So in a marriage, would you feel it's ok for your spouse to be best friends or close friends with someone of the opposite gender. Close personal friend NOT mutual friends with the both of you but their own friend whom they are in CONSTANT and DAILY talking and texting (late night texting included) and occasionally hanging out when their schedules permit? Would this be ok with you if it were you with a spouse who has this kind friendship/relationship or could this potentially lead to problems in the marriage?

Nope.
Any friend of hers becomes a friend to the family. Vice versa.
As with anything else, there are also limits. Constant late night txt msgs and the likes will hv to stop. Emergencies and very important issues are ok at that time. Everything else can wait till the morning.
Moreover the guy should try concentrating on his relationships and stop disturbing me with his constant interference.

Even without being married, I introduce my friends to my gf.

soserious:

So in a marriage, would you feel it's ok for your spouse to be best friends or close friends with someone of the opposite gender. Close personal friend NOT mutual friends with the both of you but their own friend whom they are in CONSTANT and DAILY talking and texting (late night texting included) and occasionally hanging out when their schedules permit? Would this be ok with you if it were you with a spouse who has this kind friendship/relationship or could this potentially lead to problems in the marriage?

Hmm

My boyfriend ALREADY had female friends before we met and vice versa. So no, it doesn't bother me AT ALL. The 'friendship' has been established. I've gotten to know them and I really love them but they remain my man's friends. BUT if my man decides to have new female friends, it'll definitely bother me . . .

Late night texting to a person of opposite gender in a marriage is a definite no-no and I don't care how close or how long they've been friends. Unless its an emergency calling or texting a married person after hours is disrespectful.

What does he want to say that can't wait till morning? Abeg go sleep jor!

It is not advisable. Your best friend should be your spouse the others should have their limits. Cos it through friends and family that the devil creep in marriages. One should be careful bout who to draw close to and how.

I certainly wont tolerate that nonsense even if he is a christian brother. Temptations are best avoided. An erect dyck cant be bothered about a marriage that took place

Pennywise:

An erect dyck cant be bothered about a marriage that took place

I love this. . . So true

You base it on d female aspect alone. So are you people saying its ok for guys to have best friends but not for ladies to? A wet pussy doesn't care bout a vow either.

African_queen:

You base it on d female aspect alone. So are you people saying its ok for guys to have best friends but not for ladies to? [size=13pt]A wet kitty doesn't care bout a vow either.[/size]

Hmm, I quite like that. . .

African_queen:

You base it on d female aspect alone. So are you people saying its ok for guys to have best friends but not for ladies to? A wet kitty doesn't care bout a vow either.

I notice this too from the guys, maybe double standard?

As long as the best friend is homosexual, no problem

African_queen:

It is not advisable. Your best friend should be your spouse the others should have their limits. Cos it through friends and family that the devil creep in marriages. One should be careful bout who to draw close to and how.

I like this, it is very true