Ladies, How true is it that you guys really don't like too "pressure" from a guy. Pressure in the sense that, the guy is trying very hard to convince you about his feelings for you. Is it true that such pressure "piss" you ladies off ? If that's true, then why?

Please, am not being silly. Am just trying to finish up my research.

Well, whether is pisses them off or not, I don't know. What I do know is that is works. Only that I personally don't have the patience for that pressure game.

Well, whether is pisses them off or not, I don't know. What I do know is that is works. Only that I personally don't have the patience for that pressure game.

And where're da ladies when u need 'em?

i don't support the idea, that pressure works. depends on the lady involve. from my own point of view, pressure pisses me off. i tend to see the person as a pest or bug. and instead of getting what you want. it makes me dislike you the more.

Hi ThoniaSlim. How about if the guy is just applying some pressure so that you get to feel him and believe all he's been saying to you?

there are so guys that are just certified pests and bugs and its such guys that put me off.to me a no is a no, if i don't like you or am not interested, i tell you a no to you face, no beating about the bush. quit wasting your time and just accept the no. cause if the guy has got the mentality that if he keeps pressuring it would get me to accept him, it kind of does not work with me. the more your determine, the more i also get determined.

So She dont like me but only pretending?

They have come again!!!

@ niceuzor. Please what are you talking about? Am begining to suspect you

@bebe2007. Wassup pal? Where have you been? Kind of miss you small sha. Anyhow, what's your view on this topic?

@Silly, "You miss me small sha" Not to worry when you miss me big i will comment.

How u dey?

@sillyboy  

wetin i come do u this time na i dey yarn on my own u dey voice

abeg no let ground shake 4 me and u oh.

@bebe2007

who if i may ask?

niceuzor:

@sillyboy

wetin i come do u this time na i dey yarn on my own u dey voice

abeg no let ground shake 4 me and u oh.

@bebe2007

who if i may ask?

The "Who" know himself , silly!

Who?

ajayi1:

Who?

which one be your own? your name na "WHO" i say d "Who" know himself o! e get eye so e go see am.

Bebe2007 & Co, una dey on ur own.

Bebe2007. no mind them "gbeboruns".  The who knows himself jare. You've not really answered the post. Please do.

i thot pressure was the approved way of toasting.hnmmm.sillyboy.this kain research i don dey suspect u oo.abi it's still part of being a koko master.

Pressure pressure pressure, if you don't pressure a lady

she will think you are not serious. Am right? guess I am.

Even if I am wrong nko?

pressure pisses me off.i don't like stress at all

@ hazel eyed

na wa 4 ur laser eye ooo. Ijust dey do research  

lol ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d

@silly, tell me which babe is trying to make u 'serious' enuff that u come here and ask dis kind of question!!

to answer u

It depends on the girl, whilst some girls enjoy it and love playing hard to get and the man chasing them etc,

Others are straight up and will tell u upfront from day 1 how they feel about u, and they dont expect u to do anything of the sort. Any attempt at this, migth very well p*ss them off

@ Luxoire.
Pal, believe me you be witch (joking). There's this babe I've been running her programme for almost a year now, but wouldn't just compromise her stands. The annoying thing is that we do "stuffs" together (if you know what I mean?) but still wouldn't "jell". If you ask me, I know she cares so much about me(perhaps love),and I care for her too but not love her(don't really believe in that). We are so close that she comes to my office everyday after closing from her office too. she calls everyday and night. I guess her problem is just that she knew me as a naughty boy while we were in the University (we went to tha same university), but am a changed person now (se bi you know?). In addition, we work in the same sector (guess she must have been hearing stories too).

Walahi, that chick fit make me marry earlier than I planned o. I just love her sturborness.

@ All. I beg you no shook mouth oo. Na Luxoire I dey follow yan oo

@Silly

hahaha , i knew it!!! [dancing around!!]

heeeyyyyy, it shall be permanent!!!, @silly is in luuvvvvv, [ok as u dont belive in love, SILLY LIKES A GIRL]

ok, i think u need to let her realise that u are a 'changed' person, i don't know how true that is, but if u are, then she doesnt need convincing, with time, she'll relaise the changes herself.
My bet is, u need to find out exactly HOW, WHAT she feels for u first, and then let time decide. She doesnt seem like the kind of person u can rush into anything
So tell her how u feel, and if she feels same, aint nothing worse than assuming, that the fact that she LOVES u, is same as that she is IN LOVE with you.
Talk to her, express urself [im sure u can do that], and sit back and watch her make her mind up. If she enjoys ur company that much, then its only a matter of time b4 she gives in, if not, she'll maintain the friendship at a distance, or cut off once she knows how u feel

GOOD LUCK hun

Yup. Its really annoying when you are try to make a guy know you aren't interested and he keeps trying. Once we dont click, we dont click.

@ Luxoire.

Why are you dancing now? . Believe me, I am 98% sure of what she feels for me. She wants me badly (am not "feeling", but she's scared. If you ask me, I think she's got every reason to be scared. I could be non-chalant about somethings. I don't think I love her(but I definately care about her), I am just "tripped" about her sturborness and intelligence. I just want her to open up the feelings she's bottling up inside her to me. I want her to just admit the fact that she's in love.

Please don't dance this time around

@Silly
ohh so ur one of those, 'I LIKE & RESPECT U, COS U WONT ALLOW ME THE PLEASURE OF HAVING YOU' kinda guy huh?, i was dancing cos i thought u genuinely felt something deeper, bgut boy was i wrong, [im just gonna have to continue keeping u in prayers sha]

if that is what is making u attracted to her, then i hope she doesnt give u the pleasure of opening up to u, she sounds like my kinda gurl, cos if i sussed u out the same, i sure as heck wouldnt let u know either, lol, ljust a kind of stubborn pride i guess, nothing to lose [cos its not like u want her like that, so badly] and all her pride and respect to gain [atleast in ur eyes as a good friend]

@ Luxoire.

You know what, I respect her so much, and the respect has been there since University days. And it's not that I don't care for her, I really do. I get to drive some miles from my office to take her home from work a times. She's the only woman I've ever cooked for. Whenever I know she'll be around me, I make sure none of my "salala" girls dissappear.

It's just that I really can't believe in love. And am of the opinion that she should just come out. Believe me ,we run things and we are very close and intimate. She should just admit. (she always say am unpredictable). I could change for real if she will just open up

@silly
hahahahahahhahaha, baby ur hooked, u dont believe in olove, OK, but u believe in her, she's scared u'll hurt her, and if u know theres a chnace in hell u'll destry something as beautiful as what u both share now, then leave things be, and leave her alone, if not, then encourage her to believ and trust in u and open up to u