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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Happyguy201: 12:52am On Oct 05, 2020 |
fake story , |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Ovo04(m): 12:57am On Oct 05, 2020 |
tripplephi: You mean church COUNSELING? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by princehaxky(m): 1:04am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Man Like These Still Exist......... |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by MRcipher(m): 1:08am On Oct 05, 2020 |
When he get really drunk, conive with the mortuary take him there, when he wakes up with hangover tell him he got so drunk and died..its a miracle God gave himself second chance....afterwards na him go advice himself 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by guru90: 1:08am On Oct 05, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: You are a real Demon....... You are one of them thinking that God does not exist. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by larryking540: 1:19am On Oct 05, 2020 |
IamD18: I swear ,I think I will have to curb out some important notes from this your write up as my status 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by WoundedLamb: 1:27am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Righteousness89: I don't get, what is the practical advice here? As beautiful as prayer is, I think she needs something practical to complete the faith and work equation. And the idea that she's got to renew herself when the issue here isn't her but the husband is really unsettling. When shall we stop reconfiguring women to solve men's issues? A man cheats, the woman is asked to cook well. A man rapes, the woman is asked to dress well. Now, a man is an alky and the woman is being asked renew herself. We need to start taking responsibility for our actions, pastor. Just saying. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by noblebaba: 1:28am On Oct 05, 2020 |
hmm, I was once in this situation but not to the extent of bed-wetting, my sister you're the only one that can change him, mine started when the company I was working with folded up and couldn't get another job because of my age, though not too old but Nigeria company hardly employ above 40yrs i was so frustrated and became a drunkard and my wife did not help matters the more she's hostile the more I drink I was so depressed the more she reports me to my family the more I drink and what I always tell people is that she's the only one that can make me change, if you talk to him and show him love I bet you he not only change you will know why he behaves like that, men will like to be respected pray over it and God will take control, today I hardly go out talkless of drinking my health is sound now compared to then let him know the implications on his health, I changed because my wife shows love and i don't want to hurt her. nothing is impossible for God. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by dasparrow: 1:31am On Oct 05, 2020 |
IamD18: Well said |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by dasparrow: 1:34am On Oct 05, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: So you're telling me that during courtship, you had no inclination that your husband is a chronic alcoholic? Or perhaps you had an arranged marriage and you did not get to really know the man you were getting married to. I can just imagine how your matrimonial bedroom will be strongly stinking of urine and your matress will have multiple maps formed by the urine. How can you be married to an adult bed wetter? You better take your husband for counseling because this is so shameful. You see why I say that many Nigerian married women are slaves in their marriages? No wonder some of you try to cause your fellow Nigerian women who are single grief. It is because many of you Nigerian married women are in marital hell fire on earth and are desperately seeking single women to join your league because as you know misery loves company. All the best! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Edusouls(m): 1:42am On Oct 05, 2020 |
You are blessed with lots of sense this girl, I give ur opinion 90% on point, cos you have just said it all.. IamD18: 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Bunk20: 2:35am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Righteousness89: U have said it all 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by harmony75: 2:36am On Oct 05, 2020 |
if he's not violent during his drunkenness then all you need is to be very very patient with him and continue to intercede for him in prayers make he no go drink away his mansion..!! this is so embarrassing and stressful for you, but God is with you ma'am � 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Jaapu: 2:38am On Oct 05, 2020 |
I just dey vex for here. Why can't people abandon alcoholic drinks. Not like they are sweet as I heard. The kind evil this thing dey cause is sickening. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Ekaka1(m): 2:46am On Oct 05, 2020 |
IamD18:Madam you have added O value to op's predicament. Start another thread with your subject if that's what you want to do |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by arewacrown50000: 2:50am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Does he see his act the next day? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by victme1(m): 2:51am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Madam! TELL HIM ''HONEY, WITH ALL DUE RESPECT YOU FOR THE LOVE YOU HAVE FOR HIM YOU WILL TAKE A WALK'' That let it be heard that your wife walked out of the marriage because of her husband's lack of self control! Start by sleeping separately whenever he comes home drunk. And STOP CLEANING HIS SHIT! I pray and hope you have a job or business you are doing. If NOT SEE IT AS A CROSS YOU HAVE TO CARRY and carry it wella. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by ewami: 3:15am On Oct 05, 2020 |
lilmax: I know u just joking....right, that route leads to no where meaningful . Your advice was based on too much of Nollywood. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by comos: 3:31am On Oct 05, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: For the urine problem : He should stop taking any liquid ( water or Alcohol ) before going to bed. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Parisian: 3:49am On Oct 05, 2020 |
You see how senseless you are. When it's man misbehaving you dimwits find a way to turn it around and blame the woman for his illicit lifestyle even when his waywardness preceeds their relationship. Also, if he's depressed, is he the only one in the world that's depressed? Don't women get depressed too? How many women do you see being depressed, drinking and wetting the beds? If it was a woman, your type would've called her unprintable words and asked the man to divorce her, but since it's a grown up 39 y/o man, we must blame his wife, invite a pity party and pray and fast for him. UDUJ: 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Dizzyrascal(m): 4:06am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:prayer is always the start to every solution |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by UDUJ(m): 4:08am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Parisian: Since you are so dumb and daft and can only use insults to engage in meaningful conversations, then your primitive types are better ignored. Further mentions will receive no response. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by amuwo1980: 4:14am On Oct 05, 2020 |
IamD18: So many likes for this almost idiotic reply, what is the relationship between this rubbish u wrote and the advice the lady asked for , how is this no brainy sanctimonious crap going to help her, so u assume the lady married him for sex or money , what ever happened to seeking help or any kind of treatment for alcohol addiction and see the number of ppl that think tru their ass that like the rubbish u wrote , small wonder u are a shit hole country 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by hstar: 4:20am On Oct 05, 2020 |
IamD18:Legend u are |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Amumaigwe: 4:23am On Oct 05, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Your husband must be very loaded for a typical 21st century Nigerian wife to only be regretting being married to a "messy" husband and discussing ways to help him instead of the default "divorce him" instinct. May God assist you in your quest for his rehab. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Kingrefreshed: 4:24am On Oct 05, 2020 |
UDUJ: You asked a very Important question that needs to be answered. There are so many things that can trigger a man to change behavior. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by hstar: 4:36am On Oct 05, 2020 |
Ishilove:Ishi, abeg easy I noticed u correct those that preach more than necessary, not only righteousness 89 alone, But please correct in a lovely way as your name depicts, please. Peace. By the way, I love Matilda and Gift |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by shedomains: 5:05am On Oct 05, 2020 |
lilmax:i tire my brother. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by HRMK: 5:16am On Oct 05, 2020 |
he wasnt doing this before getting married to him?or u were blinded with money!nawa for una!! |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by toye440: 5:24am On Oct 05, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:Bae the truth is u knew about his slushed lifestyle before u married him. But as they say " Love is blind, marriage na eye opener". He's phlegmatic, and i pray it doesnt degenerate to physical abuse. well its ur cross and the only way out is to find those he respects or listen to, like his father to wade in or u stylishly invite his mother to come visit even for a day. Seriously i salute ur courage and patience, cos the present 9ja babe would hv checked out or filed for divorce. He's lucky to hv u. |
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