sandraa:

Stop using white girls to compare naija babes abeg!, go check well how many well trained white chic want to date a loser? even their parents wont allow it bro!
its same phinomenom everywhere in the world so dont get it twisted.

As for naija we ve been trained to believe a man shld take care of us even if we have the millions or not likewise d guys ve been trained to take care of their women.
thats y u find a guy that a girl trained in sch will ditch her and marry the one he can train.
girls associate love with giving, we believe if he love us he will want to take of me and make me happy ( which is not far from the truth)
Naija girls with dis kind of upbringing will always want something from a guy that claims to love them, she will even test the guy if necessary!

As for the Runs babes it is money all the way , seriouslly wat do u expect from them anyways!

jay bee:

So what's so hard in moving on to the NEXT one that won't demand head/neck before you date her?

pro01:

So a man that earns less than a woman is a "loser"? What (or who) exactly is a loser? Ok I already know the answer: a man that doesn't earn that much money. In other words, everything boils down to money money money, head or tail? You think most ordinary white women reason like you Nigerian parasites? I pity any man who places much value (i.e. "love" on any one of these species that have a mindset like this. Most of ya'll are simply commodities that can be bought at the market by the highest bidder; no substance or depth whatsoever.

Problem is that you might never find a 'NEXT one' with a different mindset so long you're dealing with Nigerians. And blueballs/sexual starvation would compel you to do the needful in order to get laid. Even the born again, 'decent' one you think is different. . .try to bait her with a richer pal of yours (that she doesn't know), who has got bling, flashy ride and all the effizy money brings; I assure you that in less than 2 weeks max you'd see the sex tape she made with him. . .blowing furiously on his rich cock, and she might dump you afterwards in light of the 'better offer' your rich pal represents. It's a hopeless case.

WORD!!

COMPLETELY AND FLAWLESSLY TRUE!!

jay bee:

Widening own scope doesn't just involve shifting base, it also involves changing tactics and broadening of horizon.
what's wrong with finding that partner that complements you perfectly on-line?
what's wrong with speed-dating?

sandraa:

You move to no. 11 na shooo na my force

me no mind make i get guy to dey pay my monthly bb subcribtion o, o boyz it will be so cool, lol

sandraa:


The truth 190 is that[b] most girls dat guys support are mostly in school and are really in need[/b] ( dats sincere chics o)

sandraa:

You move to no. 11 na shooo na my force

The truth still remains dat our culture tends to spoil we ladies and we r so loving it!!!!!

@190 no vex say babes don chop your money, but na d only way to hold one down o!!!!!,

Kingsleyinfo:

them swear for you make you nor fit afford your blackberry subscription
abi to use black berry na by force
big fat lie my sistabut when that same culture permits me to have as many women as i like
you go crying he broke my heart.
at least in the time of our forefathers when the man taking on the whole reponsibility was in voke
we also had the options of enjoying as many p****** as we could take care of

if you wanna live in that age, then best of luck, as for me i am voting for a nigeria where woman will see themselves as not just body and pretty face
but as responsible and intelligent.

the whites are more sexually immoral than we are but at least for them its not about the money.
finito

jay bee:

Widening own scope doesn't just involve shifting base, it also involves changing tactics and broadening of horizon.
what's wrong with finding that partner that complements you perfectly on-line?
what's wrong with speed-dating?

Kingsleyinfo:

Bros u dey make men dey vex.
so if you caught your wife cheating you cheat on her back ABI? instead of sending her packing
what we are saying here is the fowl, fish, and goat mentality of some nigerian ladies, are mind boggling.

it is not about widening anything or going on-line to find a better partner, its more about respect and responsibility.
as for me i managed to get a fairly good one although she has her faults but certainly not in the aspect of demanding,
thats not to say she is not guilty of same, but at least she is different to some degree.
and even if she is not wetin man go do now? abi make i die from congil

El fenomenal finishio

sandraa:

Stop using white girls to compare naija babes abeg!, go check well how many well trained white chic want to date a loser? even their parents wont allow it bro!
its same phinomenom everywhere in the world so dont get it twisted.

As for naija we ve been trained to believe a man shld take care of us even if we have the millions or not likewise d guys ve been trained to take care of their women.
thats y u find a guy that a girl trained in sch will ditch her and marry the one he can train.[b]girls associate love with giving, we believe if he love us he will want to take of me and make me happy ( which is not far from the truth)[/b]Naija girls with dis kind of upbringing will always want something from a guy that claims to love them, she will even test the guy if necessary!

As for the Runs babes it is money all the way , seriouslly wat do u expect from them anyways!

sandraa:

Stop using white girls to compare naija babes abeg!, go check well how many well trained white chic want to date a loser? even their parents wont allow it bro!
its same phinomenom everywhere in the world so dont get it twisted.

As for naija we ve been trained to believe a man shld take care of us even if we have the millions or not likewise d guys ve been trained to take care of their women.
thats y u find a guy that a girl trained in sch will ditch her and marry the one he can train.
girls associate love with giving, we believe if he love us he will want to take of me and make me happy ( which is not far from the truth)
Naija girls with dis kind of upbringing will always want something from a guy that claims to love them, she will even test the guy if necessary!

