same way. You just need to move fast before it's too late. Good luck

thanks man! i love our comments i will act accordingly.

Similar thing happened to me last year when i fell in love with my very good friend but didn't know how to tell her. Because i was afraid if i told her and she refused and get disappointed at me, our platonic friendship will collasp even if i apologise afterwards. So i thought it wise to send her a text of my mind, i finally did after long rumination and contemplation, i pressed the 'sent botton' then called her like about 26 minutes after she must have gotten the message and thought over it. She picked up the phone and spoke well to me even below my expectation. I was very happy and fulfilled and until now, we are still best of lovers. So guy, u just have to do something about it or perhaps do the same thing i did, Remember there is no time to check the time. So act fast but fasten your belt, I wish you best of luck,

Thanks,i have called her now that i want to take her out for new year eating & drinking,she has accepted and promised to follow me,and i have given her the venue.So after a long chatting on that day,i will just chip in or let the cat out of the bag.Do u agree with me?

lover boy. go gently oo. e no easy man. ur game is good man

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NAIRALANDERS!HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.
THE LADY IN QUESTION WE LIVED ON THE SAME STREET BEFORE,COINCIDENTALLY WE ATTENDED THE SAME HIGHER INSTITUTION,WE ARE TOO CLOSE,SHE INTRODUCE HER FIANCE TO ME ON THE PHONE,I SPOKE TO THE GUY ONCE ON THE PHONE,LAST YEAR THEY BROKE UP,SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE RELATIONSHIP,THAT THE GUY IS TOO HARSE AND TEMPRAMENTAL,AND ALWAYS JEALOUS OF HER MALE FRIENDS.EVER SINCE I MET THIS LADY I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER BUT because OF OUR CLOSENESS I COULDN'T WOOED HER.PLS NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT.WHAT WILL I TELL HER PLS.

why woo her as if she a dog that has to gain your trust

just ask her out straight away

just tell her how you feel and everythingelse is up to her. .and do it quick before you lose her to someone else!

Man their is no need to be afraid just keep your mind set, forget about how close you were but talk to her like you never see her before, let her feel a special feeling different from does once you guys have been doing(friendship play). Wish u good luck guy.(Am sure u will have good testimony to tell)

Guy speak out your mind to her, evendo you speak out to her and she deny you of what you request for, she wil stil bear it at the back of her mind that you have that feling for her.

@poster. This is the simplest thing you ll ever have to do in ur life. Just fix up a rendevous with her, and when u both meet, just look into her eyes and scream "wooooooooooo". ~~~~~~Anyway, the first reply u got is good to go. Cheers,

@ zim drill
Unlike some people we Nigerians are kinda sentimental about our gals, we like to treat them special cos they really are special .
U may not understand sha.

dear nairalanders! the deal has been sealed, i was successful during our lunch,i invited her for a lunch,i was so nervous initially but the cat was let out of the bag.thanks for all your advise and concern i really love this forum.

Im happy 4 u. Enjoy her now while it last b4 a guy with a car comes.

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NAIRALANDERS!HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.
THE LADY IN QUESTION WE LIVED ON THE SAME STREET BEFORE,COINCIDENTALLY WE ATTENDED THE SAME HIGHER INSTITUTION,WE ARE TOO CLOSE,SHE INTRODUCE HER FIANCE TO ME ON THE PHONE,I SPOKE TO THE GUY ONCE ON THE PHONE,LAST YEAR THEY BROKE UP,SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE RELATIONSHIP,THAT THE GUY IS TOO HARSE AND TEMPRAMENTAL,AND ALWAYS JEALOUS OF HER MALE FRIENDS.EVER SINCE I MET THIS LADY I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER BUT because OF OUR CLOSENESS I COULDN'T WOOED HER.PLS NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT.WHAT WILL I TELL HER PLS.

Uni Graduate could'nt wooed her.OLODO

@Poster can you just ask her out for pete's sake and tell her exactly how you feel about her. Oh! one thing though, be prepared for the friendship speech

NAIRALANDERS!HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ALL.
THE LADY IN QUESTION WE LIVED ON THE SAME STREET BEFORE,COINCIDENTALLY WE ATTENDED THE SAME HIGHER INSTITUTION,WE ARE TOO CLOSE,SHE INTRODUCE HER FIANCE TO ME ON THE PHONE,I SPOKE TO THE GUY ONCE ON THE PHONE,LAST YEAR THEY BROKE UP,SHE TOLD ME THAT THEY HAVE BROKEN THE RELATIONSHIP,THAT THE GUY IS TOO HARSE AND TEMPRAMENTAL,AND ALWAYS JEALOUS OF HER MALE FRIENDS.EVER SINCE I MET THIS LADY I HAD FALLEN IN LOVE WITH HER BUT because OF OUR CLOSENESS I COULDN'T WOOED HER.PLS NAIRALANDERS HOW DO I GO ABOUT IT.WHAT WILL I TELL HER PLS.

Mr lover boy, one thing I've learnt in life concerning women is that they are attracted to confident people and can detect if a guy is/isn't confident a mile away