No long Talk here I need strong advice We’ve been friends on Facebook for over two years I never asked her for a dime you wouldn’t know she was a man before surgery we do video calls I see boobs and pussy with beautiful face sexy body till she broke the most scary news to me

I took off stopped texting or calling her for a year now she came back last month with the communication told me she likes me(God forbid me that hates the word gay) offered to make all the necessary paperwork’s and send money to me to take care of my own parts here like passports and all the rest she even connected me to a Ghanaian man who married one of her nurse friend so the guy Dey always instruct me here too

She’s 34. Black American, tall and a Registered Nurse she Bought her own house lives alone in Atlanta promised to get me a job ASAP

But I can’t even swallow the thoughts of marrying or making love to a transgender I might throw up on just a mere thought but she’s serious and u know how this country hard reach

She wants to send money down here on Monday but I need the money but don’t want to go, what do I do now on the other hand I wouldn’t want to be tagged a scammer or played her for her money

I would have given it a chance if I had a brother or married with kids but I can’t right now

Guys what do I do Monday it’s almost here please advice

hunmmmm

Tell her you need the money but don't want to go.

yomi007k:
Tell her you need the money but don't want to go.

Na like this HushPuppi first start.

Don't collect his/her/shis (I no even know which pronoun I go use) money if you don't want to go. If you do, there's no difference between you and those hush guys.

Politely decline and leave the person(again lack of pronoun to use ) alone. Good luck

Is it not just to go ?
Go there and explain everything to her.

Young man, i know ur mind is made already...All u want to do is just collect the money, then block her on FB afterwards..But i hope ur news wont come on Nairaland front page "Nigerian man wanted by FBI for online dating scam"


Or maybe naso God wan take pick ur call, What do i know

tell the nurse what you have intended. if you are confused, sit down and count your "cost".
no need to scam the nurse. if you can't go on the premise on having intimacy, kindly and sincerely back out and save your face and name.
whatever help that could be rendered will not elude you. there is a price to honesty and dishonesty. but the rewards are...
you know the rest.

yomi007k:
Tell her you need the money but don't want to go.

Simple!

Tell Him-Her that you would appreciate if the money could be sent for the sole purpose of helping your financial status, not traveling to meet up, that you would forever be grateful.

You may also tell Him-Her that you would likely be on the lookout for the love of his/her life here in Nigeria, but not you.

African Americans have began to look to Africa to find significant others just like I said in one of my posts.

OP, it all depends on what you want. She/he didn't ask you for marriage so what's your point? Why are you afraid of her/him? This person is ready to give you money, bring you over, and get you a job so what's the problem?

You didn't ask for anything and she is offering you the world. Biko seize the opportunity. Opportunity comes but once.

@OP- you said you had seen boobs and pussy. Biko how you take see the pussy?

JOACHINpedro:
Is it not just to go ?
Go there and explain everything to her.

Abi o. See me see trouble

ennon92:
Young man, i know ur mind is made already...All u want to do is just collect the money, then block her on FB afterwards..But i hope ur news wont come on Nairaland front page "Nigerian man wanted by FBI for online dating scam"


Or maybe naso God wan take pick ur call, What do i know

It's not a scam. He should collect and process and go over there. The op lacks sense of survival.

taylor88:
No long Talk here I need strong advice We’ve been friends on Facebook for over two years I never asked her for a dime you wouldn’t know she was a man before surgery we do video calls I see boobs and pussy with beautiful face sexy body till she broke the most scary news to me

I took off stopped texting or calling her for a year now she came back last month with the communication told me she likes me(God forbid me that hates the word gay) offered to make all the necessary paperwork’s and send money to me to take care of my own parts here like passports and all the rest she even connected me to a Ghanaian man who married one of her nurse friend so the guy Dey always instruct me here too

She’s 34. Black American, tall and a Registered Nurse she Bought her own house lives alone in Atlanta promised to get me a job ASAP

But I can’t even swallow the thoughts of marrying or making love to a transgender I might throw up on just a mere thought but she’s serious and u know how this country hard reach

She wants to send money down here on Monday but I need the money but don’t want to go, what do I do now on the other hand I wouldn’t want to be tagged a scammer or played her for her money

I would have given it a chance if I had a brother or married with kids but I can’t right now

Guys what do I do Monday it’s almost here please advice

Many guys here not happy you found jander that wanna carry you financially oo, better use your sense. Go jand and manage. She might tell u that just to test u.

Obodo-Oyinbo on a platter of gold, pesin wey get head no get cap.. Took me years of formats and sleepless nights and multiple late night bombings to fly to odinary Cyprus...but we thank God sha.. Na him you come see dey search internet for answers.. Oga Dog for yankee ehn, e get hope pass pesin wey dey naija dey collect 400k monthly

He’s/She’s not gay, she/he is a transgender. Just first go while making sure you don’t make any promises. Oyinbo pipo no dey like pipo wen dey lie. God’s blessings most times don’t come in ways you anticipate, stop looking a gift horse in d mouth. If u like dey here dey do "ask a friend", 40 go catch u and u fit neva achieve anything or police fit see u were u dey carry that ur lappy go fix shoot u as yahoo boi!

