You are in the age bracket, enjoy....

Whenever we tell you guys that opposite sex can not be best of friends, you guys will be attacking like mad dog.

If a girl chooses to go extra mile and closer to a guy, who knows what is doing relationship wise! Her pant will definitely be shifted.

He has succeeded in breaking ur defence.

Another Hoe Laments

Happy989:


I still love my boyfriend.

i never want to comment but when i saw this, i just had to. You are very stupid, you love him and you are still having feelings for another guy, dont you know the meaning of been inlove, when u do, other guys that ask u out will irritates u....

You probably lusting after the guy, everything may simply b a mirage so be careful. Do not lose a gem while chasing mere shiny stone.

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.


I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

Hmm there's a funny thing about vibes or as a friend would call it 'mojo'(mind you, I ain't talking about porn)that shit tends to confuse people a lot.
You see eh vibe is like a temporary feelings or the early stages or foundation of any relationship, am sure you had that with your current boyfriend when you guys first met and all.


To me I don't think it's reasonable keeping those kinda people, affairs or even having those kinda mojo when in a relationship,see eh people that cheats just don't wake up one morning and cheat on their partner, there is always the building steps you take that leads to cheating.
Most important conversation in a relationship is the key to a success relationship, have you ever told your boyfriend about this ? Am guessing no! Because if you do and he talks to you am sure you might cut this thing you think is going on with you and this guy.
Those personal shits you talk to this guy about have you try talking to your boyfriend bout it, trying to get him to open up, learning stuffs from one another, challenging yourselves in the relationship, do crazy shit that leave a mark or memory in you heart.
That way you can date your guy for years without getting tired or even looking outside


Trust me if you can leave this your current boyfriend cause of a mixed feeling, you'd definitely leave that guy due time when you find another guy that's giving you sweet mojo, you'd also leave that guy or perhaps advance to cheating where you get bleeped by another while in a relationship or probably keep multiple boyfriends.


You've three options here :
1.either you talk to your boyfriend bout it and cut the other guy off if you truly love your boyfriend
2.end things with you boyfriend and follow a guy who you think you' we fallen for and perhaps time would tell it you made the right decision cause for every action there's always a consequence or
3. Date both and if caught you might end up losing both or getting to choose who to keep, gonna be your lose if both guys are good.
But before you take any decision still ask yourself this simple question, what if he just wanna bleep and go and you end up losing everything? Sha don't turn to all those frustrated female that has been exploited and be saying shits like "all guys are the same"
It was always a choice they made and perhaps they always kept taking the wrong decisions.


This is where I hang my boots now

Dobson43:






I would give you a mature advice since that's what you want. Your present boyfriend is just your boyfriend. He is not betrothed to you neither has he paid your dowry. Don't limit yourself at this stage of your life. Experiment, try new things, discover yourself. If you feel the urge to move on, do move on. You clearly have a thing for this guy and one can conclude that all you need is a push.



Based on your level in the university, one can determine your age. Some callous folks would call this stage you find yourself a whøre phase, but the true is we all have this identity crisis. We do not actually know ourselves. Certain people we see typify those characters we do have but can't express. They inspire this qualities in us to be birthed.




I don't want to go too philosophical, but I am going to tell you this: twenty years from now, you would wish you were more adventurous, you would wish you tried new things and you would understand that life is worth living and you would not allow yourself wallow in bondage because you are in relationship. Ships are supposed to move you in a certain desired direction. Either it moves you or you jump ship.




But the real truth is, you have broken his heart and emotionally screwed him over. Have the decency to break it up

remember some some level of adventure comes with a great deal of sacrifice, nothing goes for nothing, u may not know whether its her peace or integrity that could be sacrificed for the adventure. OP, better stay where u are if u are happy and tame your lustfulness. The new guy is just smart, u may end up being used.

You don't need any advice. You won't be the first and last cheat! Enjoy while it lasts!

It ll surely end in tears

lalanice:
You say you don't want to break his heart, but you already have, he just hasn't discovered it yet . how do you think your boyfriend will feel if he finds out about you and this other guy? (that's if he ever really cared about you)

I'll say don't stay out of pity, be with who your heart chooses because he might not choose you if he finds someone better, BUT ......"the devil you know"

I'll always tell people, anybody is perfect from a distance.

Imagine how head over heels you were when you first met your boyfriend
My Opinion- if your current boyfriend is not verbally, physically or mentally abusive then stay with him, if you leave him for these(yeye) reasons you just listed, chances are you will always be jumping around. Nobody is perfect.

Wish i could like this comment a thousand times

Op, if you feel you love the new dude end things with him.
You’re already cheating on your bf emotionally. Guys will always come and use sweet words around you as a lady.

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

100% LUST! It will end in tears, trust me as you'd remember this post.

Secondly, how's it that you guys fornicate without conscience these days? The Fear of God is very vital, don't be FOOLISH!

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.
I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

At the bolded, you are already doing it ..and I'm also waiting for your premium tears after your boyfriend dump you when he discovered you are cheating on him....continue ok.

Imagine. Chai!!!! Never expect too much from human beings except God

Happy989:


I still love my boyfriend.

