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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Nobody: 11:12pm On Oct 25, 2020
Descortes:
it seems you still live in the 80s.
I have nothing else to say to you
He's not living in the 80's. His values are obviously just very different from yours. I'm not judging either way but stop believing every one who's dating is fvcking left right and center. Yes there are still couple to this day who who agree to abstain till either marriage or till they are at least very sure of each others seriousness..I personally know a few couples like that.

A guy who truly likes a girl wouldn't dump her just because she resisted sex..and a girl who gives it up after a few weeks of dating a guy is definitely not wife material because she has probably burned through A LOT of guys like that. I personally am more likely to value and respect a woman the longer she makes me wait for it and I am a VERY sexually active guy.

So stop judging everyone based on the life you have been exposed to. Tell me a small part of you does not go crazy about the thought of a girl you REALLY like haven been ravished by another man??

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by korexdodo(m): 11:14pm On Oct 25, 2020
Sister, it is WRONG for you to have a boyfriend, least of all complain about breaking up.
Be productive to yourself and your family by studying or learning business or handwork.
If a man approaches you again, tell him to go and meet your parents or guardians.
That's how you know serious guys.
There is no point DATING a guy that is not ready to MARRY you!
Be wise!

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Alexaonfleek: 11:18pm On Oct 25, 2020
Crownstar01:
Please come to me. I am tired of my girlfriend.
Nawa for you ooo.
You wan make your girlfriend open thread like op.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Liposure: 11:22pm On Oct 25, 2020
Francomekus:
Becos he cheated, thats why you broke up him. And you are still complaining. Is cheating a guarantee that someone does not love you. Some girls think that some men view sex same way they do, sacred thing to be shared with whom you love. Some men dont need to love , care or feel anything for a girl to have sex with her.
Cheating mostly for men has to do with lack of self control, lots of female options, sexual fantasies, stress, even depression. The guy might be in love with you and still be feeling the same way you feel now.
Since you done break up i say TIME HEALS ALL EMOTIONAL WOUND.
excuse me
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by princehaxky(m): 11:42pm On Oct 25, 2020
Move on
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Liposure: 11:42pm On Oct 25, 2020
simplepee:
Good you broke up with him. Do not take him back. I repeat do not take him back, a cheater will always cheat. They only change their game not stop it.

Don't worry dear, you will be fine. I've been there and I am happy now.
people change
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Jfoxtex: 11:57pm On Oct 25, 2020
Congratulations for your decision. If I may ask what lesson did you learn from your past relationship? And again bear it in mind that no one is perfect. Did you asked him the reason why he cheated on you?

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Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Jfoxtex: 12:02am On Oct 26, 2020
Food for thought

Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by dhtml6(m): 12:52am On Oct 26, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs. He cheated on me with another babe. It's hard to move on. I wrote this with a bleeding heart.

Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl. Y would he treat me like this? Am going insane.

What should i do nairalanders?
I have something to say, but I will rather say it privately. I am not going to toast you mind you. But it is true, there is something you need to learn.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by GrossPrice: 1:12am On Oct 26, 2020
Descortes:
it seems you still live in the 80s.
I have nothing else to say to you

Abi Ooooh... he does not know how many iPhones a girl can get by spreading her legs.

IPhones or bust!
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by GrossPrice: 1:16am On Oct 26, 2020
saintruky:


Why are u crying?

He proly unbroke her yoke
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Obierika(m): 1:18am On Oct 26, 2020
stormborn28:
foolishness and stupidity mixed.. In behavior

Idiocy and self denial mixed!
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Obierika(m): 1:21am On Oct 26, 2020
stormborn28:
nonsense...so she should condole stupidity

The correct word is "condone", dunce!
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by addexx: 1:33am On Oct 26, 2020
Angelacruz:
I just broke up with my boyfriend of 2yrs. He cheated on me with another babe. It's hard to move on. I wrote this with a bleeding heart.

Why do some men like cheating? I was never a liability to him nor a bad girl. Y would he treat me like this? Am going insane.

What should i do nairalanders?

