The advice above is for a certain someone i know too well and i hope she reads this. This babe is d sweetest, prettiest, gudnatured girl av eva seen and i've known her a looong time.
Unfortunately, i don't think she knows dat too much sweetness wil run her down in this world. She's intelligent and articulate; evrybody talks of how respectful she is. Bak in uni, she was a bookworm. Her 1st boyfrnd ws at 21.  
Now to the bad part. Her 1st boyfrnd wud take her on marathon walks on campus without even offering her water yet dis chick was nt even fazd. Their very first valentine 2geda, a guy who confided in me dat he had been watchin her and rily liked her invited her out 4 a date. But she declined, telling him 'i'm hooked'.
I stil remember her shining face as she told me dat evnin; 'tae, am so excited, my 1st val and its with some1 i lov'. Her boyfrnd howeva disappeard into thin air thru out val and was MIA for 3 days. No text, notin. D guy ws stingy 2 d core. He lata turned up, apologetic and attempted 2 pluck her a flower near his house for valentine.
TO BE CONTINUED.

so far you've listed two men who are involved with her.

are you sure this is the right thread title.

obviously she needs to dump the boyfriend.

He was apologetic and baby girl forgave him. I watched as she was hurt ova and ova. He wouldnt cal and wen she did, he wud sound like she ws a disturbance. She wouldnt learn. If a nice guy comes to ask her out, dat ws wen nmba 1(her 1st boyfrnd) wud pick up signals lyk d frog he is and becom attentiv to her. She wud den stay back with him.
Bt eventually, even she(madam angel) had enuf and she left.
In comes boyfriend nmba 2.
Nmba 2 was very intelligent and a radical. madam angel spent long hours talking 2 him, hearing his theories and learning new things; cooking for him and his friends. Nmba 2 wsnt stingy, he however had light pockets. As usual, madam angel wasnt fazd. 'my baby's not rich bt he has prospects', she would tel me. And even i cudnt fault d relationship. Dey became the envy of evrybody, cuddling and always whispering like thieves. They were inseperable.

@poster
- if she has no problem with dating a "financially strained", why do YOU care so much?
- why would you think that she should spend Val with someone other than her BF? The fact that he disappeared is irrelevant.

Let her live her own life and make her own choices (even if BF is not perfect), SHE is truly happy and that's what should matter to you(friend). So give her your advice and let her make her own decisions.

mr brown jay-d whole story isnt finishd yet, pls hear me out?

^^i am all hears. . . .

Ears

Even i (cynic dat i was) was blown away. Byfrnd numba 2 seemed like the real deal. They were nt having se.x, yet they were so close. It was unbelievabl dt they were not intimate, i wondered how she was kipin him lockd down. I was jealous of them, their long walks hand in hand and how they always talked about the future. I began 2 emulate her, mayb as a gud girl, i wud also find my knight.

Funny post!

. . . . . . . Waiting. . . . . . Patiently waiting for the bomb to drop.

Even though nmba 2 was always attached 2 her lyk a leech, dat didnt deter toasters. I noticed her turn man after man down. Bankers. Oil guys. Dose guys seemed like they wantd 2 wife her.
R u sure about dis? I asked. You kno 'nmba 2' isn't financially capable 2 settle down just yet. He only has his ideas and what is that worth in this country?
Madam angel's answer astounded me. 'tae, she said, I hav 2 b content wit wot my man has. Wil i leav just becaus a richer guy is askin me out? D devil u know is better dan the angel u dnt kno'. I cant kip jumpin evrytym a richer man calls'.
Atleast, give dose toasters a chance, i advisd.
'tae, i know wot dose men want and I cant double date', she answered with a tone of finality.
I wonderd if she was sane, i wondered what was so special about nmba 2.
bt in d end, i respectd her for stance.

@OP Has the story ended now?

^^ nah, the bomb hasn't dropped yet but its getting there, any minute now!

If this was a movie or novel I'd be so asleep!

