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Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Mygoldie(f): 2:38pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
tensor777: do you ever get tried of putting your point across, ''just curious'' |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Mygoldie:Not really. You were not by any chance imagining that you lot would get away with the nonsense you've been posting? |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Mygoldie(f): 2:44pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Lol, you make me laff,its a mutual feeling and its pointless. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by agitator: 3:51pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
@tensor777 This time you have been exceptional on this thread, but don't bother. Ladies who feel they are smart always get burnt. May be you have not noticed, already, she is on "lord reed's" hit list. The aristos tell them what they want to hear just like you posted earlier. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by LordReed(m): 4:07pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
@agitator Folk like you die of envy quickly. Even when there's nothing to envy your depraved mind has to manufacture something. I pity you. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by dayokanu(m): 4:10pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
You are the one who's getting it twisted here,just because your poor doesn't mean you won't care for your girl,mind you,i'm not asking you to buy her heaven and earth NO.you can do little things like buying her stuffs like cream,hand bag,tops,trousers etc. it doesn't mean she's a goldigger.it doesn't mean she cannot care for her needs,it doesn't mean she can't be independent. but the fact that some men label their women as a goldigger,just cause she asked for maybe money or so,is not just right atall. @Mygoldie, When the man buys this for his gf, What does the girl give back in return? |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Atreides(f): 4:22pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
Lord_Reed:Don't mind him. Seriously,it's not worth the effort. P.s-I mailed you like an hour ago. Have you seen it? You can send the book in .pdf format. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
agitator:That is so obvious but I did not want to call them out as she would have thought I wanted to hit on her. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by LordReed(m): 4:44pm On Jan 19, 2011 |
@Atreides I haven't seen it. Check and see if you get a mailerdaemon response. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Jenifa1: 9:09pm On Feb 04, 2011 |
these men label women gold-diggers because they are trying to avoid traditional financial responsibilities. on the other hand, they don't want a career woman who already is financially stable. instead they want a young dependent girl. basically they want to eat their cake and have it. which is impossible. even our forefathers married off their young daughters to the highest bidder. nobody wants to live in poverty or wish it on their kin. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Nobody: 9:23pm On Feb 04, 2011 |
Jenifa_:And how common is it to marry up in Nigeria or anywhere else for that matter? People do tend to marry within their socio-economic class you know. So squash this idea of an impoverished lady using marriage as a way of escaping a life of squalor. The best way for such a woman to escape poverty is the obvious way- namely getting herself something tangible doing and not leeching off others. Anyway a golddigger is likely to be a more experienced worldly woman as opposed to a naive schoolgirl who does not even have a chance at beating the players at their game |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Jenifa1: 4:21am On Feb 05, 2011 |
tensor777: nobody said school girls were naive. you've heard of the aristo phenomenon on naija university campuses. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by fstranger1: 4:23am On Feb 05, 2011 |
Jenifa_: Your shameless BF is telling you too much about Nigeria And you are getting too far Desist from maligning Nigeria's image or I would have to report you to the mods! |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Atreides(f): 12:19pm On Feb 05, 2011 |
fstranger1:lol. . stranger,stranger,stranger. . How many times did i call you? Stop attacking this girl naa. . |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Feb 05, 2011 |
Jenifa_:Well some of them are naive as they don't really know what they are getting themselves into. But I would not class them as gold-diggers. They are simply good time girls. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Jenifa1: 3:59am On Feb 06, 2011 |
tensor777: ok. so what's your definition of a gold-digger? I personally find the term offensive and don't think women who prefer successful/ wealthy men are necessarily gold diggers. so that's one point I agree with you on. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Feb 06, 2011 |
^I am not sure that it is that offensive as it presupposes that the lady in question is shrewd, knowledgable, and knows what she wants. Who no like better thing after all? |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Jenifa1: 11:16pm On Feb 06, 2011 |
that's true. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by asas(f): 4:03am On Feb 07, 2011 |
y is it only women dat r gold-diggers dere r also men who r gold diggers also |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Nobody: 4:10am On Feb 07, 2011 |
asas: Absolutely and they are on the rise! Some male goldiggers put the female counter parts to shame! Look @ Anna Nicole Smiths baby's father, who before her death was not interested in the baby until he realized the amount of money and property she was to inherit. He went to courts and used the public to win over the assets to "monitor for his newborn" and kicked ANS's widower out of the house they had in the Bahamas prior to her death, remember he had NO interest in the baby before hand. SMH. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by asas(f): 4:18am On Feb 07, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin: correct, perfect example guys dat date older women for cash aka gigolos guys who date girls from rich backgrounds not only women its a 2way thing women golddiggers and men golddiggers |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Atreides(f): 11:23am On Feb 07, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin:Good example. I remember when i first saw him i thought 'beach boy',and how is this beach boy who had NO interest in the baby before suddenly turn into this devoted father? |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by moonraker(m): 12:00pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
@ Atreides I like ur picture, Dr Duff I see u watch the phineas and ferb series, kool!!!!! |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Atreides(f): 12:02pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
moonraker:Of course i watch Phineas and Ferb. . That's one of my fav Dr. Doofenshmirtz's uber-cool. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by moonraker(m): 12:10pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
Agent P |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Atreides(f): 12:21pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
moonraker: I think its so funny that Doofenshmirtz is so modest-he doesnt wanna take over the whole world;just the entire tri-state area! |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by moonraker(m): 12:27pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
@ Atreides hahahahahha yep with his smt smt INATOR!!!! i like the way he makes up his own names like BO-AT (hehehheh tht was a classic). did u watch the episode of MEAP in Seattle?? theres also the new ones where duff and agent P engage in tokyo, |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Mygoldie(f): 12:31pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
Atreides: Wasup sis. |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by MrCork17: 12:37pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
Atreides (f), <<<<< Gold Digger MyGoldie <<<<<< Pat time Gold digger Mrs Chima <<<<< Full time Gold digger |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Touns1234(m): 12:43pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
This is an interesting question and am sure ladies are very much interested than the guys. Well, obvious part, a guy will spent so much on his girl but whenever he caught her cheating on him, the whole blows out and boils down to the fact that " u don't care for me, u only want my money" gold-digger. Is easy to say, when a guy is angry, disappointed so on, |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by Atreides(f): 2:52pm On Feb 07, 2011 |
Mygoldie:Hey babez. . How be? *quickly remembers something* Wait,why am i greeting you? I'm still angry with you! You put me in trouble at home ydai! |
Re: Why Are Some Men So Quick To Label Women Gold-diggers? Does Love Mean Poverty/suffering? by busygirl(f): 4:03am On Feb 08, 2011 |
Where was I when this hot topic started . Personally, I'm not the type of girl that would ask things from a guy, I can always sort myself out. But notwithstanding, I like guys that act on instincts. Basic instincts should tell a man when to spend for a girl e.g valentine, christmas , anniversaries and all that. When it comes to marriage, it is a different ball game. The man must be financially capable before you marry him. |
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