I don't know why she is like this, whenever we discuss and i make my point clear enough even when I have said what she wanted to say which is just the truth, she still won't admit that I have said it all. She will then start her own story trying to argue what I said but still finally comes back to what I said initially. she is always trying to prove a point anytime and it's annoying, I am not so much of a talker so I see no reason for us repeating what I just stated out again.

She always say that she has a mind of her own and she shouldn't just swallow anyone's suggestion hook line and sinker.

Let me just say she is philosophical, always wanting to question everything and it can be tiring when no conclusion is reached on time.


Now, is it because she talks a lot or she is just too arrogant to admit my suggestion.

I have been checking out for her submissiveness. hope her questioning attitude is not a red flag for the future.

No o!
It's a Nigerian flag!

If the attitude can not be fixed, and if you can tolerate for the long term, stay, otherwise trim your loses

She's exhibiting traits of a feminist. Dump her black asss!

the day she will argue with u in public is when u will see d flag....
such girls will even take sides with fools just to spite u

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Davash222:
She's exhibiting traits of a feminist. Dump her black asss!

I think this is the reason, she once told me she is a partial feminist.

Renida:
If the attitude can not be fixed, and if you can tolerate for the long term, stay, otherwise trim your loses

I understand, thanks

Rapsodee:
I think this is the reason, she once told me she is a partial feminist.

Nothing like partial feminist.. She's a prospective feminist. Dump her immediately!

illicit:
the day she will argue with u in public is when u will see d flag....

such girls will even take sides with fools just to spite u

Chisos!!!

Davash222:

Nothing like partial feminist.. She's a prospective feminist. Dump her immediately!

Hmmmm..I grab your point but do feminists do well in marriage?

You wasting time with some girl kid and come up here to lament. How dare you
A thing that says A and when you support it's really A she be pissed that it's not A, then finally concurs that it's A is that the kind of thing you wanna spend the rest of your life with



Pukes

It’s her character. I’m sure you guys have already done the hanky-panky hence the matter becoming an issue. I see it you guys grew under separate roofs so it’s her means of either communication or defence. If it annoys you too much you still have the freedom to pull out of the relationship. Marriages with once lavish weddings end in divorce so I don’t see the special thing about a mere relationship.

Rapsodee:
I don't know why she is like this, whenever we discuss and i make my point clear enough even when I have said what she wanted to say which is just the truth, she still won't admit that I have said it all. She will then start her own story trying to argue what I said but still finally comes back to what I said initially. she is always trying to prove a point anytime and it's annoying, I am not so much of a talker so I see no reason for us repeating what I just stated out again.

She always say that she has a mind of her own and she shouldn't just swallow anyone's suggestion hook line and sinker.

Let me just say she is philosophical, always wanting to question everything and it can be tiring when no conclusion is reached on time.


Now, is it because she talks a lot or she is just too arrogant to admit my suggestion.

I have been checking out for her submissiveness. hope her questioning attitude is not a red flag for the future.

And you have a problem with someone that has her own mind and not afraid to air her opinion? What do you want, a doormat? I definitely see plenty red flags and they are all emitting from you.

tsmith:


And you have a problem with someone that has her own mind and not afraid to air her opinion? What do you want, a doormat? I definitely see plenty red flags and they are all emitting from you.

As much as I see nothing wrong for her to air her opinion, I still believe arrogance is why a lady will always want to sound right even when she only needs to nodd and agree with what a man has said.

scoundrel:
It’s her character. I’m sure you guys have already done the hanky-panky hence the matter becoming an issue. I see it you guys grew under separate roofs so it’s her means of either communication or defence. If it annoys you too much you still have the freedom to pull out of the relationship. Marriages with once lavish weddings end in divorce so I don’t see the special thing about a mere relationship.

She doesn't talk that way every time so I guess she uses it as a defence whenever she feels intimidated.

It's well ooo

There is nothing wrong with your woman airing her views and opinions on sensible issues, it is even attractive in a way as long as you make more of a discussion and sharing of ideas than an argument.

But if for any reason you sense that she always wants to have her way in every conversation and pressure you to accept her view cut contact immediately.....or do not indulge her in any potentially argumentative discussions.....just be silent everytime she tries to engage you and she'll tire eventually.

A girl will show many red flags than a Chinese communist parade, yet some boys will still keep asking foolish questions. Na feminist be dat jare.

"I have a mind of my own."

SafetyFirst:
No o!
It's a Nigerian flag!

LOL I was going to say RedCross flag

czarr:
There is nothing wrong with your woman airing her views and opinions on sensible issues, it is even attractive in a way as long as you make more of a discussion and sharing of ideas than an argument.

But if for any reason you sense that she always wants to have her way in every conversation and pressure you to accept her view cut contact immediately.....or do not indulge her in any potentially argumentative discussions.....just be silent everytime she tries to engage you and she'll tire eventually.

Thanks I grab the point

Red flag my guy... any girl that can not listen to you and admire ur intelligence is not ur own sir

It’s just her nature, it has nothing to do with being submissive, you have to deal with it or free her..

But if nah me, I go just save my energy and watch her full paparazzi. It’s not a must to argue. I no even like ham at all.. We’ll be good if the orientations on her head are confam!

Rapsodee:
As much as I see nothing wrong for her to air her opinion, I still believe arrogance is why a lady will always want to sound right even when she only needs to nodd and agree with what a man has said.

SHE ONLY NEEDS TO NOD AND AGREE WITH WHAT A MAN HAS SAID (WHETHER WRONG OR RIGHT) Wonderful, so she doesn't even have a say of her own. odikwegu

My friend... A lot of marriages have been ruined by disparity of ideologies. Imagine how it annoys you now that you are dating... How much more would it be when she's now living with you and you see her daily.. Trust me, in most cases, such ladies are empty and therefore seek to advertise their ignorance. Flee now that you can!

madone:
Red flag my guy... any girl that can not listen to you and admire ur intelligence is not ur own sir

U're so sure op is intelligent

tsmith:


And you have a problem with someone that has her own mind and not afraid to air her opinion? What do you want, a doormat? I definitely see plenty red flags and they are all emitting from you.

Any persons that feel she or he has the monopoly of the right words to express an opinion is a fool

Being sensible and reasonable does not portray anyone as a doormat except an inferior fellow

she loves philosophising. It is a good thing.

when next she is doing that, tell her " you look sexy each time u do that. then go ahead and touch her in a sexual way, handle her breast, kiss her lips.....this evokes an emotion( either anger, or love ). emotion and reason don't go together. she will stop arguing. it works

Stacyomolola:

U're so sure op is intelligent

Of course I am

people like that will hardly cheat on u. no seducer can sweet talk tgem