Everrich96:
I'm just disappointed at how some people come into your life genuinely at first and in the long run they try to run you by blackmailing you emotionally because they've got this strong entitlement mentality.

Below is attached, screenshots of the chat I had with a lady who posed to be a "caring friend".
We met barely 3months ago, and in one week she was already making demands , cuz when she met me , I might have given off a notion of being successful cuz things were really working fine with me. She asked me to take her out , I tried to ignore cuz I was loyal to my girlfriend, now EX. Eventually after black mailing me emotionally, I gave in.

There were times she really cared and there were days when I tested her patience whenever she requested for financial favour and I didn't give in, she became mean and impatient. Recently , things have been really hard for me, and I can't even pay my rent, and I lost so much money to bad investments and I can't even afford a good meal. I'm just a final year student singly helping myself and no one's helping out , i've got exams by the corner and my girlfriend just broke up with me. So much heartbreaking events . She claimed to be my friend yet she kept looking for means to extort me, and She's got a boyfriend .

Just Last week, she called me for the first time in 2weeks since . She was acting all caring and next she tells me she's broke and she's looking for capital to buy make up kits , I tried to ignore. Next thing she starts saying " you cant ask me how much I need.. bla bla" , I then told her all the aforementioned problems I'm going through...She started crying that truly I was going through alot.

Fast forward to this night , she flashed me and I called her back . She started saying stuffs like she's craving Shawarma etc. I ignored , she complained. She requested other stuffs which I ignored and tried to skip the convo. She said she would come see me , but I've got to book an Uber. Had to remind her of my current status and things aint funny anymore , but I can book her uber when she would leave only if she came using a public trans. We ended the convo..


Moments later, she chatted me on Whatsapp to recharge her phone. I couldn't take it, I had to give her a piece of my mind, she felt offended and she blocked me. Like, why make it an obligation to always try to take something from me? The least or most you could be as a "friend" is to be supportive than being a parasitic leech!!

You are only complaining now and calling her leech because you don't have the money again.

Something tells me that it is guys like you who like to oppress other guys by showing off how much money they are spending on their bitches like it's a competition to overspend on them bitches.

This lady is professional in guilt trapping I swear . See how she made her self to become the victim and the innocent that was offended. lol.
I tell you this :
You need to be firm with this kind I swear.
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And, I can bet that , since you known this lady, she has not contributed anything either , with financially or materially , to your life.
It's tepical

Everrich96:
It didn't end there.i had to pour out my heart via my second WhatsApp line before equally blocking her off...

I love this your reply and how you arranged it.
Now, gather yourself and keep your head together, study for those exams and I wish you well in them.

No allow woman matter trouble you boss now o. Most girls you will meet at this your stage and point in time won't be reliable or faithful to you.

You can make friends with females of course but, you must have your boundaries and be firm because, it will help to to win their gimmicks and emotional blackmail.
it's typical.

[quote author=etrange post=99642388]Lol... this escalated too quickly and that's probably what you get when you fill your head with the things NL boys say onhere to the point that you make a mountain out of everything (not saying that's OP's c



Sorry sir, why you go talk like that? Tell me.

Spending123:
Nigerian girls are useless all of them.

In mosdii voice

Randy91:

In mosdii voice

In Mosdii's anthem.

karkinase:

Na so o..if you must shag women in this present time then you need money. Nothing like Redpill or mind games.

Fact. 100% fact,

I don't understand this relationship. She is not your family or gf but she has asked for money and it doesn't appear to be a one-off event.

How did this happen?

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Everrich96:


I think you've got more depressing issues to bother about ma'am. Put your self together or move .I'm certainly not the cause of your frustration over life.

Why are u struggling to accept the truth ?

Kelvin3476:
Why are u struggling to accept the truth ?

Whose truth?

Everrich96:


Sorry, that's not love. You're gonna get dumped soon and you'd be at loss. You're trying to play the saviour in the relationship but in return she probably doesn't give 2fvck about you in your lowest moments. A girl that can't build with you but wants to always extort you at the slightest chance. ..

Sorry mr 50/50 u will marry ur class sha

Everrich96:


Sorry, that's not love. You're gonna get dumped soon and you'd be at loss. You're trying to play the saviour in the relationship but in return she probably doesn't give 2fvck about you in your lowest moments. A girl that can't build with you but wants to always extort you at the slightest chance. ..

Poor man says he his been extorted..my man u need to earn and stop thinking small.. men are providers .. women are keepers .. find yourself a keeper.. don't expect your woman to build ur future for you

Came4apost:


Sorry mr 50/50 u will marry ur class sha

How can someone be this Dumb and stupid like you? Christ!!

Came4apost:


Poor man says he his been extorted..my man u need to earn and stop thinking small.. men are providers .. women are keepers .. find yourself a keeper.. don't expect your woman to build ur future for you

You're being very silly.