A lady in Zambia sued her boyfriend for wasting her time for eight years and ending their relationship without marrying her.

The lady, Gertrude Ngoma, 26, reportedly told a Zambian court that her 28-year-old boyfriend Herbert Salaliki had no intention of getting married and that she ran out of patience waiting for them to officially become husband and wife.

According to Zambia's new media publisher, Mwebantu, Gertrude who lives with her parents has a child with Herbert.

The report said the boyfriend has since made dowry payment but is yet to marry his babymama, who got tired of waiting and decided to sue her lover for not being serious about their future.

“He has never been serious, that is why I bought him to court because I deserve to know the way forward and our future,” she said.

It was also gathered Ngoma doubted Hebert’s loyalty after discovering he was seeing another woman who she believes has something going on with her boyfriend.

In his defense, Hebert said he was not in the right financial position to afford a wedding and also blamed Ngoma for not giving him the needed time and attention.

The judge presiding the case advised both that reconciliation was the best way to go about the situation since there was no evidence of any marriage yet.

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2020/12/lady-sues-boyfriend-for-failing-to-marry-her-after-wasting-her-time-for-8-years.html

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May God Almighty deliver us from time wasters in Jesus name Amen.

Women of this generation are very shameless and desperate.

How can you be desperately suing a man to court because you want him to marry you?

Are you mad? Did he tie your legs with chain with him for the 8 years you stayed?

Imagine suing a guy to court because you don't want to loose his diick.

Omo eh! These vagina creatures are something else.

But what some guys are doing is not fair ooh

how can you be dating a lady for complete 8yrs? Is she a case study

The man said he is not in the right financial position.


If he gets married and can't run his home, she will still take him to court for not fulfilling his responsibilities.


I blame the dude for being a weak man with poor frame. He should have broken up with her a lomg time ago.

saaphiere:
May God Almighty deliver us from time wasters in Jesus name Amen.

Amen, 8yrs wtf he just wasted her prime years

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Amen, 8yrs wtf he just wasted her prime years

That is why most men won't make heaven. My annoyance is always that lie they do tell.
Most men change once they get in between your legs.
A man would love you wholehearted but wants he sleeps with you, he start seeing you as a burden.

IamD18:
Women of this generation are very shameless and desperate.

I beg to differ.

IamD18:
How can you be desperately suing a man to court because you want him to marry you?

She has every time to sue him. She never sued him for not marry her but for wasting her time. Time is the only unrecoverable resource in the world.

IamD18:
Are you mad? Did he tie your legs with chain with him for the 8 years you stayed?

He didn't physically tied her legs but she tied her down with words. If he had open up earlier, this girl won't be with him for this long.

IamD18:
Imagine suing a guy to court because you don't want to loose his diick.

She did not sue him for diick. Read very well. She sued him for time wasted. Remember women are not like men. Women time is limited. There are certain things a woman cannot achieve when she gets to a particular time in her life. So for that time wasting, he deserved to be sued.

IamD18:
Omo eh! These vagina creatures are something else.

Your mom and sisters included.

We should start doing it in Nigeria, after five years, no marriage, you go court.
It will save a lot of heartaches

This is what online feminists do offline. They cry over men and heartbreaks. This one is so pained that she has run to the courts for help. She will still lose there and it will maximize her pain.

They should just go their separate ways amicably. This is out of the court's jurisdiction

Whatta guan man!


8years be like 4yrs course + NYSC + 1yr Masters + 2yrs PhD, Too badt, real men will put a ring on her phalanges and walk her to the aisle.

Aileexa1:
We should start doing it in Nigeria, after five years, no marriage, you go court.
It will save a lot of heartaches

I swear. Imagine 8 good years. Only God knows how many suitors she missed while waiting for this shameless he-goat.

saaphiere:
That is why most men won't make heaven. My annoyance is always that lie they do tell.
Most men change once they get in between your legs.
A man would love you wholehearted but wants he sleeps with you, he start seeing you as a burden.

Am a guy does that mean I won't make heaven?.

And what you are talking about is not restricted to any gender women don't care for men who truly love them they just take money and go, Same way men do care for those who love them they just fvck and dump them.
So stop blaming men when your gender is also guilty. And when did this become a gender war I am muzzed

Mmmmm

Liverpoolman:
Whatta guan man!


8years be like 4yrs course + NYSC + 1yr Masters + 2yrs PhD, Too badt, real men will put a ring on her phalanges and walk her to the aisle.

What should we do to this guy now,

hashtagged:

Am a guy does that mean I won't make heaven?.

And what you are talking about is not restricted to any gender women don't care for men who truly love them they just take money and go, Same way men do care for those who love them they just fvck and dump them.
So stop blaming men when your gender is also guilty. And when did this become a gender war I am muzzed

I didn't say all men.

This isn't nice at all

She has a right to sue

Nonexistent:
This is what online feminists do offline. They cry over men and heartbreaks. This one is so pained that she has run to the courts for help. She will still lose there and it will maximize her pain.

This isn't about feminism.
It's about one telling the person you're dealing with the truth.

Nonexistent:
This is what online feminists do offline. They cry over men and heartbreaks. This one is so pained that she has run to the courts for help. She will still lose there and it will maximize her pain.

This isn't about feminism.
It's about one telling the person you're dealing with the truth. Don't mess up with people's hope.

It doesn't matter the gender.

When I thought I have seen it all another shiit just manages to pop up.. Damn

I know this is going to FP
still looking for the mod u dey give ur puna to always make FP

PopSmoke:
I know this is going to FP

still looking for the mod u dey give ur puna to always make FP

Does Alexreports give puna too?

PopSmoke:
I know this is going to FP

still looking for the mod u dey give ur puna to always make FP

Am gono put it, going, going ,

PopSmoke:
I know this is going to FP

still looking for the mod u dey give ur puna to always make FP

Does Alexreports give puna too?

hashtagged:

Am a guy does that mean I won't make heaven?.

And what you are talking about is not restricted to any gender women don't care for men who truly love them they just take money and go, Same way men do care for those who love them they just fvck and dump them.
So stop blaming men when your gender is also guilty. And when did this become a gender war I am muzzed

Don't be suprise bro that gyal sometime create thread then later use useless comment to spoil the thread

I don't advise any lady to still stick to a man beyond six months if he's not making any meaningful moves, never allow any man waste your precious time and never love fully in a relationship, reserve the real and true love till after marriage, all I'm trying to say is that every lady should use her brain in dealing with men and not emotions

I stand with the man. Women used to do same. They marry not because of love but who is ready. If men can start reciprocating what women used to do us, then it's cool.

Don't quote or mention me, you'd just be wasting your time. Thanks.

PopSmoke:
I know this is going to FP
still looking for the mod u dey give ur puna to always make FP

This table wey u dey shake

Hmmm

Loser. She belongs to the streets.