@ POSTER,

since your lady is internet savvy (you met on facebook), I hope she stumbles into NL, recognises herself and give us her part of the story.

Seriously if what you have said sofar is true, it all went too quick. You may not be aware of how damaged by previous relationships she is.
It takes years to know even half of a woman's history. They only tell you what they want to tell you and makes them look good.

She doesn't respect you enough: common with high calibre job dudu women. Many have indicated on different threads here on NL that they want a man with a higher status/job than them.

Her mum doesn't appear to be a very good example in terms of managing a relationship/marriage. Divorce is fairly uncommon in people (Naija) old enough to be parents to a 32 year old lady. Not saying divorce was only the mother's fault but her (mother's) domineering attitude would not have helped her marriage.

I don't think your pocket is deep enough. As you said she supports her parents so you have to pick up the tabs. A common problem due to caring for family members.

The average doctor has plenty of opportunity to meet people: at BMA meetings, drugs company reps, social functions, conferences, seminars, visits to Naija (in her case), to resort to internet/facebook for a husband and planning marriage in record time is rather interesting.

Be wary of anybody who's desperate about biological clock clicking tick-tock, tick-tock OR indeed anyone remotely interested in securing papers as a motive.

seyibrown:

No you are not wrong! You are not ready for one yet! You need to go through a few more Plasma TV's before you are ready for marriage! Give it a few more years!

lol

seyibrown:

No you are not wrong! You are not ready for one yet! You need to go through a few more Plasma TV's before you are ready for marriage! Give it a few more years!

ver funny. tseew

no one is wrong

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4llerbuntu

How far na, happy new year!

Oga gan O!

seyibrown:

No you are not wrong! You are not ready for one yet! You need to go through a few more Plasma TV's before you are ready for marriage! Give it a few more years!

I swear this is the summary of this thread

Nevertheless,i have my flat,my car,plasma,ps3,home cinema and a fully stocked kitchen.I was perfectly ok on my own.I had all i wanted but we lived apart.

I didn't even know a 32yr old man could still be playing video games. lol
hahaha boys will be boys.

If u really want to live and enjoy life, stay away from this your GF, otherwise you will die untimely and ignominy. The lady does not love you any-bit.

I'm afraid you will want to go back into your vomit after a little while when her mother or father would have intervened again. My advise, stay away completely from her, move on with life and look very well in-case you want to leap next time. See the devil once and run many times, take to your heels before the gun is corked.

why is this guy talking about plasma when there are 3D LED tvs? u should watch monsters and aliens on 3d, ,,,,are u just knowing that girls are foolish? na today?

Good story for Nollywood flick.

no

04kaa:

why is this guy talking about plasma when there are 3D LED tvs? u should watch monsters and aliens on 3d, ,,,,are u just knowing that girls are foolish? na today?

so wat makes u tink guys r not foolish,

Peace bro! that lady aint no good. I say 'good riddance'.

young man life gos on b4 u are blind now u can see very well GOD have delivered u, so move on ur way, my GOD is ur strength (another pretty lady will come 4 u). GOD WILL PROVIDE ANOTHER PLASMA TV 4 U.

very sure

No u are not. The lady thinks like an african lady -u ought to provide all and the family interference is much.

Its better u run for ur life. Scope not well defined, the project is already failing from the begining. This is not a relationship but rather a relationstrip. U av done the right thing bro.

Dat is a bad sign, she is not ur wife, if u go ahead and marry her, u will regret it 4 d rest of ur life, forget what u av spent or waste and move forward, if u dnt u will waste more than d one u wasted, thank ur star for d danger sign ahead