Congratulations. You did the right thing. So why you depressed. Madam get up, wipe your bumbum and move on . Try and forget the memories, delete everything about him. You will be fine.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by EmekaA125(m): 1:51am On Oct 26, 2020
Angelacruz:
Once
Forgive and give him another chance if you can. Guys actually want to sleep with all ladies as a sign of being a big boy.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 2:57am On Oct 26, 2020
Heavensent01:



you can tell naive men this your disposition, I can't settle with a lady with over used pussy even if I need to settle with non virgin lady God forbid


I'm in the class of men that have taste and get irritated to warn out pússy

Everyone has their preferences but U can't always tell how much sex a girl has had.
I do agree tho that there is no allure in knowing Ur girl has had half the city inside her. I can understand that.
However it don't make the girl any less valuable as a person
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 3:03am On Oct 26, 2020
Bigdik70inch2:


No..
I don't mean to her hurt by cheating..
Just that she had hardly get naughty back..
She..seems jux too upright and I have told her severally..

Try talking it out n maybe taking little steps at a time to get her to be whatever makes U happy.
I know I myself will do things to make my man happy to a certain point tho.
If eventually she isn't exactly what U want maybe she isn't the one for you?
I don't believe in settling for some kinda person if they're not exactly what U want.
Especially if your gonna spend Ur life with that person.
However love is about compromise, patience and working together to achieve the kinda life U want to share
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by stormborn28(m): 3:05am On Oct 26, 2020
Obierika:


The correct word is "condone", dunce!
idiot...you don't need to tell me.. If don't know what is called "auto-correction" when using keyboard, you would have known things like that are bound to happen.... Useless fool
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by stormborn28(m): 3:08am On Oct 26, 2020
Obierika:


Idiocy and self denial mixed!
imbe..cile and imp in mixed
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by DrFunmisticGlow: 3:14am On Oct 26, 2020
Daguccizgreat:
Have done that once when I was not yet married
Are you married to her presently, the person you forgave?
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by DrFunmisticGlow: 3:16am On Oct 26, 2020
Angelacruz:
Once
willhe forgive you if you cheat once?

Ignore these men telling you to forgive him.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Obierika(m): 3:38am On Oct 26, 2020
stormborn28:
imbe..cile and imp in mixed

Oaf and scallywag mixed!
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Obierika(m): 3:40am On Oct 26, 2020
stormborn28:
idiot...you don't need to tell me.. If don't know what is called "auto-correction" when using keyboard, you would have known things like that are bound to happen.... Useless fool

Bufo0n, get your head out of your ass and face reality!
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by stormborn28(m): 3:41am On Oct 26, 2020
Obierika:


Oaf and scallywag mixed!
halfwit and nincompoop mixed
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by stormborn28(m): 3:42am On Oct 26, 2020
Obierika:


Bufo0n, get your head out of your ass and face reality!

Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Obierika(m): 3:51am On Oct 26, 2020
stormborn28:
halfwit and nincompoop mixed

Imp and whippersnapper mixed!
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 3:59am On Oct 26, 2020
Descortes:
Yiu dumb or something?? If you were comprehensive enough you'd have known I was actually laughing at the fact that she said he only cheated once.
and you ran into silly conclusions that I was laughing at her pain.. very dumbish

Still not a laughing matter.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Happy2020: 4:00am On Oct 26, 2020
Girl dust off and get your Glow up!! It’s his loss. Move TF on and don’t look back.
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by stormborn28(m): 4:02am On Oct 26, 2020
Obierika:


Imp and whippersnapper mixed!
insane and silly fool mixed
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Mrscarter(f): 4:04am On Oct 26, 2020
Daguccizgreat:
She should give him be benefit of doubts. Don't forget people do change

Yeah they can. It depends on the person, the situation etc but after U give them another chance(if U do) it's not gonna be the same. If my man cheated on me like the ops did I'd find it hard to trust again, I'd be all up in his business, I'd be questioning every place he goes n wat he gets upto n who he hangs around. N that'd cause issues the more. But it be hard not to be that way. It'd take a while for things to feel normal again for me n even then I'd never forget even if I forgive. n if it happened a second time definitely hell no. I'd not give another chance. Once can be a mistake, twice isnt
Re: I Broke Up With My Cheating Boyfriend. by Angelacruz: 5:49am On Oct 26, 2020
Tanks dear
DrFunmisticGlow:
willhe forgive you if you cheat once?

Ignore these men telling you to forgive him.

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