A few obvious things

1. Lashontae is no american
2. Lashontae is probably male
3. This is another cock and bull thread trying to create unnecessary fear in someone.

i watched (somewhat enviously) as they got deeper into the relationship. It was hard not to get jealous; they had chemistry, they had friendship. They seemed to hav evrytin. Evrybody was sure they were walkin 2 d alter. His friends told him; she was a keeper, a wifey. I told her he was 'ok'. They talked kids, they talked house. What had started be4 my eyes became deeply serious.
However

nmba 2 woke up and decided he wasnt worthy of a girl like madam angel. 'I nid 2 find myself', he pleaded as she burst into tears.
'Tae, what did i do wrong', she askd me as she wept on my shoulders later on.
Nothing, i answerd. It took all i had in me not 2 tell her she shudnt av been al 'miss goody 2 shoes' wit him. No man deservs dat! It only got her to jiltsville!

What sort of a play is this?

methinks if she hadnt been so focusd on being a perfect, good, little girlfriend. If she hadnt been so bent on loyalty 2 a guy who wasnt even deserving, the story might b different. I mean, why would a girl stay loyal 2 a man who wudnt stay loyal 2 d promises he'd made her.
Nmba 2 probably got bored shi.tless out of his brains wit her gud little ways.
Anyway, we'l move on 2 nmba 3.

Yes, lets.

madam angel, u nid 2 move on, i told her. Dnt waste any mor tym flogging a dead horse. Move on, finding happiness is the ultimate revenge against d one that hurt you.
A couple of weeks later, jst to overcome d sadness of d whole situation, she acceptd a date with a young, suave young man. Well spoken, well mannered; he seemed smitten with her.

She told me she wasnt rily ready for another relationship. But she wasnt going to allow nmba 2 ruin her from having a loving, trusting relationship. She wasnt going 2 run away from men just because number 2 hurt her. So gradually, she opened a portion of her heart 2 nmber3, even though it was still largely occupied by nmba2.
This turned out 2 b her undoing!

D relationship was later 2 become a long distance one but madam angel didnt feel it. Nmba3 showered her with calls and attention. Jst a few months into d relationship, nmba3 invited her 2 meet his parents.
It was abit too early for dat, bt we reckoned d trip wud also help her get to kno nmba3 beta.
'I want to kip it real', she informed me as we sorted through her closet 2 pick clothes for the trip. I dont want to take just natives, as if i dont wear jeans. After all, d day nmba3 met me, i wasnt wearing native' (dats my frnd, always tryin 2 b plain).
I agreed wit her and she eventually travelled down 2 meet them.

*raises an eyebrow*

Were you monitoring her life or were you siamese twins?

So according 2 what madam angel told me, she rily had d niciest time. His family fell in love wit her big time. And during the trip she became alot closer 2 nmba3. She however ws uncomfortabl dat nmba3 wud pounce on her al d tym, demanding for se.x. Midmorning, aftanun, night, midnight, dawn-nmba3 always was askin 2 sleep wit her. She had told him from d 1st day she didnt want a sexual relationship. He had agreed but now,she was virtually sleep deprivd, because with the way his hormones were raging, she was scared he would forcefully put 'd tin' inside her if she dares sleep deeply.

Dayokanu,

You are here again and again,
anyway bawo ni things.


@Poster

My eyes are opened.

'tae, am tired. she lamentd on d fone. I only get to sleep wen he's at work. He's always jumping al over me, gettin on top of me, asking dat i shud atleast let him 'put in d tip'. I tink il leav his house. I cnt take it anymor.
Look, ur nt sixteen, i admonishd. Uv got 2 do it somtym and he seems lyk he's serious wit u. I actually tink its romantic dat he cant kip his hands off u, i replied.

'tae, am tired. she lamentd on d fone. I only get to sleep wen he's at work. He's always jumping al over me, gettin on top of me, asking dat i shud atleast let him 'put in d tip'. I tink il leav his house. I cnt take it anymor.
Look, ur nt sixteen, i admonishd. Uv got 2 do it somtym and he seems lyk he's serious wit u. I actually tink its romantic dat he cant kip his hands off u, i replied.

Na wa o. I just saw this story started 4 hours ago. When does it end  ?