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Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Bimffo(m): 2:45am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Do anything you want to do. Just tell the boy you claim your love. Tell him with your decision. We already know your decision. Tell your claimed boyfriend and spare him the headache of knowing himself. So that he will leave you to enjoy life and he will also surge forward and get another person to have his time. YOU LADIES ARE ANNOYING!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by alphaNomega: 2:45am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989 You know you can keep both guys, right? |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by akilo1: 2:52am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Olosho ooo |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by 3rockets(m): 3:00am On Jun 09, 2020 |
This is how covid 19 enter Nigeria. "I am in love with america but i met Nigeria and he is attractive, dunno what to do?" Now look at us! |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by manontree: 3:13am On Jun 09, 2020 |
At this age few women are mature enough to actually date with wisdom. This is the most adventurous age where lots of mistakes are made I reckon you are between 18-22yrs. At this age it's hard to see a woman that is committed and see through a relationship unless it is with someone older who probably has money, thus she sticks around for the cash and ride and eventually marries him Few at this age sticks with a man finding his feet without doing all sorts behind his back. If he happens not to discover they may end up marrying much later. This is a very few cases. Most break up and tries numerous people before finally realising how things flies when they are around 28-32yrs and would look back at this past decisions with horror My advise There is this saying that if Goodluck Jonathan had won the 2015 election most Nigerians would by now be thinking had it been that Buhari won Nigeria would have been like London by now. Dollar would be equal to naira and Nigerians would have 24hrs electricity But as Buhari won, we have seen that the grass is not always greener at the other side... With maturity you would realise that a wise person sticks and works for the growth of what he or she has. There is no perfect person. There would always be others better than you or your boyfriend or your husband. But that doesnt mean whenever those seemingly better ones come around, you ditch your present for them. You would find that if you did this, it may ultimately lead to the story I said above, plus you lose your credibility and respect amongst noble men and women |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Ottiyakpa: 3:15am On Jun 09, 2020 |
It is hard to advice a girl with such fantasies,a lot of people spoke well here!!! Once my guy have his way in between your legs you will see his true color...being contended with what you have is good,don't lose your boyfriend to mere fantasies that will fade away like the passage of light 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Mvena(f): 3:16am On Jun 09, 2020 |
If you love the first one, you wouldn't think of the second one like this. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Mvena(f): 3:17am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Ottiyakpa:I love this talk I swear, na so some universities guys dey |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by ZooOga: 3:19am On Jun 09, 2020 |
cupidity avarice confused trickster deceiver disloyal |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Folzye(m): 3:22am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Let me borrow this wise saying, It will end in premium tears |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by whitemand4(m): 3:24am On Jun 09, 2020 |
This is just an excerpt from my write-up @OP One of the major problems comes from patriarchy. I mean a general but erroneous belief that have been passed down to the girl child. Their psyche has been wired to believe that men are more than women in the world demography and so every girl child feels vulnerable and therefore wants to secure a guy for herself as early as possible. This is coupled with the fact that they have been told that a female child has a very limited time (Ile obinrin kin pe su). As soon as the girl enters PDS or 100L she wants to get a hook up. *This makes guys take advantage of them, and they come in the name of love feigning affection, which the girl terms 'he is very caring'. Meanwhile the guy understands his games.* On the part of the guy, *men are wired in a way that they are moved with what they see. Every guy thinks he likes a lady whenever his eyes catch on a fine girl (..and every girl at this stage is beautiful). The result is that if he succeeds in winning the lady's attention, the first thing on his mind is sex. Infact in most cases, a guy will sleep with a lady on a first date if he has his ways. But ladies are not like that. Ladies cherish sex and an average lady will not give you her body until she has built trust in you. If the sex opportunity does not come early, the guy can give his life to the lady, ...and this will mean to the lady that he's 'very caring'. A guy at that stage is not ready for anything relationship but to satisfy the call of nature, but he has to come in the name of relationship to be able to secure the lady's consent and attention. As soon as the guy has what he wants and probably sees another beauty that appeals to him, he'll have to start planning his exit so he will not start building a commitment which he is certainly not prepared to conclude. But it is difficult for the guy to let go because he's afraid of breaking a heart because the truth is, she gets easily emotionally attached especially when the issue of sex is already involved because she cherishes sex. In most breakups, the most painful aspect is because she has given him her body, and in most cases due to lack of knowledge and experience, abortion has happened.* *Truth be told, most guys in school are not ready for relationships, all they need is sex.* They are not to blame anyway, they are at a stage when the body makeup is seriously demanding (the hormones I talked about). *Girls also feel they don't have a choice because they wantu secure the future, but it is erroneous to think so because at the end of the day it makes them get highly exposed.* Because of this feeling of insecurity, they present a lead to the guys. But from experience with students, *only a very small percent of Student-Student relationship leads to marriage.* The remaining amounts to time wasting, adventure and hard lessons. Several relationships last up to the time the guy graduates. Many of them don't have the courage to walk out while in school because of what people will perceive them to be, but as soon as they guy leaves school he will break up lass lass. I've seen several. Another major reason is: *because the guy did not get into the relationship on any platform of constructive association but just by mere physical administration, he gets to discover who the girl truly is way deep into the relationship after many words like: 'I love you till death, you're the best I've ever met, you're the gift God has reserved for me,' ... Now after discovering her true person, it becomes so difficult to cope if they are not compatible. And since he still see lots of way out he doesn't want to start enduring with someone he can still easily do away with. He begins to plan how to leave.* 2 Likes |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by ofiko123(m): 3:32am On Jun 09, 2020 |
