Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,158,866 members, 7,838,103 topics. Date: Thursday, 23 May 2024 at 03:34 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Your Wife Denies You Sex. (4756 Views)
His Wife Denies Him Sex Even When He Pays All The Bills / My Wife Denies Me Sex Always / Pastor Samson Farounbi: 'My Wife Denies Me Sex Over My Small Joystick' (2) (3) (4)
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Ishilove: 8:10pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
ImaIma1:This is where extensive discussion on sex while courting is paramount so that they will know what they are getting into. |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by ImaIma1(f): 8:24pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Ishilove: In their case, it started from day 1 cos she was a virgin while he was sexually active. The first few weeks were frustrating for him...lol. But after they got past the pain, he had to deal with her lack of interest in sex. |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by pozehnani(f): 8:48pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
ImaIma1: Remember everyone is not the same amd we all don't have same body chemistry reaction and adjustment speed. So, it might not be that easy for the others as it was for you. He needs to give her time. Channeling your mind to sex like one doesn't have other important and pressing needs to attend to. Mind you her routine might be more tideous compard to yours. Plus her responsibilities as a wife and mother at the home front could also be demanding. While your pastors wife preaching will obviously have helping hands. therefore its easy for her and her likes to be a machine ready to be used anytime. These are things that should be considered before concluding. I'm out! 2 Likes |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by ImaIma1(f): 9:06pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
OP you have no choice than to manage the situation. A lot of women keep citing the excuse of not being in the mood. If you want to live according to mood, some of us won't go to work or do what we are supposed to do. I might sound insensitive but I don't think we should let our moods control us. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Nobody: 10:17pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
MasterofNL: MY DEAR BROTHER, LET ME TELL YOU A TRUE LIFE STORY OF AN UNCLE WHO FOUND HIMSELF IN YOUR SHOES. HIS WIFE KEPT DENYING HIM SEX FOR NO JUSTIFICATION AT ALL. JUST FLIMSY EXCUSES, LIKE MOOD SWING, HEAD ACHE, TIREDNESS AND E.T.C WELL, HIS GRAND DAD GOT TO HEAR ABOUT IT AND PROBED INTO THE MATTER. THE NEXT LINE OF ACTION BY HIS GRAND DAD WAS TO TOE THE PATH OF TRADITION. HE WENT TO THE VILLAGE AND BROUGHT BACK WITH HIM SIX BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADIES HAVING FIRM BREASTS, AND SEXY CURVES, VERY SEXUALLY APPEALING. HE INSTRUCTED HIS GRANDSON, MY UNCLE TO CHOOSE TWO OUT OF THE 6 TO MARRY. MEANING TO MARRY TWO MORE WIVES IN ADDITION TO THE FIRST. MY UNCLE OBEYED HIS GRANDPA, BUT CHOSE ONLY ONE. HE MARRIED A SECOND WIFE. GUESS WHAT REALLY HAPPENED AFTERWARDS?! SINCE, HIS FIRST WIFE USE TO ALMOST ALWAYS DENY HIM SEX EXCEPT HE BEGS AND BEG, HIS ASSUMPTION WAS THAT SHE WOULD CONTINUE TO DO SO. BUT HE GOT THE SURPRISE OF HIS LIFE. WHEN EVER IT IS HER TURN FOR HIM TO SLEEP IN HER APARTMENT, HIS MIND WAS ALREADY MADE UP TO ALLOW HER BE, HENCE HE WILL JUST TURN ASIDE AND SLEEP OFF, HOPING HER TURN WHICH LAST 3 DAYS AND 3 NIGHT WILL SOON BE OVER AND HE WILL RETURN TO HIS SECOND WIFE AND GET HIS SEXUAL DESIRE FULFILLED. SURPRISINGLY, IN THE MIDDLE OF THE NIGHTS, THIS SAME FIRST WIFE WOULD WAKE HIM UP, DEMANDING FOR SEX FROM HIM, THE SAME SEX SHE HAD VERY MANY TIMES DENIED HIM IN THE PAST. BUT NOW SHE IS EVEN THE ONE WAKING MY UNCLE UP THAT THEY SHOULD HAVE SEX. AND SO HE WILL TEASE HER THAT HE IS TIRED AND NOT IN THE MOOD. SHE BECOMES VERY ANGRY AND STARTS, LAMENTING, TELLING HIM HOW UNFAIR HE IS TO HER, THAT SHE IS VERY SURE THAT HE NEVER GOES A NIGHT WITHOUT HAVING SEX WITH HIS SECOND WIFE WHEN IT IS HER OWN TURN TO STAY IN HER APPARTMENT. BUT WHENEVER HE COMES TO HER ROOM, HE BEHAVES AS IF SHE IS NOTHING TO HIM BAFFLED BY THIS DEVELOPMENT, HE TOLD HIS GRAND DAD. HIS GRAND DAD'S RESPONSE WAS BREATHTAKING..............(will tell you later am running out of battery, just managed to post this) 8 Likes |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Mandela27: 10:55pm On Oct 26, 2020 |
