What is the most attractive non-physical thing in a guy? This question is specifically directed to ladies of substance but gentlemen are welcome on board.

charisma

Intelligence

I like a man who is not afraid to be a man while uplifting his woman to greatness. Not being intimidate with such strong black woman who will not only hold her own but to stand by her man in all days of her life.

That ATTRACTIVE TO ME.

Sense of fairness and justice, no ego problems/self-esteem issues.

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Me loves an intelligent man with a huge sense of humour,a man with empathy, confident(not proud/egocentric) and above all a man who has the fear of God.

I am torn between a good sense of humor and kindness.

adagz 01:

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^^^Bhuahhahhahahaaa! you are a hater you know.

For me probably everything the girls have listed so far. No egomaniacs, its hard to watch a man with brains acting s-t-u-p-i-d, its just the hardest thing

Good sense of humour

Sense of humour, that can make any guy attractive.

also other traits I always seem to fall for lol

An overachiever! Its annoying when a dude is geeky but I love the impressive resume types; top 10 college top 10 grad school, top 10 company! classic turn on
Workaholics
Foreign accents! o lawd!

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i will choose COMPASSION over intelligence any day.

There are some fools that states all the facts in the encyklopedia as intelligent as a professor and some with a traders charisma and have no empathy at all.

Mine will be compassion

@queensmith, all in all u find a scholar attractive? that'z war. . .lol

iyatrustee:

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lol  

I have to say intelligence is first, but a great sense of humor is a close second.

Omolola1:

@queensmith, all in all u find a scholar attractive? that'z war. . .lol

lol no, thats not what i meant, I mean someone who is always tops! Like yesterday for example I met a dude who studied neuroscience and is now conducting research in a London hospital. He's the same age as me! As cute as he was, his shyness was gettin on my nerves cos he kept talking too quietly! When he mentioned what he does my eyes just lit up! I automatically has huuuuuuge respect for him, cos thats just really impressive! you dont get alot of young men doing much nowadays!


Alot of men use thier intelligence to be intimidating, thats never attractive. But when a dude is smart, sharp and driven its inspiring!

Hmmmn! I like that. . .

adagz 01:

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Im telling you adagz

Vision 2030!!

Confidence in his manhood is a virtue.

Definitely gotta be his intelligence, ambitious and sense of direction in life.

iyatrustee:

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First his ATM pin and now his signature LOL, u nor go kill me!

Sense of humor oh. . Aint nuthin hawtter than a guy who can make me laugh. Although intelligence is up there too-a funny i.diot wouldn't cut it either. Guess it's a tie between intelligence and a good sense of humor.

BRAINS! BRAINS! BRAINS! , that's the only thing i look for in a guy, everythin else is secondary

He probably cheated on her and she found out, found another guy, and kick him out the house

A sense of humor I love to laugh and I need a guy who can have fun and not take life serious all the time!

You ladies should quit this talk of intelligence. Everybody on earth has a brain.

Hmm.

Ooooooooh IIce!