It's not love that you have for this new guy it is infatuation.. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by udemzyudex(m): 3:34am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Give him space. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Sailorsoldier1: 3:37am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989:You just want to taste a different Dyck that's all. Its very normal. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Rebuke: 3:41am On Jun 09, 2020 |
yomi007k: It will bro, not may. The Op emphasized on sexuality whatever that is called.....meaning, this whole thing is built on lust. Once that sexual desire or urge is satisfied, will there still be any reason to stay? Even after telling him yhu have a boyfriend and he doesn't seem to see that as anything says alot about such guys. The first comment on front page shows the kind of mind set people have these days. Teaching people how to cheat just to fulfill sexual gratification. Funny enough, non of these guys advising her to leave her boyfriend for the new guy will be happy to see such happen to them. Same guys will label her a LovePeddler. When will some ladies even wise up? Now, if yhu want me to advise yhu, I will tell yhu to better face yhur studies. All these sexual relationship in the name of boyfriend in school will leave yhu in regret; used and broken. Let godliness be yhur priority as a youth and when yhu are ready to settle down, prayerfully choose a partner. Remember, those advising yhu to enjoy yhurself now won't be there when yhu are facing the reality and outcome of yhur decisions. 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by skj1377(m): 3:41am On Jun 09, 2020 |
My dear go and read your book and stop dating students in your class. Am sure your CGPA is less than 3.5 because you suffer from lack of foresight on one hand and no commitment on the other hand. But unfortunately people like you get married early and probably to the best guys available what a world. Happy989: |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by ussv: 3:56am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Listen to your heart my dear, you know what your heart wants, if he makes you happy, do a little background on him and find out if he is too good to be true and if he is not attached and follow your heart. But also woman up and break up peacefully and nicely from your boyfirend, he does not deserve a double date or a hidden relationship, but most of all, your happiness is important. When i settled for my wife, i settled for the woman that gave me the most happiness. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Rebuke: 3:59am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Let's even say this is a serious thing, like yhu were in a serious relationship with yhur so called boyfriend and now yhu are falling for someone else for whatever fettish reason. Simply means yhu are not satisfied. When another good looking guy with a sugar coated mouth gets to yhu, maybe yhu will start considering him again. The circle goes on, what does that makes yhu? In yhur mind yhu will think no, "this is my last" but until yhu work on yhur mind to think on what matters most, yhu will never be satisfied. If this story is real, I bet yhu will soon realise the said guy is just out to have his own share of yhur body. I don't like commenting on topics like these but I am wondering the kind of life we live as youths these days. Look at the advice some people give here, yhu will be surprised how almost nobody gives a damn about purity again. People seeking advice here to me are not ready to face reality. Once again, I tell yhu go and read yhur book. Year 2, yhu don't need the boyfriend things. Serve God with yhur time, concentrate on yhur book and forget all this yhur sexual fetishism. Be very careful what yhu do today because yhu may not be proud of it tomorrow. 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Jlow2: 4:10am On Jun 09, 2020 |
ask Genevieve and Rita Dominic, dey ur Lane oh |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by lalanice(f): 4:12am On Jun 09, 2020 |
kingkakaone:which moniker? Mine Or yours? |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by lalanice(f): 4:13am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Makanaki127:I'm a lady o, and I know. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by kennethology(m): 4:18am On Jun 09, 2020 |
My dear sister, be focused and continue with your boyfriend. He who has two wrist watches is not sure of the time. You are already cheating and it is not a good life. Dont listen to advise telling you to follow your happiness. I can guarantee you that if you quit your boyfriend and follow that guy, you will sure find reasons to leave this one or he will find reasons to leave you. If you want equity,your hands must be clean o. Ordinarily you tell a man you have a boyfriend and he is still coming he is a very bad person so long is not coming for marriage. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Justdenis(m): 4:22am On Jun 09, 2020 |
There is a thin line between LOVE and INFATUATION.. You can never eat your cake and have it... Decide what u want today and stick to it...the truth is, you will always find someone that is more better even after marriage but will you resolve to changing men like cloths?..I beliv u know the answer in your heart... SHALOM 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by jamal230(m): 4:22am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Let me not curse you but you be mumu girl, this Jessica sef eeh, no be the same thing wey your bf been dey go when him still dey chyke you no him this boy wey dey totori you dey do so, na so you go leave am now go dey date you senior bros now, another guy go come totori you, you go run go meet am again.. My friend better call your bf, he has my time he has my time na say Corona keep everyone for house, make school start make we see how far.. Happy989: |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by GennyCheta(f): 4:23am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989: Continue I believe you have chosen the one you want. I want to believe this is not peer pressure The little first paragraph is for your boyfriend everything else is for your upcoming boyfriend. Okay |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by OVB123: 4:30am On Jun 09, 2020 |
For me i think ur first guy is the best guy 4 u, if ur write up is anything go by. The young man that came later is only interested in something and once his done with u, he will run away. i doubt, if u visit him in his lounge he wil not demand 4 sex. so 4 that reason young lady tread with caution. 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by CIAOps: 4:31am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Falling for a sweet talker eh? After he romps you, we will hear "All men are nkitas". 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by valemtech(m): 4:32am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Nah soo 1 Like
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Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by FRANKOSKI(m): 4:33am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Dobson43:THESE HOES AIN'T LOYAL 1 Like |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by SUPOL(m): 4:34am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989:you just want to fork him dassol. You’re boyfriend is better than him tho he maybe better in bed. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Ibyno(m): 4:34am On Jun 09, 2020 |
the new guy have not lash u before before. allow him to lash u and see if he will still sound d same . or better Double date.u may not be d only one ur guy is Lashing. |
Re: I Have A Boyfriend But I'm Falling In Love With Someone Else. by Kingspin(m): 4:36am On Jun 09, 2020 |
Happy989:Have you thoroughly answer the question, what is love? |
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