As for the Runs babes it is money all the way , seriouslly wat do u expect from them anyways!

fork adict:

I've got mad issues with every single word in this post of yours. But the emboldened, i will single out to discuss.
You mean your parents trained you to depend on guys to provide for every single need of yours all your life?? Your parents trained you to be a parasite all your life?? Your parents didnt train you to be hardworking and prayerful so that you can attract God's blessings and thus be able to provide for yourself? If you are still in school, i expect your parents to take full responsibility for you and all your needs until you are out of school and you get a job after which i expect them to have trained you to be responsible enough to take care of yourself and not be a parasite on others just because they are guys. You expect a man to take care of you even if you have the millions?? JESUS.

Whenever i see threads on NL that generalise and bash naija chics, i try as much as possible not to comment on those threads because i don't think its fair. I cant stick my neck out for naija chics either because i have had my experiences too. One chic even broke up with me cos she felt i wasn't living up to my responsibilities financially. I had just one regret and that is i only forked her once. If i had a for knowledge that she had that kind of plan, i would have forked her brutally many many times before allowing her to free me. Tell me, even if i wanted to stand up for naija chics on such threads, how do i achieve that with this sick post of yours

girls associate love with giving, we believe if he love us he will want to take of me and make me happy ( which is not far from the truth)
Its girls like you that turn down young and aspiring guys down only to date or get married to old, pot bellied, dirty looking papas in their seventies just because they are rich. You will allow someone as old or even older than your father to stick his old rotten deak into your kitty just because he's got the money to throw around. I can actually imagine you sucking hard on one of those grand papas cock only for him to come in your mouth. YUCK!!!! I'm outta here.

Kingsleyinfo:

el grand classico - whatever it means i love high sounding words

i am still waiting for the ladies oh,
why are they passing this thread na,
u see how truth dey pursue women
women defend urself oh,
make we no count you join the bad eggs
imagine buying a create of eggs and finding only 1 and half good eggs
terrible you might say
but thats our naija chicks for you.
infact they are worse than yahoo boys,

aribisala0:

nna, me i like tuttpik.

u get anoda wan??

Inked_Nerd:

@Everyone: There is no one particular gender to blame. As a society we are all to blame so all this finger pointing is a waste of time. I think some of you who have read sandraa's have taken it too a whole different level. She wasn't trying to say that as we as women should be blood sucking leeches she was only pointing out that as a society we teach our men to care for women and teach our women that when man can shower you with things whether its gifts, food, money, etc. it equals love[b].[/b] I have an aunt who used to live in Nigeria, when she was young, many men used to ask for her hand in marriage and a lot of them thought that the best way to her heart was by buying her gifts. Well, they were wrong because even she could see though all of the gift giving. Its not the just the women who need to reevaluate how the operate, it is the men as we. Seems like some of you have used the lack of female responses to this thread as a means of trying to prove your point.

No one is ignoring the thread. I've read through what you've written both on page one and page two at time some of the things you mention come across a generalizations.

As usual, you always seem to find away to come across as a hypocrite. Not to long ago in other threads I've seen you condoning such behavior.

IZUKWU:

It is quite appaulling,i mean i was going after a girl and when she was to agree she told ME that i should care for her and that it is when she sees that i care for her that she can care for me in return.[size=28pt] To her caring for her means giving her money for hair,cream,cloth,soap etc. Buying her suya,ice cream,credit etc.The girl no gree make i touch her till i gave her money for hair.Now a month into the r/ship i have spend about #10,000 on her.[/size] Imagine my surprise when she called me õne night asking me to send her love text sms. I wäs like what has love got to do with this,after all,i am buying it.So most times it all about money for our girls and what they can get fröm you.And you trying to get your money's worth.So it has become a game.How sad!

IZUKWU:

It is quite appaulling,i mean i was going after a girl and when she was to agree she told ME that i should care for her and that it is when she sees that i care for her that she can care for me in return. To her caring for her means giving her money for hair,cream,cloth,soap etc. Buying her suya,ice cream,credit etc.The girl no gree make i touch her till i gave her money for hair.Now a month into the r/ship i have spend about #10,000 on her. Imagine my surprise when she called me õne night asking me to send her love text sms. I wäs like what has love got to do with this,after all,i am buying it.So most times it all about money for our girls and what they can get fröm you.And you trying to get your money's worth.So it has become a game.How sad and disheartening.

Inked_Nerd:

@Everyone: There is no one particular gender to blame. As a society we are all to blame so all this finger pointing is a waste of time. I think some of you who have read sandraa's have taken it too a whole different level. She wasn't trying to say that as we as women should be blood sucking leeches she was only pointing out that as a society we teach our men to care for women and teach our women that when man can shower you with things whether its gifts, food, money, etc. it equals love. I have an aunt who used to live in Nigeria, when she was young, many men used to ask for her hand in marriage and a lot of them thought that the best way to her heart was by buying her gifts. Well, they were wrong because even she could see though all of the gift giving. Its not the just the women who need to reevaluate how the operate, it is the men as we. Seems like some of you have used the lack of female responses to this thread as a means of trying to prove your point.

No one is ignoring the thread. I've read through what you've written both on page one and page two at time some of the things you mention come across a generalizations.