Hey guys, this is my first post in this forum, never through I would be posting a topic like this one, anyways, I have got a big problem, Im 19 almost 20 YO, and Iv never really had a girlfriend. Iv probebly had 1000 of opportunities to hook up with a girl but I dont have the guts to go up to her and simply say "Hi" I was at a bar a couple of days ago and this girl looks at me, and I knew she was intrested, but then I say " should I go talk to her or not?" so I start making up reasons not to go talk to her because im a BIG COWARD! Well you guys probebly think im a big baby and I do agree with you, but really the reason why I posted this topic is to know a little bit more about this iincredibly hard chalange "for me". What would you say to a girl you never met before in your life? All of a sudden my brain turns off and Iv got nothing to say.....


Thank you veary much!

o'l boy wat a way 2 catch a girl, if i was d lady i would be interested in knowin wat made u so bold
so hogar maybe u shld use ijiele's rules it just might work cos ladies love bold and charmin guys
goodluck buddy

ijele:

Be a man! don't expect postive answer immediately but you ve made an impact.
don't forget to flash your best smile,dim your eyes while talking.

I assume u like her genuinely not just for pairing sake.

Dont expect any answers. Ladies usually answer No verbally but YES in action. You want her so go for her and dont say NO till its over.

Like I have said a million times. Just make friends first. Dont sttart with I love U, I want u lines. Helloooo! (using lizzy's line) you hardly know me.

Well okay Il try my best, thanks alot you guys!

u're welcome[as if i gave an advise ]

i love you scatter i love you die, oya, talk your own!!

Believe me with Ijele's advice you can conquer any girl you come across.

Ijele you must be a philosopher,

O boy, i fear you, How many girl friends do you get?

Try to be friends with them first.

once u get comfy with her, then u can tell her how u feel.

D easiest thing on earth , lol

Be Bold
Have a good communication skill like you can use anything around her or maybe the designer's of the cloths she is wearing to start a conversation with her or if she is in the Bar then use the drink she is sipping , but first start with a decent smile saying hello , then simple say to her do you mind if i ask you a question , she will say sure cos she will be curious on what your question is about , then tell her you see this design she is wearing a few times but don't know what the name of the Designers is does she mind telling you ,She will tell you the name then you say Thank you with a smile looking directly into her eyes , Tell her she looks beautiful in the designer's cloth and then proceed to introducing yourself by telling her your name and then ask for hers ,
Mantain a strong and Firm eye Contact ,

Interesting.

denony:

Believe me with Ijele's advice you can conquer any girl you come across.

Ijele you must be a philosopher,

O boy, i fear you, How many girl friends do you get?

It is not the matter of being a philosopher in toasting a babe, the real fact is keeping it simple and interesting. too much grammer fit disqualify you , because some babes dey funny .

peelovee:


It is not the matter of being a philosopher in toasting a babe, the real fact is keeping it simple and interesting. too much grammer fit disqualify you , because some babes dey funny .

Gmam!

@poster,
i no blame you sha,you never see anything,no worry with experience you will get over it.Just be confident of youself na d magic be that and be a man.