I have this girl I've been dating for about two years. We've had our differences but we always find ways to right our wrongs and forge a better path. However, something happened recently which might turn out to be the straw that would break the camel's back.

I got into an argument with my partner which resulted in her dragging my family in the process. I told her outrightly I would never tolerate such. I was expecting her to apologize which she never did. It has dragged on for 2 days now we haven't spoken with each other nor has anyone initiated any chat. I'm concerned if I might be taking it a bit farther or I should just call and end the silence.

Liamm:
I have this girl I've been dating for about two years. We've had our differences but we always find ways to right our wrongs and forge a better path. However, something happened recently which might turn out to be the straw that would break the camel's back.

I got into an argument with my partner which resulted in her dragging my family in the process. I told her outrightly I would never tolerate such. I was expecting her to apologize which she never did. It has dragged on for 2 days now we haven't spoken with each other nor has anyone initiated any chat. I'm concerned if I might be taking it a bit farther or I should just call and end the silence.

You should just call and end which silly silence?


Someone that doesn't have any respect for your family is who you want to call? Damn!!! What are some guys turning into these days?

My friend, you better stay clear of a disrespectful donkey....

Don't be a PUSSY.

Verbal abuse isn't something to condone.

Her apology wouldn't mean shit because she's egotistical. Guy, stop dating insolent women.

Sho mo age mi ni,

if na me the relationship has just ended wether she apologise or not
bye bye

Someone you haven't even married yet insulted your family and you open that your mouth dy ask if I AM TAKING IT FAR,u even have the guts to even mention if you should call her to end the silence.

No man has the right to insult my family. You insult even the smallest in my family, we will have problem.

It's basically lack of respect that makes partners insult each others family

Better pack your slippers and run

But most girl are used to doing this it's not even funny anymore, they have this Imaginary war between them and the Family.

If if it gets to you and you touch her you become a demon in society eyes so beta japa now.

No matter how heated the argument is, my parents (especially my mother) and siblings are off limits. Don’t refer to them even in innuendo.

I might smile but my smile vely dangerlous.

I’m not a man of preaching of love

I’m a war!

I’m a fight!

I’m da liquid metal!!!

So don’t try it.

OP, I will advise you to tell her you expect an apology. If she doesn’t apologise in 24 hours, leave her in the relationship and move on.

If she cannot apologise today, she will not apologise tomorrow.

Stay away from people who think their apology is too expensive to give.

You are very stupid for thinking you could have gone too far, you are already lessening your family to have sought advice on the internet, she's not your wife for God sake, imagine what she would do when you marry her, any woman you want to marry that doesn't show you respect is not worth it, as a man you must be disciplined no matter how much you love your wife let alone ordinary expendable and dispensable girlfriend, fvck that.

marlow1962:
Someone you haven't even married yet insulted your family and you open that your mouth dy ask if I AM TAKING IT FAR,u even have the guts to even mention if you should call her to end the silence.

Saworoide

Op Eleribu Nior Walai

Op, don't listen to all these advice you c above, none of them was there when you guys started and most of them spewing trash will beg this same lady. Remember, everybody na hardcore online.
In as much as what she did was bad, she was annoyed and she stepped out of the line. Still on still, breaking up is not the answer

Why not have a word with her and make her see reasons with you? I belief she will apologize.
I only c a weak man, if you can't let trivial issues go, I c a strong man if you can settle your differences.


No let Ego ,make u fall down. We all err

gunners160:
Op, don't listen to all these advice you c above, none of them was there when you guys started and most of them spewing trash will beg this same lady. Remember, everybody na hardcore online.
In as much as what she did was bad, she was annoyed and she stepped out of the line. Still on still, breaking up is not the answer

Why not have a word with her and make her see reasons with you? I belief she will apologize.
I only c a weak man, if you can't let trivial issues go, a c a strong man if you can settle your differences.


No let Ego ,make u fall down. We all err

..Mr man..what are you typing for Christ sake. so if ur "girlfriend" insult ur mother...u will still tell her sorry?...Kia!!!....I shake my head for u!!

..once cut ties with a close pal cos of that shit. Me no dey play with my family oh.
.. ordinary girlfriend go disrespect my blood anyhow??.
..I no dey forgive that one oh. NEVER.

AfroKnight:
No matter how heated the argument is, my parents (especially my mother) and siblings are off limits. Don’t refer to them even in innuendo.

I might smile but my smile vely dangerlous.

I’m not a man of preaching of love

I’m a war!

