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No i will not cohabit

@luxoire,
geez. . . Dunno where u get d verve 2 pen all dis down. Put all posts 2geda & u'll have urslf a 1000 page book! Lol

I dont entirely support d idea of cohabitation;but when u r both close to marriage(i mean an engagement of less than 6 mths O!), then staying together on weekends will be okay!

@RuuDie

hahahahaha, dont mind me, you'd be surprised how quickly i type, especially if i feel i have something to say, or if some ppl are being hypocrites!!

I'll co-habit well. I did it before in school and now, when all the necessary resources have been put in the necessary places, I'll do it again.

If Mary and Joseph fit Co-habit, I no see who Holy pass.

It's fun and it makes you get to know your partner inside-out.

Its not always d best. While dating u both need ur space & think of wat happens if u end up not marrying

Why do y'all always see the cup as half empty and hope it gets empty? I see the cup as half full and I'm going to make it overflowingly full.

I did it as an undergraduate although I did not marry the lady in

question do to some circumstance or other. But it was an experience

I could never have forgiven myself if I had missed.

Bottom line: You never will never find an osculatory experience to be

most favourable sensation until you have tried it, in other words, the

taste of the pudding is in te eating.

i suppose some ppl are used to seeing things in a particular way, granted one needs their space, but one might actually co habitate and realise later in the process that though they may love their partner, theyjust can not live with them.

True people change, so whilst some ppl might not want to do it, until they are married, for those who have tried it, many who went into it for the right level headed reasons actually like it

denex:

I'll co-habit well. I did it before in school and now, when all the necessary resources have been put in the necessary places, I'll do it again.

If Mary and Joseph fit Co-habit, I no see who Holy pass.

It's fun and it makes you get to know your partner inside-out.

Could you please state where you found it written in the Scriptures that Mary and Joseph cohabited

@luxoire,

hw on can u luv sm1 & still not be able 2 live with 'em

JennyMann

abeg leave me alone. Mus' I teash una everything for this nairaland? Go and read up.

denex:

JennyMann

abeg leave me alone. Mus' I teash una everything for this nairaland? Go and read up.

where did you read up your own from? Go read up first before telling others to do what u have repeatedly shown urself incapable of doing.
Maybe u have invented ur own bible where Joseph and Mary co-habited.

@ all co-habiters, its the women i really feel for. Keep providing free milk for unscrupulous boys.

true talk davidylan

davidylan,

Thanks for joining me to query denex. Anyway, the Bible has spoken about such people in these last days , They will come up with false/erroneous teachings. And they are doing that to their own destruction. We that are still sensitive to the injunctions of the Scriptures just have to beware, lest we are led away with their damnable heresies.

Of course, one could see that nowadays, people no longer fear God. They find ways of using their shortcomings to justify their evil perpetrations.

Our prayer should be that God will rescue them from the hand of the devil who has endued them to be instruments of error peddlers. Shall we pray for them?

@ preacher Amen.



May God hear the prayer of the saints
Amen.

why do people always feel that its the female that ends up on the losing side   as far as i know she ain't g'onna be the only one that's giving something . . . .  she could equally take advantage of the situation don't y'all think !

and if you think sey na lie, browse thru all the "broken-hearted" posts wey you fit find here and see who get most males or females . . .

@ luxorie
militia, about those people, they sha annoy me, its almost like they have been brainwahsed, and what anoys me most, is i am all [/i]but certain that all of those preaching with the banner of GOD have acted in exactly the opposite manner to what they are preaching

@ luxorie
hahahahaha, people people,

To the religious fanatics, i thought i had already said we have established that it is wrong religiously to cohabitate, so WHY bring it up again?

whats with the anti-religion campaign? i understand that a lot of religions have been abused by its supposedly staunchest members but not everyone is false (check the italicized [i]all in the sentence above), besides seems like some peeps have a grudge with Christianity in particular (someone had to focus on the bible out of all the religious texts in the world). well now that i've gotten that off my chest, here's what i think,

co-habitation like any other activity that could arise in relationships is really dependent on choice and circumstance. your choice is based on your beliefs which can be an overriding factor no matter the circumstance. however there are circumstances where it would necessary for people to cohabitate. my belief is that everyone should do exactly what they totally believe is right for them - devoid of guilt. whatever the results are we would deal with and learn from them as they come - for all things are lawful (within our power to do) but not all things are expedient (necessary/beneficial)

about wanting your "space", the whole idea of marriage is to create a bond between two people that is so strong they are virtually one person. this takes time, patience and understanding. so in the meantime please do go out with friends and let your boundaries be clearly defined. overtime i believe that we would find that our most fulfilling times are those spent with our spouses, come to appreciate these times and laugh at the "space" we once held dear as the boundaries fade away.

with luv

@knzguru
True word you talk oh! But you can still create strong bond with "space" in between sha! How will you miss eachother in a long "tedious" relationship if you do not "escape" once in a while?

@ Luxoire
Ur conscience seems already degenerated and subverted. How can u solicit peoples opinion on what you already know is bad, and don't want to be opposed?

@ All
U don't need to co-habitate with anybody all in the useless name of 'getting to know better'
You don't need 2 sleep 2gether b/f you know him/her. That's an immoral perspective of reasoning of nowadays.

@ Topic,

Been there, done that. Still there, still doing that.

Be realistic, if you are living staying in the same house or apartment with a hot babe, well something has to sele. One day both of you will walk on each others unclothedness and if not, your mind will play tricks on you.  In short, emotions will run and go hunting.  The question is how much do you trust yourself and by the way are you a stick?

Yes, I will cohabit but will not go to the alter.   

as for me, i won't buy the idea of staying together, though short term could still do, as in weekends, n short stays. But on long term basis, CAPITAL NO. i feel such will make the whole relationship casual, u might start loosing interest in each other aside the temptations ,

For now i'll happily continue to enjoy my space ALONE, if the blessed day comes and I have to get hitched, sure i'll happily live with him.

Yeah, staying alone before marriage is good.  Eventually, both of you will live together till death do you part (hopefully); so, why "dabble in a puddle" when there is a pool/ocean that you will soon jump into.