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Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Islie: 10:09pm On May 12, 2020
Chukwuka Utazi, senator representing Enugu north, says in Africa, people do not marry for love, but to have children.

Utazi made the comment while contributing to a debate on a bill seeking to prevent, control and manage sickle cell anaemia in the country, on Tuesday.

The bill is being sponsored by Sam Egwu, senator representing Ebonyi north.

While making his point, the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) senator said it is painful to realise that an individual cannot marry his or her choice because of blood group.

“This bill is taking me down the memory lane because I’m an AS carrier and when I was about getting married, several years ago, I moved into this orbit and I know what I went through because I was in love. I knew the trauma. After that incident, for five years I didn’t come out of it,” he said.

“So I am speaking from experience and I know how it pains that you have made a choice and you discover that the choice can’t work. Because in Africa, we marry for children, we don’t marry for love.”

At this point, Senate President Ahmad Lawan interrupted, saying: “Senator Chukwuka Utazi, I think you should be speaking for yourself.”

Continuing, Utazi said: “In the developed world, particulars of a child’s blood group is given at birth.

“A test is done to show the blood group, the genotype before leaving. In the birth certificate of the child, all those things are put in place.

“We should not be waiting for when people want to go and marry, that is when they will start checking their genotype and their blood group, it shouldn’t be.”

Also speaking on the subject, Biodun Olujimi, senator representing Ekiti south, asked Nigerians to look at ways of addressing health needs.

“The time has come for us to look inwards to solve some of these health needs and also support institutions that are doing so. Going forward we need to take serious blood testing for intending couples,” Olujimi said.

“We will not allow love take away the best part of our marriages.”

The bill passed second reading after it was put to a voice vote by Lawan.

https://www.thecable.ng/extra-in-africa-we-marry-for-children-not-love-says-enugu-senator

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by sunnyanet(m): 10:11pm On May 12, 2020
You are on your own

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Jmk9292(m): 10:16pm On May 12, 2020
People marry for different reasons... Utazi speaks for himself

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by hammerP: 10:18pm On May 12, 2020
Marriage is for children.

That is correct.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Amotolongbo(f): 10:19pm On May 12, 2020
The senator is saying the truth though.

When a man or woman is reaching a certain age, people start asking and looking forward to the time he/she will come on to settle down with a partner, not because they want him/her to be taken care of by the partner, but because of the offspring coming out of the Union.
Family and friends start anticipating for the fruits of the womb and less concerned about how happy they are being together. And in Africa we care more and more influenced my what is happening in our environment, environments (family and friends) dictate to us on how to live our lives.

If majority of us in Africa do marry cause of love, we need not always getting worried about the delay in childbirth or sex of the children given birth to.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by FlordFlorez(m): 10:23pm On May 12, 2020
He's very correct.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by SageMK: 10:34pm On May 12, 2020
Is he insinuating Africans are incapable of love?

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Goddey18(m): 10:36pm On May 12, 2020
The senator is not far from the truth.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by JeffreyD1(m): 5:19am On May 13, 2020
Well the main reason for marriage is to make babies

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by opribo(m): 5:20am On May 13, 2020
Exactly, the only one reason why you marry is for children.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:20am On May 13, 2020
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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by helinues: 5:20am On May 13, 2020
He should say in his village

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by affable4(m): 5:21am On May 13, 2020
Bush man.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by NOETHNICITY(m): 5:22am On May 13, 2020
This man is absolutely correct
Let's stop decieving ourselves

Respect sir, for having the guts to say the truth

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:22am On May 13, 2020
CORRECT
BABY MAKING CONTINENT with ASIA
Most people marry for PROCREATION.
But you do not need MARRIAGE to procreate

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by atiku4President(m): 5:22am On May 13, 2020
Is it not Senator Akpa amu speaking?

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by inoki247: 5:22am On May 13, 2020
Truth is always bitter like Flagyl...

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by realstars: 5:22am On May 13, 2020
Some Are Not For Love, Nor Children, But For Stadey 4uk.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by golddare: 5:23am On May 13, 2020
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Exc2000: 5:23am On May 13, 2020
Children, because you are growing old, or for convinience
Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by mmsen: 5:23am On May 13, 2020
SageMK:
Is he insinuating Africans are incapable of love?

Yes. The implication of what he is saying is that Africans have no room for love.

Forever in 'survival' mode.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Deicide: 5:23am On May 13, 2020
There is love but only at the beginning of the relationship

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by olaztek(m): 5:24am On May 13, 2020
That's the reason we have so many divorces in our society.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by BeLookingIDIOT(m): 5:24am On May 13, 2020
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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by mmsen: 5:24am On May 13, 2020
EVILFOREST:
Correct
BABY MAKING CONTINENT with ASIA

Which Asia?

Asians aren't having 5/6 children anymore. Only Africans are foolish enough to do such in the age of contraceptives.

Stupid people.

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:25am On May 13, 2020
Well...that is his truth

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by yemzzy22(m): 5:25am On May 13, 2020
me I marry for an happy home and successful one to training my children to be great and blessed children

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Peace081: 5:26am On May 13, 2020
Lol

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by uthlaw: 5:26am On May 13, 2020
Amotolongbo:
The senator is saying the truth though.

When a man or woman is reaching a certain age, people start asking and looking forward to the time he/she will come on to settle down with a partner, not because they want him/her to be taken care of by the partner, but because of the offspring coming out of the Union.
Family and friends start anticipating for the fruits of the womb and less concerned about how happy they are being together. And in Africa we care more and more influenced my what is happening in our environment, environments (family and friends) dictate to us on how to live our lives.

If majority of us in Africa do marry cause of love, we need not always getting worried about the delay in childbirth or sex of the children given birth to.
is not a lie..you are �% correct!

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by Nobody: 5:27am On May 13, 2020
mmsen:


Which Asia?

Asians aren't having 5/6 children anymore. Only Africans are foolish enough to do such in the age of contraceptives.

Stupid people.

What about INDIA and CHINA
CHINA has similar Land Mass with the US and Canada...
CHINA is 1.5 Billion.
INDIA is 1.3 Billion
US is 310 million.
CANADA is 36 million.

Meanwhile these COUNTRIES are 10 Times bigger than Nigeria.
..... and NIGERIA is 200 Fucking Million.
We are Finished. .... Situation can only get worse

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Re: Chukwuka Utazi: In Africa, We Marry For Children Not Love by ephraim18(m): 5:27am On May 13, 2020
He speak the truth... Typical African man

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