I’m a fight!

I’m da liquid metal!!!

So don’t try it.

OP, I will advise you to tell her you expect an apology. If she doesn’t apologise in 24 hours, leave her in the relationship and move on.

If she cannot apologise today, she will not apologise tomorrow.

Stay away from people who think their apology is too expensive to give.

Guess you are Indaboski

I'll make her lie flat and flog her 12 lashes of the cane for being disrespectful. after the flogging she will lie flat and ask for their forgiveness

I will not take it lightly with my partner if he insults me, now think of what I will do if he insults my family. Thing is no matter how deep or tense partners are they shouldn't hurl insults at one another let alone their families. Its very unhealthy!


But I have a question for you op, Did you insult her's first? Because most of you guys here cry wolf a lot! You leave out your faults and paint the lady bad just to give juicy stories. If you didn't then I wonder what type of girl you roll with

Hmmmm....She have no right whatsoever to insult my family.

Person wey Dem call make him join chop suya...dey start from onions nii to avoid..."Hey,Oya e Don do"

Ariza:
I will not take it lightly with my partner if he insults me, now think of what I will do if he insults my family. Thing is no matter how deep or tense partners are they shouldn't hurl insults at one another let alone their families. Its very unhealthy!


But I have a question for you op, Did you insult her's first? Because most of you guys here cry wolf a lot! You leave out your faults and paint the lady bad just to give juicy stories. If you didn't then I wonder what type of girl you roll with

I would never do such. To be more elaborate, she did something that was wrong and she has refused acknowledging the wrong in it. We were having a conversation when she still insisted she wasn't wrong, accused me of doing something I didn't do then referring to my family as 'liars' when she hasn't even had contact with any member. So you see?

You Don't Deserve The Title Of Being Called a "Male"


** Shakes Head in Disgust **


** Spits On Op's Head **

EzzyCarter:




Guess you are Indaboski

Pahose!

Lion family.

Liamm:
I have this girl I've been dating for about two years. We've had our differences but we always find ways to right our wrongs and forge a better path. However, something happened recently which might turn out to be the straw that would break the camel's back.

I got into an argument with my partner which resulted in her dragging my family in the process. I told her outrightly I would never tolerate such. I was expecting her to apologize which she never did. It has dragged on for 2 days now we haven't spoken with each other nor has anyone initiated any chat. I'm concerned if I might be taking it a bit farther or I should just call and end the silence.

You guys must have been having issues that are left unresolved

If your family never approved the relationship, it could be one if the reasons she us acting that way

But if your family never dragged her, she shouldn't dragg them

If you love your partner then you must love his family

lol.. see this op for God's sake.

even merely insulting each other playfully, I don't tolerate that shit not to mention my family members. she's already out of my equation should she cross that line.

I'm allergic to uncouth and unguarded gibberish from anybody reason I don't go about infusing insults in my utterances. I don't give what I can't take, and I don't expect you to give me what I didn't give you, so she better learn to adjust to a new life with me by guarding and preventing her tongue from misyarning or they'd be serious consequences.

JasonJidenna:
You should just call and end which silly silence?


Someone that doesn't have any respect for your family is who you want to call? Damn!!! What are some guys turning into these days?

My friend, you better stay clear of a disrespectful donkey....

Don't be a PUSSY.

He shouldn't be a pussy or he should come out from that pussy cage he found himself...

gunners160:
Op, don't listen to all these advice you c above, none of them was there when you guys started and most of them spewing trash will beg this same lady. Remember, everybody na hardcore online.
In as much as what she did was bad, she was annoyed and she stepped out of the line. Still on still, breaking up is not the answer

Why not have a word with her and make her see reasons with you? I belief she will apologize.
I only c a weak man, if you can't let trivial issues go, I c a strong man if you can settle your differences.


No let Ego ,make u fall down. We all err

Will you keep quite?

AfroKnight:


Pahose!

Lion family.

It depends on what had transpired & what was said. Why did she drag them into the conversation? There must be a reason. You have to be impartial about it because you know, people are not without faults, even family members. They might be precious to you, but she doesn't have to like them because you do, especially if there's some bad blood there. Personally, I believe in free speech & open communication about how one feels, but I wouldn't tolerate name-calling, particularly when it comes to certain members of my family eg. Parents. Like, you can air your grievances but be respectful about it. I would never swear at anyone's parents, out of respect, so I'd expect someone else to also be mindful. Outside of that, they're free to rant & rave to their heart's content, but within reason.