Two things are involved. 1.she's bleeping someone else. 2.she's bleeping someone else. 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by mosdii(m): 9:10am On Oct 27, 2020 |
Na wa o nothing married Simps no go see for vagina people hand |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Nobody: 9:49am On Oct 27, 2020 |
A woman doesn't want to have sex with you means she doesn't find you attractive anymore...period no further explanation. 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by ABOVEDELAW: 9:52am On Oct 27, 2020 |
TO EAT A LOT OF CHOCOLATES WITHOUT CONSIDERING THE IMPLICATIONS OF DIABETES? pozehnani: |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by pozehnani(f): 9:58am On Oct 27, 2020 |
ABOVEDELAW: Chocolate is a balanced diet because of the content of cocoa in it that reduces blood sugar level. Besides, she doesn't have to take it so often. |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by MasterofNL: 9:16pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
ImaIma1: This is brilliant input. If we take our decisions based on mood then there will be real trouble in this world. How many times do you feel like going to work for instance? |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by MasterofNL: 9:17pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
WORDWORLD: Which novel did you get this from? |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:51pm On Oct 27, 2020 |
Don't listen to the people that tell you to go outside and find someone, they are mostly single and do not have a family in view. Find her reason, talk it out. I don't think she will refuse forever. Outside the bed, try to establish a warmer relationship that will make sex later in the day more or less automatic. She's not some girlfriend, you can't just give up on her biko. It's tasking, and i understand. MasterofNL: |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Nobody: 3:17pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
pozehnani: Please kindly take your time to watch this video. Title: The sex-starved marriage | Michele Weiner-Davis | https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ep2MAx95m20 Please watch it till the end. Thank you. ImaIma1 and you too. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 10:04pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
Good video! PRETTYPRINCES: |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Tomblaize: 10:49pm On Oct 31, 2020 |
MasterofNL: Are u guys having financial issues |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by AstroG: 1:05am On Nov 01, 2020 |
How can you be begging for sex in marriage ,Gosh . If na me,iffa talk to you for two weeks and you still dy deny me of my birth rite. Then ah hv no other option than to find external solution Naija Girls giving Guys wahala since 18BC |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by BlueAir: 3:16am On Nov 01, 2020 |
Perhaps u should always remember to weed and clean the bushes first before a man comes around.. sanitation for that bush is something a lot of women of nowadays disregard.. Petyprincess: |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by nwaezeemmanuel(m): 3:15pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
This can be sorted out gently, and by just communicating. Not every man does oral, so it is not a concern for everyone. BlueAir: |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by BlueAir: 5:53pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Wrong interpretation big man.. by bushy place,I'm talking of improper hygiene nwaezeemmanuel: 1 Like |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Martinez39s(m): 10:24pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
MasterofNL, do you have children? |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by okoIYAyin(m): 10:37pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
Mandela27: Lol weyrey, number 2 should be, someone else is bleeping her |
Re: Your Wife Denies You Sex. by Nobody: 11:20pm On Nov 01, 2020 |
You know i find this topic interesting, most of my friends don't have this issues because they cheat in situations like this. So I guess its a good thing for decent men around ? As for the solution ? No idea........... |
Women And Their Double Standards. / Married Ladies I Need Your Advice Please / How I Almost Got Killed While Executing A Dieing Man's Wish
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 47 |