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| So What If She Has A Car? by arewa4(f): 10:02pm On Jan 08, 2011 |
Guys, if u met a lady who is independent and can conveniently take care of herself without relying on men for hand outs; would you be intimidated by such a lady? CANDID OPINIONS PLS!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by donkennyakademy(m): 10:21pm On Jan 08, 2011 |
your message is not well cleared. Can such a lady intimidate you based on what? Make ur statement to be more cleared so dat we can know on how to reply you. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by MrsEve2(f): 10:47pm On Jan 08, 2011 |
Are you looking for a ride to a job search Poster? |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by xandy84: 11:14pm On Jan 08, 2011 |
no problem with that, you just gonna be a second class boyfriend, if that is ok by you sha |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by thiscounts(m): 12:43am On Jan 09, 2011 |
Only if I'm not INDEPENDENT or being unreasonable to shift roles.I would be happy she is but would never allow her to play my roles of providing for her.And if I do not have the means I might be worried and be on my feet to live up to my responsibilities but for sure whatever the case I cant be intimidated in any way. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by iice(f): 3:03am On Jan 09, 2011 |
Some are, some aren't |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by 190: 3:06am On Jan 09, 2011 |
thats my ideal woman!! |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by CrazyMan(m): 3:11am On Jan 09, 2011 |
Why do most men suffer from inferiority complex? What makes them feel intimidated by a successful woman? For me, I see nothing wrong in going out with a working class lady. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by ZIMDRILL(m): 3:16am On Jan 09, 2011 |
arewa4: I THINK AN AVERAGE NIGERIAN WOULD BE INTIMIDATED WHY ? WELL YOU USE MONEY TO SHOWER GIRLS WITH GIFTS ETC THEREBY SORT OF TAKING CONTROL OF HER LIFE i.e IF SHE LOOSES YOU SHE WILL LOOSE ALL THOSE THINGS thereby making daft as well SHE CANT THINK OF PROVIDING THINGS FOR HERSELF WITH A MAN BEING INVOLVED |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by arewa4(f): 1:02am On Jan 10, 2011 |
my reason for asking? I was at my friend's place sometime ago and she was telling me abt her busy schedule and how she needed a modest automobile to make mobility easier(by the way she's 29, single and has a great job; so she can practically afford it if she wants). Her mum opposed the idea and said buying a car would give the impression of "arrogance" and that it would scare prospective suitors away, i was just wondering what is wrong with a woman taking care of her needs.( our parents and their point of view)   |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Canisma(m): 2:40am On Jan 10, 2011 |
@poster. Yes, it intimidates nigerian men. Not just cars, a sophisticated apartment will also do more harm than good to an unmarried lady of 29. An independent lady that flaunts herself does not promise loyalty to any man/suitor from afar. And mind you, men dont joke with loyalty. I believe some men wont mind though, but then, they are really FEW. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by MrsEve2(f): 2:42am On Jan 10, 2011 |
Not every man have insecurities about a woman making more money or being independent of a man. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Busta(f): 2:48am On Jan 10, 2011 |
In America . . . its no big deal, In Nigeria however, it is a VERY big deal indeed. Not just for the Nigerian men, but the parents and fellow women as well. - Most Nigerian don't like to date women who has achieved more than they have - Most Nigerian/Africa parents would rather their kids find a husband first than being a successful independent woman - Nigeria girls, women and ladies love to oppress each other and the jealousy rate is alarming. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by MrsEve2(f): 3:19am On Jan 10, 2011 |
That sad. It also sad to see women oppressed into thinking they need a man to be successful regardless the region they live. I can see why they crossed over with other race of men. Sad. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by iice(f): 4:02am On Jan 10, 2011 |
Canisma: What does loyalty have to do with independence? \ |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Nobody: 6:14am On Jan 10, 2011 |
Yes, I think some men are intimidated in toasting high-class lady. And thats why in nigeria most independent-successful women has no husband.Men got Intimidated by their wealth,class,beauty,cars etc. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Madukaele(m): 8:12am On Jan 10, 2011 |
Me aint marryin a lady dat is richer dan me. @ iice loyalty is directly proportional 2 indepence. bliv or nt |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by iice(f): 2:30pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
Madukaele: LMFAO. . .please, i'm looking for a coherent answer from a sensible person. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by alisigwe(m): 4:14pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
@ icce,gurl don't be lik dat!u r taking every f.ing tin abt dis forum serious.lol |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by iice(f): 4:22pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
What does serious have to do with being coherent? Figures! |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by alisigwe(m): 4:23pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
It's really sad but it's our way here,my sis got married last mnth @ 24 and before dat her apartment was scantily furnished and am like what d Zap. So i guess it payed off,men tend to see dat as a sign of loyalty and i sincerely wont trip 4 any extravagant lady whenever i want to tie d knots. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by iice(f): 4:26pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
When did being independent become synonymous with extravagant? Goodness. . .Nigerian Education  |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by queensmith: 4:30pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
The mom is old fashioned! My father says it all the time- its shameful for a man to marry a woman richer than him! but buying a car is nothing, it wont make a difference really |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by arewa4(f): 10:03pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
Queensmith; my thots exactly a woman that would bruise a man's ego or be disloyal would do so if she has noting or everything, it lies in our tongue which is our greatest weapon and attitude which cant be hidden. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by kcjazz(m): 11:19pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
Well if she gets a car, then her boyfriend choices should be a guy that has 2 cars or even a jet. Levels don change o  But again some men are intimidated by personality while others (Male gold-diggers) are attracted by possessions. Not an easy place to be but she should get her car and be true to herself, come on, its just one man out there for her and he will find her. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Mcleo007(m): 11:47pm On Jan 10, 2011 |
I honestly don't see any big fuss abt it. Infact, I can't marry a woman who I can't see to be threading the path to success cos I'm a staunch advocate of women being independent and strive for success. Infact,I dnt like my woman bugging me with her problems(I prefer to take the initiative to know how and when to provide financial and material needs for her,and not her telling me). The bone of contention lies within the man in the relationship to manage her i.e the possible excesses. But then,I dnt see being successful a yardstick for being arrogant. A less successful and dependent woman can still be arrogant. For God's sake,this is 2011! Things have changed. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jan 11, 2011 |
@poster actually i would advise the gal to get the car so that it would raise the bar for her future potential suitors (unlike what her mother said). |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Omolola1(f): 1:33pm On Jan 11, 2011 |
I see nothing wrong wiv it, it would only make you buckle up to a challenge |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Dsense(m): 1:36pm On Jan 11, 2011 |
^^^I flow with sister. |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Omolola1(f): 1:40pm On Jan 11, 2011 |
lol, hawayu? |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Dsense(m): 1:42pm On Jan 11, 2011 |
Me fine . . . . And you? Was writting exam, just got in  |
| Re: So What If She Has A Car? by Omolola1(f): 1:44pm On Jan 11, 2011 |
that one is beta, me i dey class nao |
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