Relationship hasn't been an easy thing no matter how people claim to be enjoying it. So many people who are in a relationship deal with a lot of things from their partners which could be, hot temperament, nagging, abuse, domestic violence etc. Domestic violence which many see as what the women alone suffer in the hands of men, seems to be changing its course in recent times as men too suffer domestic violence from their girlfriends, especially if she's one that can't easily control her temper.
A South African man took to Twitter to narrate how his girlfriend abused him, domestically after they had an argument. He stated that he even stabbed him, poured him hot water she's boiling that he earlier thought was for coffee, and a host of others.
See below:

https://omambala.ng/blog/we-had-an-argument-this-morning-and-my-girlfriend-did-this-to-me-man/

This is toxic and abusive. The lady is heartless and wicked, if she can boil water for this purpose, I can only imagine how far she will go. Better quit the relationship to avoid you dying untimely. Don't die early cos me I won't bother typing RIP for you.

Watch how the girl will come back and shed crocodile tears and offer him make-up sex and watch how this same man will change his mind with "I love her so much" instead of him to cut his losses and take to his heels.

A word the say is enough for the Wise,
I'll be here to read his story on Nairaland Front page if he refuses to do the needful.

From Love Birds to Angry Birds

And btw, this is one side of the story, if the guy himself has been a cool guy, his girlfriend won't dare to do such thing like this to him though not justifying the lady's abuse

ehnn sorry

Na waooo this xenophobic lady get mind oooo ...

Oga

Did u respond in self defence in equal measure or with disproportionate force


If u did respond, did your reaction lead to the neutralisation of your lover, cos I can't see her in the pic.

You better run for your dear life,

I thought Nigerian girls are the most heartless creatures but South African girl have taken over

......and the future is female

I still wonder why people stay in abusive relationship. the next one it's your corpse that will be carry.

Jeon:
ehnn sorry

Hypocrisy you just say ehnn sorry , if reverse is the case now , confused people

Are we to advise him to leave her or he doesn’t just have sense to know he suppose to

God forbid but if I'm the one I will pour my own hot water back o.

Up to him to decide to leave or not,na we be your best plug for everything sexual enhancement tho

If you are still interested in her big ass, go and marry her.
Show some men death face to face, they will say auction how much?

I have just one advice for you..
Run

Any victim of domestic violence is 50% responsible for the violence.

Because you had it coming but kept deceiving yourself... that it won't happen to you or that your partner will change?

Sorry, they won't change.

They don't respect you.

How can you claim you love me and be comfortable to see my cry?

Yes we all have challenges and battles in relationships but, not violence. Abeg.

I thank God for my life sha.

A real man doesn't cry, a real man cannot be abused, it's just small wound Na it will soon go, what did he do to her, where him keep e eye, men no d stay 1 place.......
These are comments and opinions you hear when such things like this happens, men suffering but it's a taboo to cry out I guess that's why men commit more suicide Dan women.
Now if this were to be a woman all hell will break lose, double standards.

Abuse of any form should be frowned on. Feminist dem take note

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The FUTURE IS FEMALE afterall.

Most times na we guys dey put ourselves in a tight corner once we find ourself in a relationship. Always strive to be in control in whatever relationship you find your self and most importantly know when to retreat but holla some will just be believing things will.change nwanne nothing is changing even ApC that promise Nigerians change how far

Qatar2022:

Hypocrisy you just say ehnn sorry , if reverse is the case now , confused people

you are a goat.. what do you want me to do
and you are the confused soul here.

THE FUTURE IS FEMALE

will be very glad if it was a Nigerian man.

make both of them get out

Nawa oooo

Temperamental issues.

InfernoNig:
This is toxic and abusive. The lady is heartless and wicked, if she can boil water for this purpose, I can only imagine how far she will go. Better quit the relationship to avoid you dying untimely. Don't die early cos me I won't bother typing RIP for you.

she needs to be arrested and jailed

Jeon:


you are a goat.. what do you want me to do
and you are the confused soul here.

THE FUTURE IS FEMALE

will be very glad if it was a Nigerian man.

Future is female with people like you? Empty brain, jobless, sex addict

Qatar2022:

Future is female with people like you? Empty brain, jobless, sex addict

so you are a sex addict no wonder u are jobless because ur brain is empty..
stupid hegoat