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Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 2:45pm On Mar 21, 2011
[This can apply to women too. . .]

[size=18pt]Signs of a Possessive Man.[/size]
http://http://blog.turisuna.com/signs-possessive-man

When you are falling in love, you tend to be blinded by love. Love can defeat your logic and even you can compromise to his negative behaviors, including when he is trying to control you and being possessive.

Maybe at the beginning of relationships, you will consider the possessiveness as the form of his attention to you. But unfortunately this attitude gets worse and gives bad effect to your life. Here are some signs that he is a possessive man:

1. He likes to give instructions
Generally man will only give advice to his couple, but not trying to control her by giving instructions. But a possessive man won’t hesitate to give instructions to his couple, such as asking you to change your clothes if he doesn’t like it, he will determine what time you should go home, and even he likes to forbid you to do something without any reason. Usually this man will say that he is giving restrictions because he loves you, he will say it again and again to melt your heart so you will follow his instructions.

2. He likes to criticize
He’s always criticizing you. Maybe at first you see this as an attention to make you better. But in the long run, you will always feel wrong in front of him, it’s not only about your appearance, but also about everything you do, including trivia things.

3. He never supports your hobby
When you have a hobby or want to do something you like, he never supports you. That’s because he doesn’t want to see you having fun without him. He always thinks negatively about what you will do without him on your side. That’s a sign that he is very obsessive and controlling.

4. He is judging your friends grin
He doesn’t like if you spend time with your friends. He will think that you will cheat on him if he is not around. He also thinks that your friends will make you leave him. He will not hesitate to express his dislike to your friends. Don’t be surprised if in a few weeks you’ve isolated from your friends.

5. He never gives you a trust
He won’t let you going alone without him, or he won’t let you hang out with your friends, the reason is because he is afraid if bad things happen to you. But in long term this habit can give bad effect to you. In relationship you should trust each other, there are times when you have to do something by yourself. Don’t let him make you become dependent person, with or without a man, you should still become an independent person and trust your own ability.
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 2:48pm On Mar 21, 2011
Bomboclatt' undecided
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 2:55pm On Mar 21, 2011
190:

Bomboclatt'  undecided

I think number four is pretty sad.
What is your opinion on this?  undecided

i know some possessive gals too.
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 2:58pm On Mar 21, 2011
rubbish undecided

I am not saying a Thing undecided
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 3:21pm On Mar 21, 2011
possessiveness is a scary thing tho. because sometimes
it causes ppl to do things and make irrational movements.
Some men who cannot handle rejection or being denied the
right to behave in a controlling way end up making an arse of
themselves or even worse killing their partners. So those who are
in love be VERY careful and watch the warning signs! PLEASE!
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 3:37pm On Mar 21, 2011
CHEATING GIRLFRIENDS


Cheating has plagued love lives for generations. Sometimes, one never finds out about an affair a girlfriend has had. However, there are certain signs which might give one a clue as to whether (and exactly to what limit) the girlfriend is cheating.

The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can't remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.

Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party - either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.

Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.

Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl's daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.[/color]
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 3:40pm On Mar 21, 2011
^^please post that in another thread (start your own).
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 3:42pm On Mar 21, 2011
^^ They are all warning signs and so should be categorized  together

after all we are both talking from experience  undecided
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 3:45pm On Mar 21, 2011
Nuts. . .grow some. angry
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 3:48pm On Mar 21, 2011
sense, aint difficult to develop undecided
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 3:51pm On Mar 21, 2011
190 what is your problem? a waammmmmm tu you?!!!!!! angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
I am serious about this thread. go start your own!
Re: Warning Signs. . . by sexy74(m): 3:54pm On Mar 21, 2011
@ 190

good write up


@MzDarkSkin

are you fighting for the women or what.

for your information men cheat,

but women, they invented cheating
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 3:56pm On Mar 21, 2011
Mizdarkski

But a wah di rass i have my warning signs too Nuh ramp wid mi,A wah di bloodclaat dew yuh?
Yu rass cleat haad eaz, quit been a Batty hole

Im out  grin
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:00pm On Mar 21, 2011
sexy74:

@ 190

good write up


@MzDarkSkin

are you fighting for the women or what.

for your information men cheat,

but women, they invented cheating


GOTDAMMIT! 190 SEEE!

THIS THREAD WAS NOT ABOUT CHEATTTTTTTTTTTING!
BUT SINCE WE ARE ON THE SUBJECT. I LOOOOOOVE
HOW U SKIPPED THROUGH WHAT I SAID, ACCUSE ME OF
'SPEAKING FOR WOMEN' AND PRAISIN 190'S COPY AND PASTE BULL
"TEAM MALE" CONGRATS, -100 KO0L POINTS  wink

as for you 190, your patois sux.  Who ever you copied it from
or wrote it out for you, that is the watered down version.
tell who ever it was i said:

mek dem move fiddem warnaclot an gweh. mi did tell yu long time seh
mi anno cunumunu an mi inna di play ting. mi juss a hold a meds
an yu [190] come up ya an a try style mi and a gwan like seh yu wa fi derail mi
sitten. mek mi tell yuh again, two can play dah bloodclot game enuh? aoh.
but a wah dem a study?

a mussi mi unu a pree fi tru.
Re: Warning Signs. . . by alagha: 4:03pm On Mar 21, 2011
how many kilometers away from the zone?
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:09pm On Mar 21, 2011


STAY ON TOPIC! angry
Re: Warning Signs. . . by sexy74(m): 4:11pm On Mar 21, 2011
MZDarksin

THIS THREAD WAS NOT ABOUT CHEATTTTTTTTTTTING!
BUT SINCE WE ARE ON THE SUBJECT. I LOOOOOOVE
HOW U SKIPPED THROUGH WHAT I SAID, ACCUSE ME OF
'SPEAKING FOR WOMEN' AND PRAISIN 190'S COPY AND PASTE BULL
"TEAM MALE" CONGRATS, -100 KO0L POINTS


i know the word cheating will interet you that why i used it.

go ahead defend the women folks.

