Guys have their own hub for calculating ways to confuse someone's daughter, I decided that we females need our own dating drill!

Let's go there

nairaland 3 world war thread initiated,An army of red pills guys will soon descend on this thread,let me go and go and grab my pop corn and watch the drama that will soon unravel here

Make i book space lol

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Even your fellow females are not commenting because they know in the end you will still write crap.

Can't wait to see the crap

OP them go come you e sure me die

Be more creative than this.. tbh they won't answer u

Good day everyone, don't you just love the weather?

Despite the many threats from self acclaimed 'redpillers' or 'alpha' males, I will write my thoughts. Now, it is your choice to read or not, isn't that great?

For clarification, I do not oppose the "guys' dating drills," why should I? It's good to see guys taking good care of their dating ethics, I really don't care if it's toxic or not, that's your business.

Now to business. Guys have been studying, getting very inclined with psychology. Gone are the days which guys just 'dated', now they are getting calculative, uh oh.

Females are wonderful, empathetic and loyal people, might be even too trusting if you ask me. Most females work on the *Hard to get* playground.

absolute rubbish!!

Lol Do you want to come together to devise new ways to be entitled and collect money from your Simpin boyfriends. Nothing reasonable can come out of this thread

The problem with playing hard to get
Now, don't get me wrong, playing hard to get might be essential in certain cases. But, this is the 21st century, you've to use this very sparely.

Situations You Can Use Them
*When He Doesn't Like Commitments:
"I have had issues with ladies in the past, not ready for commitment, can we just be eating each other's work?" If this sounds familiar, babe don't even sweat it. If a guy can't commit, well, play hard to get!
In this game of hard to get, play with him, bring him close, when he is starting to enjoy your company, distance yourself!

You are an ore, so precious, you can't be tossed aside like someone casual. Once you go through with the get close - distance phase, he makes a choice. The choice is, whether he is willing to stay or not, that means committing.

You can also go with the flow if you are not looking for commitments too, you are a king, you are allowed to make your choices!

When he is egoistic!

Most guys are egoistic, but some more than others. Usually, you are told to stroke his ego to get what you want, here I say, deflect it!

Nothing hurts an alpha male than 'not being man enough' lol. When a female plays hard to get with an egoistic man, he can go extra miles to get her heart, just to feel 'man enough'.

During this phase, show you are genuinely interested, laugh at his jokes, stroke it enough to make deflecting hurt. After he thinks you are all over him, refuse him a bit, don't pick his calls sometimes.

You will leave him calculating quicker than my grandma's thermometer. You will leave him wanting more of you. He is not doing you a favour for asking you out, neither are you doing him a favour.

Warning
Be sure he isn't a psychopath, so he doesn't hurt you(physically)

He isn't obliged to handle your finances!

It is utterly disgusting to see Kings wait on a man to handle your finances. I am not a bitter feminist, neither do I have daddy issues, but I think an adult should be able to handle her finances.

This post isn't to get 'gifts or money' from men, and to those who think so, how much you get sef?

This post is to help women handle their entitlement and their entitled men.

Learn a trade, go to school, start a business or educate yourself, you have so much potential! It hurts me when people turn being 'girlfriends' to full-time jobs.

This reason is why some men don't respect us, this is why some men's ego keeps getting bigger. As much as I dislike an egoistic man, I do think women should equip themselves with essential skills to remove dependency on men.

We all have financial crisis, I am not saying you can't help each other, but it shouldn't be a 'birthright'.

He is no right to your body!
"I am your boyfriend, we have to have sex" boyfriend kee you dia!

No one has rights to your body except your husband. If you are not married, you are single baby. I see young girls enslave themselves into this mentality 'he is my boyfriend, I have to give him sex'.

I wish ladies will work on their self-esteem, if you don't want to have sex with him, don't!
If he is threaten to leave you because of that, let him!
It's only a child that thinks he has rights to your body.
If you want to have sex with him, do so! You aren't cheap or hungry for having sex with him, it is your choice, you are a f**king king, own it!

Learn to say a Capital 'NO'
This is still on the self esteem issue, learn to say NO. If he is touching you and you aren't comfortable, say NO.

He made plans for a date, you aren't interested, say NO! People will even respect you more when you can make your own choices.

Not only in your relationships, even in your workplace, family or friendship. If you can't do something, say you can't.

Having a good self-esteem is different from being rude, if you must say no, say it in a polite way.

Add your tips!

In all learn to always respect yourself and remember in life 1+1 may not be 2.
Meaning wisdom is neccessary in relationships not rules.
Follow your instincts ok!!!

Girls Dont Need Dating Drills, all They Need Is Common Sense, Ability To Respect A Relationship, commitment And ability To Be Contented

I'm disappointed in this.

Lordfranklin:
I'm disappointed in this.

Do better.

Bisiebae:
Guys have their own hub for calculating ways to confuse someone's daughter, I decided that we females need our own dating drill!

Lemme date u

We are watching you from the high towers




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