Spiff20:
All these people saying it will end in tears, must every adventure end in tears? babe see this, if you truly loved the first guy you won't fall for the second. Now if you leave the first guy for the second, chances are that you'll still leave him for the third guy and the fourth and the fifth. So keeping moving till you find your last bus stop. This doesn't have to end in tears.

wayre rre o

BlueAir:
Imagine. Chai!!!! Never expect too much from human beings except God

That's just it....don't ever

obviously the guy's a real cassanova. I have a friend like that ,that charms and tames these bittches and I would look at then in smh as they gloat and form , trying to look important and occupied in front of me not knowing they are just a fish in my guy's ocean of fishes Omo no pity for losers in this game o

Uniquekriss:
remember some some level of adventure comes with a great deal of sacrifice, nothing goes for nothing, u may not know whether its her peace or integrity that could be sacrificed for the adventure. OP, better stay where u are if u are happy and tame your lustfulness. The new guy is just smart, u may end up being used.

This thread surprise me o most of the ladies talk well am baffled honestly


Op it will end in premium tears

SpicyMimi:

100% LUST! It will end in tears, trust me as you'd remember this post.

Secondly, how's it that you guys fornicate without conscience these days? The Fear of God is very vital, don't be FOOLISH!

Well, don't blame her. She's still in her hoe stage, tears goes with the territory.

The fornication part really got me on the floor rolling with laughter. I work in a university, sex na handshake these days.

victorian:
Op wants to explore her sexual fantasies.

It's OK. It's not a crime but remember to breakup with your bf, before going on sexual spree with this new guy.

It's bound to happen anyways. If you don't cut yourself loose and explore now but explore with sense and protection, so u don't recieve any deadly disease or unwanted pregnancy.

But please breakup from your bf, let him date someone meant for him.

Let the sexual fetishes and exploration begins.

By the time u get to 45years, your raging hormones should be calm by then and ready to have a stable lovelife and possibly marriage.

Youth and sex! Na wa!

This is the best reply I have read from this post. Original poster please I beg you in the name of Jesus to break up with your current guy because he doesn't deserve you. You can go on and start your relationship with your new guy, because that is where your heart is. If a heart of a Man or woman is in a relationship he or she would do their best to see the relationship work.

CzarChris:
Well, don't blame her. She's still in her hoe stage, tears goes with the territory.

The fornication part really got me on the floor rolling with laughter. I work in a university, sex na handshake these days.

It's shocking really! I don't understand how people just get laid easily like it's nothing. The way I avoided sex years back, you'd think sex has some kind of plaques attached to it.

Dobson43:






I would give you a mature advice since that's what you want. Your present boyfriend is just your boyfriend. He is not betrothed to you neither has he paid your dowry. Don't limit yourself at this stage of your life. Experiment, try new things, discover yourself. If you feel the urge to move on, do move on. You clearly have a thing for this guy and one can conclude that all you need is a push.



Based on your level in the university, one can determine your age. Some callous folks would call this stage you find yourself a whøre phase, but the true is we all have this identity crisis. We do not actually know ourselves. Certain people we see typify those characters we do have but can't express. They inspire this qualities in us to be birthed.




I don't want to go too philosophical, but I am going to tell you this: twenty years from now, you would wish you were more adventurous, you would wish you tried new things and you would understand that life is worth living and you would not allow yourself wallow in bondage because you are in relationship. Ships are supposed to move you in a certain desired direction. Either it moves you or you jump ship.




But the real truth is, you have broken his heart and emotionally screwed him over. Have the decency to break it up

kikikiki, this wan just dey discover him hoeing talent. Love your boyfriend? Which kain love. Love kee you dia. Go ahead and be the hoe that you are. When you are done sleeping with all your coursemates and lecturers, may be you will retire or enta next level whoring

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

Ure doing well.

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

carry your so called love to the other guy and break up with your current guy for your peace of heart. You mentioned how this guy is taking good care of you, but you never mentioned any sacrifice you are putting in to the relationship. It is obvious it is more of a one sided relationship. I can tell you with authority that if you are inputing 30-40% of the sacrifice required to keep the relationship going you would not even develop any feeling for any guy because you know the value of what you have.

SpicyMimi:

It's shocking really! I don't understand how people just get laid easily like it's nothing. The way I avoided sex years back, you'd think sex has some kind of plaques attached to it.

Same experience here, I delved a little bit into spiritism as a curious young man years back and that shaped my idea of sex. It's truly a plague if used wrongly.
I'm very friendly to my students, so they tell me things, infact it's a miracle my ears never block on its own. No shame or fear anymore, imagine one of my students once sent me her nudes (no jokes) I didn't request for it o. They find me weird, because I'm very friendly and approachable, but strict and principled.

Happy989:


I still love my boyfriend.

What you have for the new guy is called infatuation. It will clear after a night of sex. The problem is you will live with regrets.

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

It's left for you to know if you can keep both or one

And if you are keeping one, make sure you make the right choice so that you don't look for another

CzarChris:
Same experience here, I delved a little bit into spiritism as a curious young man year back and that shaped my idea of sex. It's truly a plague if used wrongly.
I'm very friendly to my students, so they tell me things, in fact, it's a miracle my ears never block on its own. No shame or fear anymore, imagine one of my students once sent me her nudes (no jokes) I didn't request for it o. They find me weird because I'm very friendly and approachable, but strict and principled.

Too sad, it's sad unfortunately it might worsen with time.

Cock n bull story!