isale_gan2:

If you can't find it, ya don't deserve to be there.  And please, for the love of Mike, don't blow me kisses.  We talked about that.

Hello.  How are you?  I hope I'm not on your s#*& list.   I don't understand the bolded.  Yes, I do agree that children can turn out good or bad regardless of the country they're in.  I like to think the way I would raise mine they'd turn out the way I "planned."  I know, life doesn't work usually work out the way we planned. 

dayokanu:

^^The bolded just stress the fact that most of them have never travelled outside the country before.

How are you dearie?

isale_gan2:

Oh, OK. I'm well. I have a hideout; you can come in but don't start anything.

Look in Foreign Affairs.

buzugee:

capo de tutti capi

dayokanu:

Is Fstranger there with you?
  Who sabi you?

isale_gan2:

We've derailed this enough. Will see you there.

You guys have derailed it big time!

dayokanu:

^^The bolded just stress the fact that most of them have never travelled outside the country before.

How are you dearie?

isale_gan2:

We've derailed this enough. Will see you there.

Freewilly:

Excuse my English, you don't train a child. You train a dog, cat, animals not a child, A child you raise not train

have you ever even been to america ? yale and harvard are places for sale. if you are rich or famous you will get in. the slot allocated to meritocracy is probably like 30 percent of the whole student body. the rest is fame and money. why do you think all these actors after their career go there to buy a spot to do a course ?

Freewilly:

Excuse my English, you don't train a child. You train a dog, cat, animals not a child, A child you raise not train

delux$:

@2good, which kian tax u dey pay for Naija

NaijaNile:

Very Interesting Post,

If i was asked to choose where to raise my child between the US and Nigeria, I would definitely choose Nigeria, As the parent of the child I am far more comfortable with the values here in Nigeria and also take comfort that there are more people around here who can also contribute to upbringing of the child.

I am far more comfortable with church here also, therefore I would raise my child here until I am sure he/she has imbibed the values I want instilled in them or are of age, afterwards they can go whereever they want. {Train up a child in the way he should go and when he grows up he will not depart from it}.

I cant imagine my son telling me its alright to "perm" his hair, or my daughter telling me its alright to wear micro-mini skirts, or for them to tell me at age 16yrs that its alright for them to stay out till 10p.m, or as someone told me recently to understand if someone says they are gay or lesbian, pray how can i understand that

America? A place where your child calls the police on you if you try to discipline them? NO WAY,

jujube:

When you talk about traiining your child, it could be in terms of education or moral trainng. Well as far as Nigeria is concerned, if a child want to have a future he has to be trained abroad.

buzugee:

ok first off misbehavior is more prevalent in the west than in nigeria. we have serial rapists, football hooligans, serial killers, touts, and all kinds of crazy crimes that infest every other community in europe. any crime in africa is strictly economic.

foluski:

I would never prefer to raise my children in any place other than in Nigeria.Consider the restrictions placed on how you can correct and reprove a child.I am not saying "corrective exercise" on a child is the best way of disciplining one's ward,but once a child knows that "ain't nothing you gon do',then you have given a him/her a carte blanche for deviant and wayward behaviour.

manny4life:

I don't know what world you living in, but there many "corrective excercise" a parent can use to train a child. Maybe you are talking about abusing a child where u continiously beating the child, that is called abuse and that type of abuse hasn't proven to be an effective form of discipline.

tensor777:

Maybe it starts from advice to warnings to corporal punishment to spanking to flogging to lacerations with electric cables to stabbing with broken bottles and scalding with boiling water.