After all is a woman world which men rule
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:12pm On Mar 21, 2011
sexy74:

MZDarksin

[/b]

i know the word cheating will interet you that why i used it.

go ahead defend the women folks.

After all is a woman world which [b]men rule


And women actually p!ss out give birth to such tards. . .
no wonder my older sister is determined not to have children  undecided

please read the line I wrote above the quoted article ok? no bias with me.
Re: Warning Signs. . . by eghost247(m): 4:18pm On Mar 21, 2011
MzDarkSkin:

[This can apply to women too. . .]

[size=18pt]Signs of a Possessive Man.[/size]
http://http://blog.turisuna.com/signs-possessive-man

Another male bashing thread has started!!!!!!!!!!!!
Re: Warning Signs. . . by sexy74(m): 4:21pm On Mar 21, 2011
And women actually p!ss out give birth to such tards. . .
no wonder my older sister is determined not to have children  Undecided

please read the line I wrote above the quoted article ok? no bias with me.

thanks for leting me know that is piss u women do.

my advice to your elder sister is to tell her that she should go ahead and have kids

but as you know its with the help of a man.

So men rule
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 4:22pm On Mar 21, 2011
MzDarkSkin:


as for you 190, your patois sux.  Who ever you copied it from
or wrote it out for you, that is the watered down version.
here's the REAL deal:
mek dem move fiddem warnaclot an gweh. mi did tell yu long time seh
mi anno cunumunu an mi inna di play ting. mi juss a hold a meds
an yu come up ya anna try style mi and wah gwan like seh yu wa fi derail mi
sitten. mek mi tell yuh again, two can play dah bloodclot game enuh? aoh.
but a wah dem a study?

a mussi mi unu a pree fi tru.



Sharrap Bamborasspussyholeclaat,yup ma Ganja plantation behind ma house quit been Sodomite , me cud easily deal with pumm pumm aka bella
sharrap dia me amma slap ya ina mi yard
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:24pm On Mar 21, 2011
190:

Sharrap Bamborasspussyholeclaat,yup ma Ganja plantation behind ma house quit been Sodomite , me cud easily deal with pumm pumm aka bella
sharrap dia me amma slap ya ina mi yard


yeye-fowl mix bred with a mumu and 1/3 goat. tongue

@ the two tards above 190, please learn to read.

one of you actually quoted my title with
"can apply to women too" in it and had the nerve
to accuse me of man bashing.

the second i.mbecile. . .i didn't even read his fckry reponse tongue
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 4:28pm On Mar 21, 2011
grin  grin  grin

Tasty fried Jamo chicken, Kpomo on the run,
Your thread don backfire on your head!! grin grin
Re: Warning Signs. . . by sexy74(m): 4:30pm On Mar 21, 2011
the second i.mbecile. . .i didn't even read his fckry reponse







it only shows how senile you are.

please go and get something else done

before you finally lose it
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:31pm On Mar 21, 2011
190:

grin  grin  grin

Tasty fried Jamo chicken, Kpomo on the run,
Your thread don backfire on your head!!  grin  grin


rolls eyes. . .your henchmen just obeying your orders. tis all.  tongue
you can go around the corner and pay them their $5.00 salary now.

@s3xy look up the word senile.
Re: Warning Signs. . . by LesbianBoy(m): 4:35pm On Mar 21, 2011
Mrs mz darksin (f) >>>>>>>>>>> You head is too BIG!!!!! angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Warning Signs. . . by desholah(m): 4:37pm On Mar 21, 2011
Outcast#3,
mE FIND NOTHING FUNNY AND SO IRRITATING Till i got to No4 . . . . .Dammit . . . .Yeah,so right some furryazz, dumb azzlicker really exhibit this feature . . . . Hhaahahahahhahaah . .  . .Probab;y loser!!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:45pm On Mar 21, 2011
d-sensitivty aka #2  grin please behave.

@lesbobwoy, dont u have some cow to violate?  undecided
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 4:51pm On Mar 21, 2011
LesbianBoy:

Mrs mz darksin (f) >>>>>>>>>>> You head is too BIG!!!!! angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
angry angry angry

quit it angry angry
Re: Warning Signs. . . by LesbianBoy(m): 4:53pm On Mar 21, 2011
desholah:

Outcast#3,
mE FIND NOTHING FUNNY AND SO IRRITATING Till i got to No4 . . . . .Dammit . . . .Yeah,so right some furryazz, dumb azzlicker really exhibit this feature . . . . Hhaahahahahhahaah . .  . .Probab;y loser!!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin


*******Pours rat poison on D-sense Desholah******** angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Warning Signs. . . by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 21, 2011
^^mumu commot from here! come out a dis! NOW!  angry
with your Tinky Winky Teletubby a$s.
Re: Warning Signs. . . by 190: 4:57pm On Mar 21, 2011
THREAD TOTALLY DERAILED  grin  grin

Now playing my fofo


[flash=400,300]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S3_n1U-7FBs[/flash]

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