Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ?

Is she ripe or unripe?

It’s not child abuse but Baby abuse

Tdstaar:
Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ?

I. I'm 27 and she's 17. But I haven't asked her out. My mom and sisters feel she's too young. She likes me that I'm sure and I like her too. But the reason why I don't want to date her is that I can't marry her because she's igbo I'm Yoruba and I'm not sure about marrying self. So I just don't want to chop the innocent girl.

She won't remain 17 forever, you have my fullsupport

YES you are and she may be enjoying it now but one day she will read what a paedophile is and she will realise she is with one.

op just do your research on medical ground, I.e if a 17byear old is mature for physical sexual intercourse, just to clear your conscience, because the average 16 year old girl in naija is already onto her second sugar daddy and third boyfriend.

Legally, yes. Wait till she hits 18 first or find your mates.

Tdstaar:
Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ?

Forget all the ripe and unripe you see here, if you have any sexual intercourse with an under age. Na prison you go land o. Moreso I see nothing strange in loving someone younger but it has to be with caution, since she is an under age. Everything has to about the eye looking towards the Agee line. Even by the time she is 18, this does not mean you will now become a werewolf. Left for me I will advise you remain contented with where you and her are at the moment until she get to the age you think she is responsible.
As for what other people are saying, you and I know that people will always talk from day one, what matters is weather what they are saying has any truth in it. But OP if your trousers no get zip I advice you leave that small girl alone o. Also if you no get work and na lockdown dey push you, Oya change the door padlock and lock yourself inside wella

Tdstaar:
Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ?

Theres absolutely wrong.
But be sure it's leading to the right place.

No, you not a pedophile.

Lol so u wan shift 17 year old bikini and pants? Issokay kudos

Tdstaar:
Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ?

Idiot you deserved to be in prison

bigiyaro:
op just do your research on medical ground, I.e if a 17byear old is mature for physical sexual intercourse, just to clear your conscience, because the average 16 year old girl in naija is already onto her second sugar daddy and third boyfriend.

Most people will pretend they don't know this, just to appear holy... like they can be holy spirit.

An average 17year old girl would consider a 25year old guy as a suitable companion, than she would a 17-20year old guy.

xendra:
YES you are and she may be enjoying it now but one dey she will read what a paedophile is and she will realise she is with one.

you're talking in the rubbish

I have seen kids 16-19 trying to attract me and make love with them. I won't do it and it's not as if I couldn't, I won't for the following reasons.

1. I am not a bastard.
2. They are kids no matter how grown they think they are.
3. It is for the moment and can't last because it is not natural and the devil is pushing them.
4. I won't talk to them, if I talk to them. I would behave to them like a guardian.
5. I want a moral society.
6. I was born a noble and pious Oyo-Ife native.

And again, if you had a sister that young and won't allow any motherfucker to destroy her life by protecting, then don't listen to those advising to go forward and don't date her either.

By the way, I have never seen a full blooded Yoruba considering the idea of dating his sister (a girl far younger than you). Maybe you are half Yoruba, that's why your brain thinks this way.

Tdstaar:
Currently seeing this girl .. am 25 year old and she is 17 years old .. we both love each other and enjoy being with each other but now people are starting to talk .. should I back out or ignore ? Who have had any experience like this ?

Go and look for your mates and let her date her age mates!

Yes, you blo.ody wan.ker
Find your age mate.

dude just imagine u are the father or brother of that girl.will u feel comfortable with her dating at 17.

By definition then, yes. Simple

fattprince:

I. I'm 27 and she's 17. But I haven't asked her out. My mom and sisters feel she's too young. She likes me that I'm sure and I like her too. But the reason why I don't want to date her is that I can't marry her because she's igbo I'm Yoruba and I'm not sure about marrying self. So I just don't want to chop the innocent girl.

if you don't chop, another will, and who told you she's innocent?

You'll be surprised that people are chopping already

Yes you are a paedophile. It beats my imagination how people enjoy children? If she were your daughter, how would you feel? Please learn to do what is right. Don't be an agent of the devil

Why not wait for her to grow older... A girl at 17 doesn't know what love is, she keeps falling in love(with other guys) as she grows older.... In few years she might not even find you attractive anymore...


She's got alot ahead. For example, the university, and we all know how uni is, you meet different people, cute guys, Lots of temptations... Except you want to marry her immediately though...

You are yoruba & you say you can't marry an igbo right? 2mrw you'll want nigeria to remain as one when hatred & tribalism dwells in your gene.

Wait one year l8r

In the north it is nothing, but down south you have to wait until she's 18, but be alert cos once she turns 18 guy men will fully dive her.

phantom24:
You are yoruba & you say you can't marry an igbo right? 2mrw you'll want nigeria to remain as one when hatred & tribalism dwells in your gene.

Funny how you guys are mistaking me for Op. I'm not Op, we just has the same problem.

bro wait for her to turn 18 b4 u start nacking

Well people are naturally attracted to younger girls. If she has feelings for u and u do too, i don't see any reason you shouldn't be with her. The only problem you're gonna have is the society. Cos they won't accept it. But who cares,feelings of the heart matters most