Ode! Hypocrite! You've been Sexting And Video Chatting dirty Stuffs. So you are Disgusted cos you don't want to Sin "Differently"
O Gọ́ra e, you don Gock yourself. If you don't want her pass her to me.

olisaEze:
God’s blessings most times don’t come in ways you anticipate,

SO This could be "God's Blessing"?

sacajawea:

SO This could be "God's Blessing"?

Same way a prostitute helped a nation by hiding their spies. Abi u neva read d story of Rahab in bible?

taylor88:
No long Talk here I need strong advice We’ve been friends on Facebook for over two years I never asked her for a dime you wouldn’t know she was a man before surgery we do video calls I see boobs and pussy with beautiful face sexy body till she broke the most scary news to me

I took off stopped texting or calling her for a year now she came back last month with the communication told me she likes me(God forbid me that hates the word gay) offered to make all the necessary paperwork’s and send money to me to take care of my own parts here like passports and all the rest she even connected me to a Ghanaian man who married one of her nurse friend so the guy Dey always instruct me here too

She’s 34. Black American, tall and a Registered Nurse she Bought her own house lives alone in Atlanta promised to get me a job ASAP

But I can’t even swallow the thoughts of marrying or making love to a transgender I might throw up on just a mere thought but she’s serious and u know how this country hard reach

She wants to send money down here on Monday but I need the money but don’t want to go, what do I do now on the other hand I wouldn’t want to be tagged a scammer or played her for her money

I would have given it a chance if I had a brother or married with kids but I can’t right now

Guys what do I do Monday it’s almost here please advice

please ehn give me her Facebook ID I love transgenders (they're human beings after all)..

decatalyst:


Simple!

Tell Him-Her that you would appreciate if the money could be sent for the sole purpose of helping your financial status, not traveling to meet up, that you would forever be grateful.

You may also tell Him-Her that you would likely be on the lookout for the love of his/her life here in Nigeria, but not you.

My brother, na few people wise for this world.

The way to hell has been removed from your transgender oyinbo already,just travel straight to paradise

olisaEze:
He’s/She’s not gay, she/he is a transgender. Just first go while making sure you don’t make any promises. Oyinbo pipo no dey like pipo wen dey lie. God’s blessings most times don’t come in ways you anticipate, stop looking a gift horse in d mouth. If u like dey here dey do "ask a friend", 40 go catch u and u fit neva achieve anything or police fit see u were u dey carry that ur lappy go fix shoot u as yahoo boi!

She's black not white, and for your future information, whites are the biggest liars on this planet.

HomerTimpson:
The way to hell has been removed from your transgender oyinbo already,just travel straight to paradise

Do you guys even read, he said the transgender is black. Why must you guys assume everyone in the US is white?

Some Nigerian men can sell their soul all because of america.

Many Nigerian men especially the ones nowadays are weak, easily enticed, no principle, anywhere belly face.

Gosh! We, women don suffer.

See how this one want to turn gay because of america, I am sure, you must have show the trans your dick for that trans to want to take you over.

what a pity.

Terryishere:


Do you guys even read, he said the transgender is black. Why must you guys assume everyone in the US is white?

LOL its fine

Your anus won't be confused when she unveils her staff

of all ppl on the internet na transgender u dey friend
anyway acept her invitation and as soon as u land then dump the she male

you can A) refuse the money and block that dude from ever contacting you, or B) go to the US and start fukcing another man's nyansh!
the choice is yours!

the fact that you even continue talking to that dude, shows clearly that you will soon be in Atlanta...

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MrBrownJay1:
you can A) refuse the money and block that dude from ever contacting you, or B) go to the US and start fukcing another man's nyansh!
the choice is yours!

the fact that you even continue talking to that dude, shows clearly that you will soon be in Atlanta...

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exactly...i am sure he get oiler bottle for hin bag for unrestricted entry

taylor88:
No long Talk here I need strong advice We’ve been friends on Facebook for over two years I never asked[b] her[/b] for a dime you wouldn’t know she was a man before surgery we do video calls I see boobs and[b] pussy[/b] with beautiful face sexy body till she broke the most scary news to me

I took off stopped texting or calling her for a year now she came back last month with the communication told me she likes me(God forbid me that hates the word gay) offered to make all the necessary paperwork’s and send money to me to take care of my own parts here like passports and all the rest she even connected me to a Ghanaian man who married one of her nurse friend so the guy Dey always instruct me here too

She’s 34. Black American, tall and a Registered Nurse she Bought her own house lives alone in Atlanta promised to get me a job ASAP

But I can’t even swallow the thoughts of marrying or making love to a transgender I might throw up on just a mere thought but she’s serious and u know how this country hard reach

She wants to send money down here on Monday but I need the money but don’t want to go, what do I do now on the other hand I wouldn’t want to be tagged a scammer or played her for her money

I would have given it a chance if I had a brother or married with kids but I can’t right now

Guys what do I do Monday it’s almost here please advice

there is no her...or she...or pvssy...that is a man with a pipe. and you wanna start straffing a shit hole

ibkonekt:
exactly...i am sure he get oiler bottle for hin bag for unrestricted entry

any straight man would have blocked the tranny, the minute they discover it was a man he was lusting over (and sending all these lovey dovey messages to)...

btw its well known that Atlanta is the black gay capital of the US, coupled with #1 capital of black men on the down low capital in the US... and i wont even mention the STD/HIV rate in that place. dating in Atlanta is more like playing Russian roulette with your own life.