A serious problem with naija guys nowadays is this. . . .

^^^^Ah ah, so you mean he still never lose weight? Sorry ooh kpele
Sis, no vex, but e be like say you ma sef get small wahala: how slim girl like you go de allow im fatty bf de fit run still catch am for house, abeg how you want de guy get motivated when you still de always guarantee am toto reward for dis small effort.
Abi you too don de put on weight? If not how him still de fit catch you so easily.

i can't and don't do fat guys.

women so superficial these days

oh well

Av tried d iron hand thang (placing him on a diet wheneva am around) but he jst goes out and gets whatever food he wants. Den i told him at the rate he's blowin up, no more intimacy very soon. He said i was becomin a nag.
I mean d whole thin's a big joke 2 him, he does weird belly dance/jiggles for me nwadays wen i complain about his weight. I know its meant to make me smile, but I dont find it funny.
He likes chasing me around the house, yelling 'big daddy's comin for you' and i run and dodge rily hard because i sincerely don't want to b caught for anoda dose of punishment + afta the chase he's rily sweaty and he's wheezin, literily out of breath, and dats not sexy at all. (the chase is about d only exercise he gets).

this is too funny

ekt_bear:

women so superficial these days

oh well

lol men r even worse.

@topic,
where did he travel out to? what was he eating over there.
u will need to be extremely strict abt his diet. make sure he exercises as well.

But that has always been the case. Men have always been superficial

women aren't that superficial. I don't think op is superficial. her concerns r legit. did u read this part:

he does weird belly dance/jiggles for me nwadays wen i complain about his weight. I know its meant to make me smile, but I dont find it funny.
He likes chasing me around the house, yelling 'big daddy's comin for you' and i run and dodge rily hard because i sincerely don't want to b caught for anoda dose of punishment + afta the chase he's rily sweaty and he's wheezin, literily out of breath, and dats not sexy at all.

lol

Op.why are u having sleeping with your bf? Are u Christain? Its not right to sleep with someone u're not married to. He may be someone else husband. Besides our body is the temple of God. Hope u understand!

divalishis: I have tried, but i don't think i can take this any more. When i first stated going out with my boyfriend, it was cute cos he was so big and manly and I had never dated a guy that literally had 2 lift me up just to give me a kiss. During walks, i was tucked into his side protectively as i am 5'5 and he's about 6'3. He was smoking initially but then he stopped before he eventually traveled out.
While he was gone, we chatted a lot on phone and on the net.
I couldn't wait to have him back, I missed him so much.
However, when he came back, I was shocked. He looked like somebody's daddy, like 3 Fat Joes rolled into one. As for me, obese men aren't just my cup of tea. I noticed it on webcam, but i never knew it was so bad.
Being intimate with him is a struggle. D first time, i felt like i was being punished. Now, intimacy always feels like I'm being crushed by a huge, sweaty blob of jelly like flesh. I cant hide my disgust anymore when i see his massive tummy hanging ova his belt. D size of that tummy alone is another story. Its a nightmare!
He's not even making an effort to lose weight, always slurping down huge amounts of gin and coke.

hahahahaha u knw hapi say u c boyfrend. Other girls dey look for one even if na orobo. U wnt manage d one u have, dey dia.

divalishis: .
D first time, i felt like i was being punished. Now, intimacy always feels like I'm being crushed by a huge, sweaty blob of jelly like flesh. I cant hide my disgust anymore when i see his massive tummy hanging ova his belt. D size of that tummy alone is another story. Its a nightmare!
He's not even making an effort to lose weight, always slurping down huge amounts of gin and coke.

just lift the tummy and hold on to it

We al kno d health risks involvd in bein obesed.Pls discus wt him dat u love him&dats d reason 4 ur concerns.Mayb u shld gt a physician 2 help u in dat aspet